Literally crying right now

84  2018-03-18 by superman1145

It’s finally catching up to me. I’m 25 years old and I’m a virgin, everyone around me in college is hooking up while I’m in my room playing video games. I can’t take this anymore

354 comments
 > 25 

 > still in college

 > still virgin

Praying for you.

Pharmacy takes 8 fucking years

Cheer up, you'll totally be slaying pussy once you've graduated and are standing behind the counter at Costco everyday dispensing pills for Stacey's "depression"

I know ur being sarcastic but I’d genuinely be shocked if I made it to 26

Hang in there. I want to cry but I can't even force myself to, it's actually worse feeling depressed all the time but unable to cry.

Hang in there dude lmao literally

step one. get off this sub and never ever interact with someone who describes himself as incel. step two. get therapy.

there is no shame in being a virgin, im rooting for you, you can stay away from this and get a life you do enjoy. surround urself with people youd like to be like. not... this.

there is no shame in being a virgin

Said the virgin.

hahaha not since i was seventeen, but it really shouldn't make u feel less of a person if you are. one of my friends is 27, she's gorgeous and waiting to get married to have sex.

Your first comment was good, trying to help OP. Your second comment was pretty weak, "hahaha" when he called you a virgin. Saying a girl chose to be a virgin even though she's gorgeous isn't helping anyone. Props for good intentions though.

thanks, i just wanted to point out that sex isnt the be-all, end-all of human existence and ppl DO choose celibacy voluntarily. imagine putting so much ammount of physical and mental anguish on a single goal, getting sex, then it disappoints you. sex is pretty cool, but it's ephemeral. comes and goes. there's nothing to it if you don't love the person you're fucking. sex for sex's sake is great, but if it stresses you (getting it or doing it) it just looses its purpose.

I totally agree man, look at monks, they are literally some of the most at-peace individuals on this planet with zero sex. It really comes down to your mind state, and most of these guys are choosing to be miserable. The ironic this is their attitude towards sex and women is what keeps them isolated. This sub is so fucked, misery feeding on more misery, quite sad.

the sad part is that some guys appear to desire getting better, trying new shit, but there are several ppl who feel offended m bc of this and try their best at pulling them back down. i was just told i would be responsible for a suicide. just for telling some dude i believed in him and that he could turn everything around if he left bad influences (incels) behind.

sometimes understanding or caring becomes hard af when u stumble upon ppl like that.

Yep, as the saying goes, "misery loves company". Keep planting seeds though, maybe it will help someone.

Actually I lost my virginity fairly recently and found a girlfriend for the first time in my life. I'm an incredibly more happy person now.

one of my friends is 27, she's gorgeous and waiting to get married to have sex.

LOL

starving to death in the desert and bitching on the internet about girls not wanting to fuck a weird stranger is NOT the same. shame on you.

i know what an analogy is... you do not know how to make a sensical one

Your anecdata is a shit-tier example anyway.

Shame on yourself. Stfu no one wants your shallow self righteous opinion or pretending to care advice. Get the fuck out already.

you're part of the reason for my suffering

how come? i'd really like to see you get your life together man. if i can do anything to help, im all ears. shit, i can even tell you all the crap that made me feel in a way similar to what u guys feel rn. i just comment because i believe in you.

see I fucking told you niggas, normies are all killing us, just leave us alone, OP won't fucking die when we've got his back

YOU are making him creep slowly towards death. if you want to die a sad, lonely man, great! don't try to take others down just bc ur miserable.

you're gonna kill him tonight man, fuck it I guess you're not even hiding it, I hope you like the blood on your hands

hahaha wow, you are actually fighting for your "right" to continue making this guy feel miserable. i truly believe he's just a bit misguided, obviously feeling like shit, but i know he's strong enough to get out of this and am willing to help as much as possible.

holy, op might not make it!

fuck off you dont know shit and you try to help your fucking help we v seen it 1000000 times , i bet you arent even older than OP, you can help by fucking off this sub before killing another person fuckinh SCUM

im 31 bro

So someone offers you good advice and you instantly blame them for you being the way you are. Yeah that’s why you’re crying alone in your room

Literal empty, normie tier advice. You think stepping out of what may be the only community that understands what this guy is going through and stepping into a social scene that is as vicious as a pack of starved wolves will be beneficial to him? Without the support structures that normies take for granted the only thing that will happen is he'll crash and burn and end up worse than how he started.

Fuck outta here with that shit.

l understand him, kinda... hanging out with people that don't wanna see him better himself won't get him anywhere in life. this is why i offered him.support if he wanted.

"I understand him"

suggests paying out the ass for a friend-for-hire (therapist)

Yeah nah, therapy only works on failed normies with support structures to hold them up during and after therapy. People like us, already rejected by society, have nothing but our copes and the rope waiting for us back home after leaving the shrink's office.

What he needs isn't your normie-tier "support". Fuck off.

well, i DO believe in him. if you don't, that's your problem, but quit trying to put him down. if you feel like a loser and like it, great, but don't project it on other ppl that would like to better themselves.

but don't project it on other ppl

I swear if we had a reddit drinking game, where you had to take a shot everytime someone used the word 'project' or 'you're projecting' I would need a stomach pump. The majority don't even know what a projection is, they just took psych 101, maybe read Freud and think everything is a projection. It really is a bad joke.

