When these people give advice it's sometimes really clear they are not even trying to speak from the same reality. "Just chat with people to make friends?" What?
It’s easy to find friends if you just talk to people, it’s easiest at places you both commonly visit like work or school due to you both having something in common. Then slowly you let them get accustomed to who you are, eventually you can become friends, if not then it’s best to try and not be bothered by it.
I was thinking the same thing, except that maybe he's in highschool or something like that, kids at that age can be real pricks to anyone who's a little different and he doesn't have many other places to meet people?, idk.
Sure you have. Anyone who’s been rejected knows what this sub is talking about, which is why “incels” keep growing in size. Women in the western world are pretty terrible people on average. Men are noticing this and reacting to it.
Seriously just trying to understand what you guys are going through.
Is it purely facial attraction levels that you see as the driving force behind the lack of action?
Or do you feel like fitness level, height, etc are part of it too?
Bouncers are huge white knights, just like cops. I once started talking to a hot blonde at the bar area of a Mexican restaurant, she was sitting beside me. Just small talk, and then very abruptly the Mexican bouncer and staff accosted me and threw me out.
If it were left up to women, ugly men would be euthanized (just give it a few more years and I am sure that will be a reality). Instead, they can snap their fingers and have an ugly man imprisoned or banned.
bouncers are usually gymcelling ugly subhumans who bully others & act like white knights to get attention of femoids. Little did they know it's all about the face.
Bouncer eyes creepy guy speaking to a woman who clearly doesn't know him and she walks away looking digusted or alternatively just looks really uncomfortable.
a bar is a business that needs a place where women feel comfortable in order to be successful. if women are telling the staff that they feel creeped out by some guy, the establishment has a monetary incentive to save it's business and kick the guy out to maintain atmosphere.
You're just part of the common narrative. Women are always victims without agency, and men perpretrators with agency.
When women hit, it's in self-defense and men deserve it. When men hit women, it's because men are being violent.
The narrative is a gynocenyric one that has been adopted by both the right and left, and it extends to situations like this one. He was kicked out because he was being creepy...it couldn't possibly be her fault or someone else's could it? "Women can never take accountibility and are always justified - their behavior is the measure of all things."
Sometimes she will report to a bouncer that a guy is being creepy (code for ugly), or the bouncer will white knight on his own volition, usually in hopes of scoring with the femoid or maybe just to be a bully.
There is a correlation between the intensity of white knighting and how attractive the femoid is.
Since bouncers work in the interest of women, they are essentially a female utility like a tampon, so the narrative still applies.
It could be the femoid in question was making some contorted faces to communicate she was uncomfortable. The bouncer saw it (bouncers are attuned to recognize such things) and intervened, or he preempted when he saw how ugly the guy was. Women, especialky attractive ones, are VIP in bars and clubs.
A femoid's subjective feelings is really the new dogma of the West, to question their feelings is blasphemey aka misogyny. Femoids are a false idol.
I mean, some people feel uncomfortable around black people and are called racists. Feel uncomfortable around an ugly man for whatever judgemental shallow petty reason and you're a victim.
I've actually seen guys in clubs with disgusting skin conditions twice. One occupied half of his face, the other a bit less than that. They were interacting with their friends, drinking having fun etc. Nobody seemed to care and why would they? Every client that spends money without ruining the fun of others is welcome.
Nope, it's the truth. I cannot possibly know anything about their lives. Those skin conditions may have been acquired later on in life. The point here is not whether ugly men have it hard in life but that nobody threw them out of the club for looking the way they did. That's why I'm calling grade A bullshit on the story posted by the OP. Will incels like any other self hate group make up shit to present themselves as the lowest form of life? Yes, they will.
You’re basically invalidating the experiences of ugly men everywhere. Not opinions, but actual experiences. Bouncers throw men out for being too ugly/creepy. They’re allowed to. Women are also allowed to report ugly men for hitting on them. This is something that women take pride in doing, as shown by tweets with half a million likes and retweets. The fact that you’re denying something that so many men and women know about is pretty fucking pathetic. You’re a piece of shit.
Too creepy, maybe. Too ugly - no. And they don't go "This guy is hitting on me, throw him out." At least in 99.99999999999999% of cases they don't. So don't try to sell me shit by saying just because some stuck up cunts may have done that, it's the norm.