You do believe in him and you post on a sub that bullies. How fucking dare you.

inceltears does make fun of radicalized incels, those who advocate rape and such... but if someone has a will to change before becoming a monster... there's hope and i do believe in them and ffs i am willing to help as much ss i can.

you are not a good person, don't fucking pretend to be. Fuck off and never comment here

i never said i was a good person, i am a shit person by societies standards, actually, but i've felt what you guys feel (to a much LOWER degree) and just want to help out. why are u so defensive?

you might not give a shit, but i hope you do better. if no one else does, i DO care about how ur doing. PM me if need be.

You're a piece of shit lol

These normies mate, T-minus 11 hours until my alarm-cuck announces the beginning of a new workweek and instead of relaxing with my incel bros I have to suffer through stale platitudes and retarded optimism. Fuck I hate these people

Get out REEEEEEEEEEE

DO NOT DO THIS OP. If you pay for therapy you are more pathetic than a john. Because your paying for a femoid to yap their worthless mouths at you.

I can not stress enough how much I am seconding this.

The best advice I can possibly give you is, go work out. It's not to get buff, that's not the point (though if you'll build a little muscle you've got that in the pocket). The point is is that it will make you feel better about yourself and trust me on this, that is the biggest problem of everyone on this sub. You can wallow in your own self-pity, or stubbornly try to do something. And that is not going to happen overnight.

As a start, buy two weights (like 2,5 kilo each) and start a workout routine. The satisfaction of keeping to a routine like that will also help you immensly. I recommend this workout: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l0gDqsSUtWo

Try to do that at least twice a week, three if at all possible.

Again, I can't stress this enough, getting buff is not the point. It'll help you build confidence in that you are at least making an effort in trying to improve yourself, because I can garantee that you are not the Elephant Man.

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I've been doing exercise (partly lifting) for about 6 years now. It definetely made me feel better about myself, but it didn't get me laid.

That being said, OP should probably try anyways. He just shouldn't expect some miracle to happen.

Indeed, it will not be a miracle. This advice will not solve all your problems, but it'll send you on the road to improvement instead of just sitting there pitying yourself, that is the only thing that I can guarantee you will not help.

It's hard cope. Gymcelling does nothing for you if you're ugly. Women will treat you with the same contempt as they have before.

THERAPY.... HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!

Therapy and psychology is a MEME. Intellectual and introspective people see RIGHT THROUGH that absolute scam.

Therapy = "professional" dishing out coping mechanisms that will have no impact on how you are treated.

You will STILL be treated like shit, only now you'll RATIONALIZE it as something good because some snakeoilsalesman psych told you it was "positive" to get rejected.

HAHAHAHA. THERAPY!!! HAHAHAHAHAHA

wow, you sure told me off!

‘Dishing out copin mechanisms’ uhh yeah that’s how it works. You find something that helps you overcome a struggle and you do that everytime you need to. A way of coping. Everything is a coping mechanism, drink, drugs, exercise, writing, building.

there is no shame in being a virgin

What planet are you living on? It's certainly not Earth, that's for sure. Literally 100% of people that you will ever have a possibiliy of meeting are going to think less of you for being a virgin.

maybe if you live in an american pie movie or hang out in incel forums... ppl may think its weird if ur like 25, but won't shame u over it.

So you're saying I've been living in a movie my whole life? What does it feel like to deny reality fam? Also, if you lost your virginity when you were 17, how the fuck do you know how people react to you being a virgin at 25? Last question: could you stop being a bullying, subhuman piece of shit and kill yourself already?

im not bullying you ffs! im trying to tell you that its okay being how you are. good people, like myself, will never judge you for being a virgin! we will judge you if you advocate rape, though.

It's okay being a broken, useless person who will never amount to anything? I guess I learn something everyday lol. Also, I don't give a shit what good people think, because they don't exist outside of internet - at least I've never met any. Also also, pretending that somebody isn't suffering (and trying to convice them that they are not) when they obviously are, is a form of bullying.

yeah. it's okay. it's only "bad" when you take to heart what superficial ppl think of you as there is no good or bad outside of someone's mind. why would you put more weight on a persons opinion when they call you freak or loser? im saying you can get better and brushing me off! shit!

There are no "non-superficia"l people. Everybody judges you by the cover, it was always the case and it will never change.

why would you put more weight on a persons opinion when they call you freak or loser?

When the entire world says you are a freak, the world might be up to something. How arrogant it would be for me to assume that all those people (pretty much everyone I know, have known and will know) are wrong about me being useless?

im saying you can get better

Try living in my skin for 24 years and then we will talk if you can recover from being a wreck or not. If a kid doesn't learn how to walk when it's 3, it's fucking stupid to expect it will learn to walk when it's 13, 23 or 33 or ever.

ok, it seems you like to wallow in shit. have at it! if you are ever tired i can offer some friendly advice bro.

Hell yeah, I love living in hell, it was totally my choice and I like it here, neck-deep in crap. You sure told me boi, tell all your friends how much you burned dat loser on the internet!

wow... chill.

like NO friend of mine ever hears about my "internet life" bro...

this sub is the only reason i didny kill myself because of you fucking normies how fucking hearthless do you have to be jesus

you just made OP more suicidal with this comment , i hope you are proud.

Dude really sorry you gotta go through that. I was once like that, thinking there’s no hope for me since all my friends are in my school’s football team and all jacked. Eventually though I had to get out of the mentality that I’m worthless and ugly, which helped me to find someone who I’m very happy with. I’m really sorry you’re going through this but the only way to find an SO or even make friends is to put yourself out there. Fine, you may not be 6”4, jacked, tan, etc., but there must be some quirk that people can find charming. The hard part is finding that quirk but after that it gets better, trust me. Feel free to pm me whenever you’re down, I’ll be glad to help!

I was once like that, thinking there’s no hope for me since all my friends are in my school’s football team and all jacked.

School

Normalscum stop trying to pretend that you can relate in anyway to the incel.

Dude maybe one of the reasons you may put others off is because you get naturally defensive.

Or maybe I am defensive because normies have forced me to have to be this way due to years of ostracism. You normalscum always mix up cause and effect.

Normies OUT!

Well, you generalize everybody that's not incel. I hope you realize someday that not every person you would deem "normal" is bad or thinks negatively of you. Wish you the best and hope you find your happiness!

Well, you generalize everybody that's not incel.

Normies do the same to us.

I hope you realize someday that not every person you would deem "normal" is bad or thinks negatively of you.

I already know this though.

Then what you're doing is that you're stooping down to the level of the people you dislike, be the better person then. You may know it, but you don't show it. The way you initially responded me clearly showed that you think that I think less of you, I don't. And neither do most people, to be honest, most people don't care.

Falsehoods. Normies regularly mock short, unattractive, virgin males. We are nothing but lowly subhumans to them.

For the most part, it's pretty much only you guys that think that about yourselves. Most people really don't care. Also, didn't you say that you knew people didn't think lowly of you? You may wanna change your attitude in order to actually live a productive and healthy life.

For the most part, it's pretty much only you guys that think that about yourselves.

If that were true then making jokes about short men, guys with small penises, virgin males, etc would not be common.

Also, didn't you say that you knew people didn't think lowly of you?

There are some normies that do not.

You may wanna change your attitude in order to actually live a productive and healthy life.

Typical normal shit.

Go away, normal. You do not belong here.

You honestly need help.

Wrong, you do.

the fact inceltears exists

they don't go on trp or mrp to tell them to stop

25 is a terrible milestone that i'd hate to meet. My day of birth is coming up soon though.

how close are you to roping, and how much closer did bbw_gaming's shit reply push you towards roping?

Fucking close as shit bro. Fuck that whore

see, the bitch is advocating for suicide

all normies are here to kill us, I'm telling you guys

should be grounds for demodding tbh

It wasn't a "shit reply". I have to force myself to get out of the house and socialize. That's why I go to Meetup groups.

I’m not allowed to do that you dumb whore I’m a fucking ugly male I don’t have a place on this planet

fuck you fatass, you pushed my brothercel closer to the ropes

Fuck you

Killer

Shut the fuck up

What meetup groups?

I belong to a singles group, and a 20s/30s general hang out group.

What kind of stuff do your groups do? Do you feel like it was worth it when you go?

Mostly restaurants. It's hard to do that when you're trying to lose weight.

Sounds like a waste of time then

It's about the socialization aspect.

just fuxking stop before you kill someone please dont post shitty plattitudes in a suicidal thread, please board !!!

Sorry man. How many more years of school until you're graduated?

1 more after this year.

So you're in the home stretch. It's a tough program. I have met like 30 pharmacists over the years for special consults -- I swear they are smarter than doctors.

I wish I knew what to say to cheer you up man.

I don't think there's is anything to say, but judging by what I've seen from your comments (assuming you're not larping), you're a fucking tough guy bro, I mean it. I wish you the best of luck, I really don't know how much longer I can go though , I am not cut out for this world

I'm only here because I can't kill myself. But I did learn some things in therapy (CBT) to help me manage. It doesn't change reality, but just my reaction to it. Have you considered it?

Why can't you? What disease do you have?

I have severe cerebral palsy, along with some other issues. I don't have enough control over my limbs to off myself. Or even enough control to swallow. I have had to learn to live in a body that doesn't work, and in a world that sees me as worse than useless.

How are you writing this right now?

Good question! I use an iPad and another device that aids with input. Some is typing, some is using common words. I used a big board when I was a kid, but this is better.

how is your stay in this sub , do you feel at home ?

Yes, the only people here who have given me a hard time are normies who do those "advice" threads. Fuck them.

True. I've been saved from a lot of unpleasantness more than once by my pharmacist, who gave me info that the doctor glossed over or ' forgot' to mention.

What games though...

Fortnite

Fuck you then

pc or con?

Console

lmao me too

Can you post a pic of urself?

I'm a white guy that has black guy features somehow especially the nose, I am 2.5/10

Sure I still wanna see you :)

I'll pass

Try Tindering in Thailand. See how you do.

Still think you're way better than you say though :)

are u argentinian? ive never heard eglantina out of Argentina.... i mean, i'm mexican but it's such a characteristic name!!

Lol actually eglantina is the European name of a Mediterranean rose which also called Nesreen in arabic, my name is Nesreen not eglantina :P

nesreen is also vvv pretty! are you from the mid east? bc its 2 am where im from, spent my night trying to help.incels but alas...

North African, self loathing is sickness these guys need serious help.

wow! ill hopefully be in africa (south africa) for the first time next summer, i hope i have the the resources to go all the way north, but i doubt it! anyways, such pretty names! 🙂

Oh you won't regret it! make sure to visit all the Maghreb countries ;) you're most welcome here ^

he is a 5.0-5.5/10 white guy. I've seen his picture

Oh wow then he really needs psychological help :|

I knew it

L-Logic?

PCel or consel?

Consel I can’t afford a fucking PC, fuck me dude

I feel you. It's fucked how even the shitty low end GPUs are the price of consoles nowadays.

Why not get out?

I’m too fucking ugly.

Pics?

And go where? If he doesn't have friends, going anywhere is just as lonely as staying inside, and he can't get into any parties because he's a male.