The only difference between being “creepy” or being “assertive” is the mans looks. Even women have admitted this. He’s creepy if he’s ugly, but confident if he’s hot. As a result, creepy and ugly basically mean the same thing to women.
I'm willing to bet that they acted creepy towards them and not just merely existing a few feet away. But then again, If the creepy guy had any clue they were acting creepy, they wouldn't be doing in it the first place, so we don't expect them to be aware of it and admit it.
The concept of “acting creepy” is completely subjective. To women, a man can be creepy by just existing. To men, someone is creepy when they stalk or harass. Again, women have admitted on social media that the only difference between creepy men and confident men is how they look.
Again, some women out of billions have. It's also a well known psychological phenomenon which consists of attributing rather positive characteristics to a good looking person and rather negative ones to a not so good looking person. As far as creeps go, only shall we say the most extreme ones stalk or harass. The vast majority are creeps because they simply say and do weird/inappropriate things or don't know when to leave someone alone and are thus perceived as such. Claiming that unattractive men are more or less in great danger of being thrown out at the request of some girl only because they were somewhere near is laughable. Sure, someone can always make a collage out of a few screenshots to prove their point, but it's far from the norm.
Look, I’m sorry that happened to you. That’s honestly really awful. But blaming all people that you perceive as “normal” isn’t going to help. That’s some deep rooted shit.
Seek some help man. Everyone needs it at some point in their lives. Therapy is seriously awesome when you find the right doctor.
I don’t want you to feel like this. I’m sure you don’t want to feel like this. At the least, talking to someone makes it a little better. Even me if you ever need to vent.
I don’t think you’re crazy. But just being able to speak to someone trustworthy and hear yourself talk about issues out loud is...well it’s therapeutic lol.
Clearly nothing else is working for you. If you don’t want to talk to a therapist, I think you should at least talk to someone. Like I said, my inbox is here.
Well if she's being honest then she's in a similar boat... Although I can't trust a foid's word, lol. face_sitting should be able to find someone, she said 5'5" and Asian was acceptable.
I'm willing to bet that they acted creepy towards them and not just merely existing a few feet away. But then again, If the creepy guy had any clue they were acting creepy, they wouldn't be doing in it the first place, so we don't expect them to be aware of it and admit it.
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19 Alia_Harkonnen 2018-03-17
When these people give advice it's sometimes really clear they are not even trying to speak from the same reality. "Just chat with people to make friends?" What?
6 throwaway4546474850 2018-03-17
ill be in jail if i did that as an ugly ethnic lol.
3 Hashbrowns_Senpai 2018-03-17
It’s easy to find friends if you just talk to people, it’s easiest at places you both commonly visit like work or school due to you both having something in common. Then slowly you let them get accustomed to who you are, eventually you can become friends, if not then it’s best to try and not be bothered by it.
2 Alia_Harkonnen 2018-03-17
Nothing about that sounds easy or even like it's based in reality
4 Hashbrowns_Senpai 2018-03-17
Do you live in an alternate dimension?
1 Alia_Harkonnen 2018-03-17
I'm starting to feel like it
1 Hashbrowns_Senpai 2018-03-17
Is Stephan Hawking still alive in your dimension!
1 diosexual 2018-03-17
I was thinking the same thing, except that maybe he's in highschool or something like that, kids at that age can be real pricks to anyone who's a little different and he doesn't have many other places to meet people?, idk.
1 fuckitidunno 2018-03-17
Alia is in his 30s, if I recall
1 fuckitidunno 2018-03-17
Have you never had a friend before?
1 Alia_Harkonnen 2018-03-17
Few, on occasion, long time ago. Maybe 2 that counted
1 andtheywontstopcomin 2018-03-17
Have you never experienced rejection? Jesus Christ normalfags live in a bubble lmao
2 Hashbrowns_Senpai 2018-03-17
I’ve been rejected plenty, I just decided to move on
2 andtheywontstopcomin 2018-03-17
Sure you have. Anyone who’s been rejected knows what this sub is talking about, which is why “incels” keep growing in size. Women in the western world are pretty terrible people on average. Men are noticing this and reacting to it.
1 Hashbrowns_Senpai 2018-03-17
So you’re saying all you need to be an incel is to be rejected?
1 andtheywontstopcomin 2018-03-17
If you get rejected enough times, you start thinking like an incel. It’s honestly not the smartest way to go, but that’s how people are.