Just walk outside and stand on the pavement bro

Thanks for making laugh out the depression from this overly depressing thread.

maybe he lost his rope

literally me except i'm watching anime instead, it's over.

Look at these guys retarded responses in the thread. He seems like he is just here to mine (you)s from all of us. Either a retard of a troll from IT.

no he's really one of us, been seeing his posts for a while

I'm a 30 year old virgin playing video games holed up in my room so imagine how I feel bro.

At least ur able to orbit a girl, girls are scared of me

Try approaching girls in your class or at work. That's how I met my attractor.

That's how you met your what now?

Femoid I am orbiting.

Oh right, thanks!

There are ways to get therapy even if you're poor, it doesn't fix everything but it does make it a little less painful. Have you tried finding any low cost therapy in your city yet?

No therapy for my face

plastic surgery.

Doesn't work

im in similar spot. over.

Sorry bud.

I know that feel bro. I'm in the same situation. We are too pure for this world. Like angels that fell from heaven

happy late birthday man

what game are you playing

Fortnite dude, my roommate is fucking out again and I’m sitting here playing fortnite on a Saturday night, I can’t do this anymore

yeah college is absolute shit my dude, i remember my four years

you'll make it out of it though, just gotta adapt with the cope, switch games/go watch a movie or something, clearly it's not really keeping you that immersed

Watched tomb raider today all by my fucking self at the theater, normie and chad couples surrounding me, today was one of the first times I’ve went out for something besides school and I regret it so fucking much, everything is suicide fuel

theatres are normie central though, doesn't surprise me

was tomb raider good coz it kinda looked shit to me tbh

It was aight so unrealistic though a lot of cliches like the bad guy taking fucking centuries to kill good guy and good guy getting rescued at the last second, happened so many fucking times

hm

have you seen any decent movies recently because i'm actually fucking bored and i'm making a list of movies to watch

Rarely fucking watch movies usually just fortniteceling wouldn’t be able to tell u

how was the movie?

Was pretty good, cinema was sui fuel though

Are you ethnic? If you are its over even with your Pharma Degree. If you are white, just try with ethnics and below 5s.

I’m white, but stop fucking coping dumbass. If you’re average or slightly below looking ethnic you’re good enough for society, I’m subhuman trash destined to rot and I’m 6’0 white guy, cope somewhere else, not on my thread

shit is a lot harder for us white bois. I feel you bro

Go fuck Yourself.

Look at my pic in my post!

GET THE FUCK OUT WITH YOUR FUCKING FORWARD GROWTH AND YOUR TYRONE ESQUE LIPS AND EYE AREA, TRYING TO TAKE PICS AT THE WORST FUCKING POSSIBLE ANGLE AND STILL LOOKING FUCKING GOOD, GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE YOU ATTENTION WHORE SCUM. FUCKING POST ON IT YOU FUCKING CUNT

I’m a fucking virgin without a Chad jaw and you tell me to get out?

Are you fucking serious?!

2 guys arguing on why they are uglier than the other.

only on /r/BrainCels.

P.S. You can never get on a currycel level so stop fighting losers.

that's exactly how I know they're both incels lmfao

Imagine being a normie and seeing this conversation. How would one even being to comprehend this lmao.

I love this place here.

UR A FUCKING HIGH INHIB BLACK DUDE THATS A FUCKING DEATH SENTENCE TAKE THE REDPILL AND BEAT IT BUD

And you’re a fucking idiot.

Take your ass to an Asian country. Asians fucking worship white Men! Regardless of face.

I remember a Asian exchange student that came here and got banged by a white dude at his cabin.

Your fucking lazy and you know it.

Calm down man. You need help

GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY THREAD CUCK

trying too hard. Look like an IT implant.

blocked I don't have time for cancerous normies trolling me

retard or troll confirmed.

R/inceltears

There’s gotta be some other copers near you?

Relatable asf

I cry several times a week. Welcome to the club.

am exactly in you situation. no friends, and have social anxiety. going to the theater alone is something impossible for me.

Does your video game have 2 players? You could try to go out and make friends or maybe ask one of your friends to play with you? Being alone when you feel down is the worst thing to do bc you just end up thinking more about the bad stuff.

What do you look like, man? PM me a pic. I'll let you know whether you can salvage anything, or whether you should just LDAR and escortcel.

This type of shit doesn't help.

The truth always helps.

Throw the video game system out the window right now. Best move youl make

Then what will he have?

Thats where a life starts to happen

A life of a worker drone who doesn't get to experience fun things, yes.

not when you are ugly

But then I would do literally nothing all day.

Video games = avoiding reality.

Just like a drug addict.

Reality caught up

Cope. This is only true if you’ve no life IRL. Chad doesn’t play it to avoid reality.

There's no gym for your face bro. You're fucked.

i was feeling bad but now im eating mcdonalds

Just see escorts bro. Take the pussy off the pedestal. Once it is and once you truly give no fucks about women and sex you'll actually pick em up easier if that was ever your destiny.

pussy off the pedestal

pay for it, literally

You got one life.

Which is better: paying for pussy and experiencing a bit of that side of shit.

Or moaning about it daily on reddit.

Source: am escortcel

We can see your history fag

And?

paying for pussy is putting it on a pedestal paying for bubblegum is putting it on a pedestal

Paying for pussy is putting it on a pedestal if the alternative is not paying.

Incels don't have that alternative though.

You're much better off spending that money on plastic surgeries.

Everyone pays for pussy. Not always with greenbacks but we all pay for it.

Again, redpill bullshit. Chad doesn't pay for pussy.

Fuck off redpill fag.

i tried explaining that to these spergs and they dont want to hear it.

Whatever. It's the way of the world right now. More girls than ever being prostitutes. Who gives a fuck.

exactly. these hoes aint loyal

Don't worry, some day, you'll be completely cried out. You'll feel like shit, and feel like you should be crying, but the tears just don't come. At least you won't feel as pathetic, once you lose the ability to cry. Trust me, I have first-hand experience.

LOL...this is pretty much my state right now. Fuck..

Bro have u tried showering bro

become a homosexual

No degeneracy please

why

because its haram and abomination in gods eyes

Good thing God doesn’t exist.

i guess we were created out of thin air than. If scientist cant create a single living cell out of thin air, how do they expect me to believe it happened by accident.

There’s a big difference between believing in God and believing you know his opinion on two men/women loving each other.

its written in the quran which is gods words.

...says every religion ever in the history of human existence.

the torah and the bible are respected books in islam

Fuck your 'god', it can strike me dead where i'm standing if it wants, oh wait, it doesn't exist :) fucking hell allah, islam or whatever is retarded.

You mean your god wrote a book that instructs me how to live and explains the mysteries of human existence? Wow if I had known that imagine how different my life would be. Why don’t you do us a favor and kill yo self

Fuck off sand nigger

leave the holy one out of this

Huh?

Why?

Literally eating right now. It’s finally catching up to me. I’m 42 years old and I don't have a college degree or any expert knowledge, everyone around me is launching cars into space while I’m in my room playing video games.

My brain doesn't work as good as it once was, I know it when I'm reviewing my old work or reading old diary. I have less and less energy every day. I will never be as healthy and look as good as I do today, it's all downhill from here.

My life went down the drain while I was fucking women and playing video games.

At least you fucked women...

It felt amazing in the beginning, it felt meh mid way, it doesn't really matter to me now. Like, I'm too lazy to play the whole dating game even on the easiest difficulty, it's easier to rub one out and get it over with.

Incels won't agree with you, they literally put sex on a pedestal, worship it like it's some kind of magical remedy that can cure anything when they themselves know nothing about sex.

worship sex

You are retarded pretending to understand

Can you blame them?

Wanting something badly and being unable to get it while everybody seemingly have it in abundance tends to do that to people, it's just a human nature.

Unfortunately, for a male virgin, the more you crave for sex, the lesser your chances to get it. It's a catch 22.

I really see no problem in a virgin wanting to have sex really bad, but when that person's perception of sex is so limited to the point of thinking that it can solve literally everything, that is not healthy at all, and that kind of thinking should just stop, a few days ago i think someone posted on this sub that claims incels have it worse than Jews in concentration camps, just because the Jews didn't die virgins, just because the Jews had sex at some point in their lives. THAT is messed up, and I think a lot of other 'blackpilled' incels really think this way.

That’s a huge strawman you’re trying to force. You’re a fucking idiot who thinks that men should “just get over it” when they are deprived of a basic need.

Sex isn't really a "basic need", water and food are, you can live your whole life without having sex (shocking), and yes I guess I'm an idiot for thinking some incels should just 'GET OVER IT' when 'femoids' don't want to bed with some weird retarded strangers.

Yes it is. Lack of intimacy negatively affects men. It's been studied numerous times.

Some men can "leave behind" the "pleasures of the flesh" and go in the woods to be monks, but not all of them can.

I don't know about you but men who goes on the internet and talk all kinds of shit about women being whores and should not be allowed to be free to make decisions by themselves and should be "distributed" evenly to all men should be alone forever IMO, or go gay if they hate women that much, guys on this sub should just get rid of that 'blackpill' incel ideologies if they wish to have a gf.

That makes almost no sense man. My head hurts from reading it.

Nobody should be forever alone. Besides those guys weren't born with these ideas in their heads.

If going gay was an option many on this sub would have done it.

Guys on this sub were usually bluepill for years if not decades before becoming blackpilled.

There are a lot of disgusting human beings on this sub, and even more on incels.me, those are the people who should be alone forever because they are potential threat to society.

I didn't mean go gay as a serious suggestion, just a joke because people on here literally trash on women all the time, you'd think they fucking despise females and don't ever want to be with a female ever, that's what I think after seeing all the things they post anyway.

It saddens me that there are people who are convinced that 'blackpill' is the right way to go, it's one of the shittiest way to live imo, if you 'swallow the blackpill' you'd just become a shitty human being in and out, and hardly anybody could return from it.

Well think about it this way.

You're 30, you've only had 6 friends and maybe another 14 acquaintances. None of them has ever wanted to introduce you to a girl even though they knew you were single and appreciated you.

You go to college where you remain single. You try to approach girls a few more times and each goes worse than the last. A couple of girls are attracted to you but they wait for you to make the first move and barely even talk to you. You find out about this years later.

You get to 30 and find the incels subreddit. And TRP and the more you read, the more the dots connect.

What do you even mean by some men take the blackpill better? I don't understand why anyone would want to live like that, everybody seem to be bitter, hopeless and depressed, they just can't be helped, it's a miserable existence.

Why pine up my hopes on a hollow statement like "love will find you one day"?

The average adult has had 4 LTRs and 1 marriage by age 30. There is no "love" to find me, only a desperate, bored or crazy woman. And that's the best case scenario.

Women downplay the number of men they've been with. The meek plain girl in the corner ? She's been with 12 guys, kissed 6 and fucked 4 of them.

The fat girl at the table ? 15 guys, kissed 10, fucked 3 of them.

Guys like me ? 0, Zero, None, Nil, Null, Nada. No experience whatsoever. We come off as "creepy", "weird".