11 incelwriter 2018-03-17
Play ldar scrolls until you die. Do absolutely nothing else.
10 geneticSubhumanTrash 2018-03-17
I definitely would if NEETbux in my country paid enough.
0 GeneticCleansing 2018-03-17
I'm poorcel and it doesn't run on my current shit laptop. kek
1 ceDrowRanger 2018-03-17
You can probably run LDAR Scrolls Arena and Daggerfall as well as get them for free, you aren't too poor for LDAR scrolls!
1 GeneticCleansing 2018-03-17
true. I need to get a new computer so I can run the good ones tho.
10 just_for_the_record 2018-03-17
currycel found for sure
10 Involuntarily 2018-03-17
Happened to me. Of course they make an excuse. My favorite one was
Am I in trouble?
...
Umm
Oh sorry
...
Ok
2 just_for_the_record 2018-03-17
dude. just fuck. that's really rough man.
1 Involuntarily 2018-03-17
It happens. It's real. But they won't believe it.
Last time I go out on my own or ever since.
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-03-17
Brutal, he did try to soften the blow, however.
1 not_good_looking 2018-03-17
Are you me? The same conversation happened to me too!
1 Involuntarily 2018-03-17
We are truecels.
6 FEDORA_GOD 2018-03-17
In what world do these people live in where it's socially acceptable to go up to random groups of people and start talking to them?
3 geneticSubhumanTrash 2018-03-17
I think it is acceptable if you are not ugly, maybe? And if you live in a warmer climate, so Italy/Portugal/Spain maybe?
4 geminiLazarus 2018-03-17
R/thathappened
3 willengineer4beer 2018-03-17
Seriously just trying to understand what you guys are going through.
Is it purely facial attraction levels that you see as the driving force behind the lack of action? Or do you feel like fitness level, height, etc are part of it too?
7 GoodbyeYall333 2018-03-17
Face > Height > Frame > Fitness
3 edefaecam 2018-03-17
Bouncers are huge white knights, just like cops. I once started talking to a hot blonde at the bar area of a Mexican restaurant, she was sitting beside me. Just small talk, and then very abruptly the Mexican bouncer and staff accosted me and threw me out.
If it were left up to women, ugly men would be euthanized (just give it a few more years and I am sure that will be a reality). Instead, they can snap their fingers and have an ugly man imprisoned or banned.
1 xenodit 2018-03-17
bouncers are usually gymcelling ugly subhumans who bully others & act like white knights to get attention of femoids. Little did they know it's all about the face.
0 Nadare3 2018-03-17
Guaranteed there's more to this story than that.
People tend to leave out their own mistakes from that kinda story, if they even know of them.
11 suicidal-pothead 2018-03-17
No. If you're ugly enough people automatically think you look creepy, don't even fucking lie you know that's how it goes.
-6 Rerobrando 2018-03-17
Not creepy enough to get you kicked out of a bar for no reason.
7 FEDORA_GOD 2018-03-17
Bouncer eyes creepy guy speaking to a woman who clearly doesn't know him and she walks away looking digusted or alternatively just looks really uncomfortable.
What does the bouncer do next?
4 just_for_the_record 2018-03-17
a bar is a business that needs a place where women feel comfortable in order to be successful. if women are telling the staff that they feel creeped out by some guy, the establishment has a monetary incentive to save it's business and kick the guy out to maintain atmosphere.
2 IncelSlayerZero 2018-03-17
Cope harder
10 dead_eyed_mofo 2018-03-17
His mistake is being ugly.
5 geneticwaste43 2018-03-17
Cope it's happened to me too. And I mind my own business
1 edefaecam 2018-03-17
I always say the same thing when women are hit by their boyfriends or husbands. Usually she provokes such behavior.
1 Nadare3 2018-03-17
Because someone asking you to leave for being creepy to an establishment's customers is exactly the same as being hit, amirite.
1 edefaecam 2018-03-17
You're just part of the common narrative. Women are always victims without agency, and men perpretrators with agency.
When women hit, it's in self-defense and men deserve it. When men hit women, it's because men are being violent.
The narrative is a gynocenyric one that has been adopted by both the right and left, and it extends to situations like this one. He was kicked out because he was being creepy...it couldn't possibly be her fault or someone else's could it? "Women can never take accountibility and are always justified - their behavior is the measure of all things."