Some of us got desperate and paid a hooker just to feel a woman's touch. At least I did.

Women downplay the number of men they've been with. The meek plain girl in the corner ? She's been with 12 guys, kissed 6 and fucked 4 of them.

The fat girl at the table ? 15 guys, kissed 10, fucked 3 of them.

Don't tell me you actually believe this bullcrap, if you actually think 100% of girls and women are like this that's just pure stupidity.

I don't know any woman who is over 25 and hasn't had sex with at least 3 guys and hasn't dated at least 9.

Anecdotal evidence it may be but still...

Of course sex doesn't solve everything but it's an important part of human life. The fact that you personally think you "had your fill" doesn't invalidate the lack of intimacy felt by millions of heterosexual men.

The fact one idiot (or a buch of them) post stupid shit means nothing. Hell, Pewdiepie PAID PEOPLE to LITERALLY hold up and broadcast an anti-semite message.

But he's famous so he gets away with a slap on the wrist. And he's Chad, so obviously his GF won't leave him over an "innocent misunderstanding".

i feel you bro. Either cope or rope. Thats all whats left

Don't you get bored of video games? There are many other cool ways of escaping reality.

Anyway I feel you.

Like drugs

Drugs also help you get closer to chicks. And chicks on drugs aren’t always thinking clear. I’d check that scene out.

This reads like a call to rape someone. Is that a thing for incels too? Wow.

I believe he's talking about getting to hold a girl's hand.

No then I would have said use a roofie and a vodka cranberry. What I was writing about in the previous post was that long term drug use lowers women’s expectations and inhibitions so use that to your advantage. Nothing rapey just understanding human psychologyz.

You’re never going to meet anyone in your room playing games

Yet couples meet on WoW.

“See this statistically irrelevant group? HA!”

incels that get laid

Its fucking over

Why do you just bring more negativity

What negativity? If you are virgin at 25 its over.

What is over

It

Ahh yes thank you for thr clarification

I was in first year college and somewhat same, then met my girlfriend. Don’t give up man, this place will make you feel hopeless because anyone who finds hope gets kicked out and new hopelessness fills the void

7 years into college

I think it’s a tad easier in Ireland tbh. Easiest is Spain hands down though

why are you rubbing the fact you have a gf to a suicidal virgin? do you want him to kill himself ?

I’m not, I’m giving him reasons why it might have been more difficult for him.

Hahahaha who cares? I mean why would they want to fuck you because youre probably a neet

Future pharmacist, will probably make more money than you and your beta cuck combined you ugly who're

Congrats on the career goal.

Fuck off

Haha he told you to fuck off after you complimented him. He's crying about people not being nice to him then he throws it right back in peoples face.

The incel way

So I'm not sure. I all this shit real? I cant tell if these guys actually believe in this or if this is some sort of parody of human behavior. I've never actually met anyone who behaved like this outside of the internet so I'm assuming this is just how someone will feel inside without actually behaving on it.

Lol. Sounds like youre doing it so youll have a nice easy way to end your pathetic life. How about you man up and stop wasting data on the internet and hurry up.

You must be a great human being with a great personality telling someone to kill themselves who is already suicidal. You're a fucking piece of shit, someone ban this roastie cunt.

Yup ban— showed his ugly soul true colors too quickly

Lol. Shut up you goober.

Also goober. I dont think you realize that pharmacists font make much more than senior software developers. Boy sick burn. Ill be holding this for seconds to come.

I've seen your pic before some time ago and you don't look like an Incel, above average even. If I was you, I'd try to muster up the courage to get out of your room and meet new people. I guarantee you will have some success in the dating field.

posts Stacy pictures on truerateme and has LTRs with Chads

Just get out there bro!

Fuck off

She would be incel if male

Actually that was just a normie with a horrible personality. Never been with "Chads" nor am I planning to.

pic? women never date their looksmatch only above

Not posting a pic on here. Pm me if you're curious

women never date their looksmatch only above

lol?

Don't question incels! They're black pilled and therefore know the Truth™!

Dude. Why are you listening to these people? Many of these comments are more depressing than your post. Idk why you are letting them drag you down like this, you probably aren't even that bad looking.

Lol at the last thing

Well, I mean from what other incels are saying, you apparently aren't that bad looking. I'm just trying to figure out why you would come here when you're sad. They just make it more sad and depressing.

He is part of "these people" that you disdain, ironically

Because these people have a lot of useful things to say, where as you people (inceltears posters who obsess over us) don't.

Oh yeah....."cope or rope" "It's fucking over" mhmm. So useful.

More useful than what any of you have to say.

your comment literally shit on ugly people

whats wrong with you

He said to stop listening to negativity how is tbat shitting on ugly people

his last sentence " i bet you are not even that bad looking" how would the ugly people reading his comment feel? they would feel like outcasts.

A lot of ugly people are ugly due to behaviour, unless you have really shit genetics you aren't gonna be naturally below a 5/10

i have very shitty ones indeed.

Ahh sorry missed that line. I see what you mean bit i think he meant it,more as encouragement for OP

he can do it without shitting on ugly people , because there is a lot here and they are suicidal

I was shitting on your shitty personalities and your "help" that is actually very negative and discouraging. Why would members of a community not try to pick up their own members when they're down, instead of confirming their depression and bringing them down further with snarky comments about their own miserable little lives?

How is that ok? What neurons fire off in y'all's brains that tell you that that's the right thing to do?

who do you fuck are you to come here and tell me that i did not try to pick up a member who was down ? you fucking come here and generalize everyone like we are fucking animals, come speak to me when you will fucking grow up and stop generalizing everyone.

I don't want to speak to you. Look at the way you act towards people you don't know. Terrible.

stop generalizing everyone

Says the incel who thinks every girl is into Chad™, etc etc...

so you arent into attractive people?

You retard, "chad" is not the only guy who can be attractive to women. I know this is shocking to people like you, but even average looking guys can be attractive to us.

we are only playing with words here

but even average looking guys can be attractive to us.

And below average ones are left to rot, which is the entire issue

You missed my edit lol.

Women consider 80% of guys below average, so that's not as comforting as you might think

if i didnt have an oneitis , i don't know how i would be able to continue

my bestfriend is your same age , we suport each other by hanging out its better than to stay in your room because thats when shit hit the fan and reality hit hard.

all i can do for you is wish for a miracle to happen to you.

Stop sitting in your room playing video games maybe? That'd be a good start

I’d get made fun of if I left

For what?

I'm sorry that you feel that you'd get bullied, by the way. If you didn't feel like you'd get bullied, would that change your views on going out?

Yes, but I’ve obviously tried and know I’d get bullied, so there’s no point

Dude, just don't care about other people. If they just hate you for how you look then they're dumb as fucking bricks and can barely be considered humans. Go outside, lift for an hour or two every day, and then go home and play video games afterwards. You'll feel a lot better and eventually you'll reach a point where you feel confident enough to actually get out and talk to people.

You shouldn't care about the opinions of people that judge by appearance. Their opinion is literally fucking worthless. If they have that mentality then they're destined to nothing but failure, so you shouldn't be concerned with that.

Dude, just don't care about other people.

I usually disagree with normies but solid advice here. The Virgin social anxiety vs the The Chad doesn’t give a fuck

eventually you'll reach a point where you feel confident enough to actually get out and talk to people.

This is such autistic boomer advice. How will going outside and talking to randoms make him friends? Who has actually talked to a random person in the street and become friends with them in 2018? This isnt 1955, your advice is trash.

Mate actual just go out to a pub or a club and chances are you'll meet people who are friendly

Not on the street you retard. Nobody does that shit, usually. This kid says he's at college. Go to any social event, lecture hall, dining room, stadium, etc. and you'll find plenty of people to talk to. Later, he'll have coworkers that he'll be forced to socialize with regularly. Also, everyone is a "random" until you actually talk to them, idiot.

I'm sorry for your experiences. Your willingness to be vulnerable here makes me want to help you, but you have to be willing to help yourself and work on it. It's not easy, and it's not as simple as just "going outside and lifting". Those are good activities, but first really is an internal battle of self acceptance.

I used to be fat. I always felt like losing weight would make me feel better about myself. I'd tell myself that if I could just lose weight, I'd be adequate and I'd love myself. I lost the weight. Nothing changed. You have to be willing to appreciate, respect, and accept yourself before you embark on a journey of outward improvement. If you'd like some books that can help you begin that journey, message me. I will pay for your first one if you really will read it.

It took me over 10 years to realize this. I am happier than ever now

Crash I fucking love you for going out of your way to help these people.

Kys normalfag scum

You stupid ignorant piece of trash, you are going to cease to exist one day and this reality is the only one you will ever experience. Don't you understand? You have no reason to care about what they MAY or COULD say or do. DO NOT fear this life, you must embrace it. EVERY TIME you come across something that you think would be difficult (such as a large social gathering or when you're suppose to talk to someone or whatever) force yourself through it and MAKE yourself do it. I used to be a insanely socially retarded and couldn't get anywhere at all but I realized that I am in complete control of what my life could be. I don't know what else to tell you, Go read "Meditations" by Marcus A. Right this second (just google "Meditations Marcus PDF" to find a copy of it) Its a pretty good book on self will and it's extremely old but really good. Fuck you nigger

I'd rather just rope

You're a little fucking pussy then, but you won't. Because you're just a little bitch that's wanting attention. People keep trying to give you advice and you're just "wahhh wahhh baby need milky wahhh wahh I dun wanna improve mommy >w< I just wan to be sad little baby give tit milk mommy milky now!" <- you see that? That's you.

Now fucking man up mate, think of some things that challenge you in life and just full steam ahead at them. For example, and I'll just tell you this babygirl don't tell nobody else this is our little secret ok pal, I had a really bad fear of the dark for a long time and so it made it extremely difficult for me to sleep some nights because I would constantly be afraid of what was in the darkness of my room (it was a fear I carried through from childhood) and some nights i would lay there for hours under the covers (it would be hot as fuck because I was afraid to take the covers off) so you know what I did to get over that pal? I started going out hunting late at night (from 7 PM - 6 AM) in absolute and complete darkness. Of course I had a light on my gun but I absolutely would not turn it on up until the moment I was going to shoot. I did that nights that it was 15 degrees cold and there was a 10 MPH wind (which made it like -3 degrees) but I only did that to toughen myself up. But guess what? I haven't had a single "night terror" or whatever you want to call it in years. I overcame my problem my immersing myself in it and forcing myself to face it. And I did the exact same thing, in principle, to overcome my social autism.

You hold the key to your own future and you can overcome any problem you lil faggot boytoy cute fuck. Come here you little twink

You're fucking crazy bro

Kill yourself or improve, those are your only options. I can't try to help you anymore than I've already tried. Enjoy the rest of your existence being a pathetic Le Ebic gay-mer.

Option one it is. See ya pal

Whatever, stop whining for attention. It's not going to get you laid either. If you kill yourself because a bunch of internet people shit on you for saying "I'll do it, don't tempt me!" You were probably dead set on doing it anyway. Expect the suicide hotline to talk you out of it, not anonymous strangers.

Guess what? I was socially awkward all through school too. Somehow I still slept with 15 different girls between 18 and now (maybe more, I stopped counting after 15 because it doesn't really matter). I had a two year dry streak in there at the beginning because of how I reacted to a breakup.

Get off your ass, turn off the XBox and go out to a fucking Italian bar or something. Cougars are looking for young dudes and they know exactly what they want and how they want it. They probably don't even care if you look like pimpled assz

No, he is a man. Moreover, he is trying to help. Listen.

Fuck all these haters.

Just focus on improving yourself one step at a time. Ascend to becoming a gymcel.

Oh yea, don't fucking play video game you stupid cunt. I wasted my entire youth on that bullshit and I don't even remember a single second of it because it's just the same shit over and over. Don't do drugs (prescription or recreational, other than maybe a bit of weed a few times a year or good drink of alcohol every now and then but those are the only acceptable things.) I mean seriously you fuck just delete all of your video games this moment and you will become so god damn bored that you will HAVE to find something to do that isn't just nonsense that doesn't matter.

It’s okay bro. I’m right here with you.

There is no life after death. This is the only fucking chance you get. If you are made fun of so fucking be it. Do what you think will make you happy. Do what you think will help improve yourself. Every day that passes is one that you will never fucking ever get back. No one is born perfect so just fucking take your shitty attitude it throw it in the trash. You may never get to "chad" status but by God you should try your hardest to be the best you that you can be.

I’ve approached almost 100 women, all rejections, 7 matches in my 2 months on tinder, all ghosted me. I’m losing hope, yesterday was by far the worst because it was my birthday, worst day of the year to for an incel

You've probably heard this a million times but don't focus on women, focus on yourself. If you aren't looking for a life parter you're just looking for a wet hole to stick prick into for what? Validation? As if getting your dick wet will magically make yourself some superior being to your past self? Most* women are attracted to a confident well established man. Just fake it till you make it if you don't want to put any real effort in I guess. Good luck in the hunt fella. I mostly just typed that first comment to encourage myself to study.

Hey don't feel bad, sex isn't everything. Sure, it's probably pleasurable and a way to bond, but if you haven't found the one you shouldn't rush it.

I'm 19 and the same thing is happening to me

It's hard to get out of your room but sometimes you have to force yourself to socialize.

You don't get it, as a female any conversation you initiate with a group of people will be warmly received. Your shitty jokes will bring laughter. Literally just being a femoid makes socializing like riding a bike with training wheels. Like a blow off college class, you get full credit just for showing up.

That's not true, if I skipped class all the time I wouldn't have graduated.

I'm not sure why you think I implied that at all. I didn't mention expected outcomes of you not attending, I only made the analogy based on how showing up is literally all you need to do, while for a male it is more like showing up to high level math class where you need to be zoned in and at the top of your game to get credit. Reread my comment a few times and then maybe your little femoid brain will catch on.

Cope. There are geniuschads that don't even have to go to lecture and derive all the relations on the test

Get the fuck out landwhale, run on the treadmill and stop larping as an incel

made me kek

I'm not larping. I've never claimed to be "incel".

Then why the fuck are you here?

Someone asked her to be a mod and she said yes.

kek

Props for trying to help. Question, what makes you want to be a mod here? I couldn't deal with that, so toxic.

She sadomasochistic. She enjoys the toxicity and all the backlash and since she can't find a partner she can trust to the the same RL, she stays here and keeps being degraded.

I was asked to be a mod so I said yes. I stay because I'm a good mod.

If you were a good mod, we would like you, we don't, please leave.

see, the bitch is advocating for suicide

all normies are here to kill us, I'm telling you guys

should be grounds for demodding tbh

Watched tomb raider today all by my fucking self at the theater, normie and chad couples surrounding me, today was one of the first times I’ve went out for something besides school and I regret it so fucking much, everything is suicide fuel

Rarely fucking watch movies usually just fortniteceling wouldn’t be able to tell u

hahaha not since i was seventeen, but it really shouldn't make u feel less of a person if you are. one of my friends is 27, she's gorgeous and waiting to get married to have sex.

see I fucking told you niggas, normies are all killing us, just leave us alone, OP won't fucking die when we've got his back

Doesn't work

Then what you're doing is that you're stooping down to the level of the people you dislike, be the better person then. You may know it, but you don't show it. The way you initially responded me clearly showed that you think that I think less of you, I don't. And neither do most people, to be honest, most people don't care.

inceltears does make fun of radicalized incels, those who advocate rape and such... but if someone has a will to change before becoming a monster... there's hope and i do believe in them and ffs i am willing to help as much ss i can.

nesreen is also vvv pretty! are you from the mid east? bc its 2 am where im from, spent my night trying to help.incels but alas...

Yet couples meet on WoW.

7 years into college

fuck off you dont know shit and you try to help your fucking help we v seen it 1000000 times , i bet you arent even older than OP, you can help by fucking off this sub before killing another person fuckinh SCUM

why are you rubbing the fact you have a gf to a suicidal virgin? do you want him to kill himself ?

exactly. these hoes aint loyal

This reads like a call to rape someone. Is that a thing for incels too? Wow.

I believe he's talking about getting to hold a girl's hand.

No then I would have said use a roofie and a vodka cranberry. What I was writing about in the previous post was that long term drug use lowers women’s expectations and inhibitions so use that to your advantage. Nothing rapey just understanding human psychologyz.