1 Nadare3 2018-03-17
So she is responsible for the bouncer stepping in and asking the guy to leave when she hasn't ever called him or said a word.
Just as much as someone who literally makes a fist with his hand and punches another person.
Interesting train of thought.
1 edefaecam 2018-03-17
Sometimes she will report to a bouncer that a guy is being creepy (code for ugly), or the bouncer will white knight on his own volition, usually in hopes of scoring with the femoid or maybe just to be a bully.
There is a correlation between the intensity of white knighting and how attractive the femoid is.
Since bouncers work in the interest of women, they are essentially a female utility like a tampon, so the narrative still applies.
1 Nadare3 2018-03-17
Hahahahahahahahaha.
Whatever you say, nutjob.
1 edefaecam 2018-03-17
It could be the femoid in question was making some contorted faces to communicate she was uncomfortable. The bouncer saw it (bouncers are attuned to recognize such things) and intervened, or he preempted when he saw how ugly the guy was. Women, especialky attractive ones, are VIP in bars and clubs.
A femoid's subjective feelings is really the new dogma of the West, to question their feelings is blasphemey aka misogyny. Femoids are a false idol.
1 Nadare3 2018-03-17
Sure.
1 edefaecam 2018-03-17
I mean, some people feel uncomfortable around black people and are called racists. Feel uncomfortable around an ugly man for whatever judgemental shallow petty reason and you're a victim.
1 Nadare3 2018-03-17
This has never been argued here but again, whatever floats your boat, mate.
-2 TheEndOfDreams 2018-03-17
Bull-fucking-shit.
5 geneticSubhumanTrash 2018-03-17
If you don't believe this, then you can go and disfigure your face and try out how is living life then.
-5 TheEndOfDreams 2018-03-17
I've actually seen guys in clubs with disgusting skin conditions twice. One occupied half of his face, the other a bit less than that. They were interacting with their friends, drinking having fun etc. Nobody seemed to care and why would they? Every client that spends money without ruining the fun of others is welcome.
5 andtheywontstopcomin 2018-03-17
This sounds like a weak ass lie. Sorry you can’t accept that ugly men have it hard in life.
-1 TheEndOfDreams 2018-03-17
Nope, it's the truth. I cannot possibly know anything about their lives. Those skin conditions may have been acquired later on in life. The point here is not whether ugly men have it hard in life but that nobody threw them out of the club for looking the way they did. That's why I'm calling grade A bullshit on the story posted by the OP. Will incels like any other self hate group make up shit to present themselves as the lowest form of life? Yes, they will.
Sorry you fail at reading comprehension.
2 andtheywontstopcomin 2018-03-17
You’re basically invalidating the experiences of ugly men everywhere. Not opinions, but actual experiences. Bouncers throw men out for being too ugly/creepy. They’re allowed to. Women are also allowed to report ugly men for hitting on them. This is something that women take pride in doing, as shown by tweets with half a million likes and retweets. The fact that you’re denying something that so many men and women know about is pretty fucking pathetic. You’re a piece of shit.
0 TheEndOfDreams 2018-03-17
Too creepy, maybe. Too ugly - no. And they don't go "This guy is hitting on me, throw him out." At least in 99.99999999999999% of cases they don't. So don't try to sell me shit by saying just because some stuck up cunts may have done that, it's the norm.
2 andtheywontstopcomin 2018-03-17
The only difference between being “creepy” or being “assertive” is the mans looks. Even women have admitted this. He’s creepy if he’s ugly, but confident if he’s hot. As a result, creepy and ugly basically mean the same thing to women.
1 TheEndOfDreams 2018-03-17
I'm willing to bet that they acted creepy towards them and not just merely existing a few feet away. But then again, If the creepy guy had any clue they were acting creepy, they wouldn't be doing in it the first place, so we don't expect them to be aware of it and admit it.
4 andtheywontstopcomin 2018-03-17
The concept of “acting creepy” is completely subjective. To women, a man can be creepy by just existing. To men, someone is creepy when they stalk or harass. Again, women have admitted on social media that the only difference between creepy men and confident men is how they look.
1 TheEndOfDreams 2018-03-17
Again, some women out of billions have. It's also a well known psychological phenomenon which consists of attributing rather positive characteristics to a good looking person and rather negative ones to a not so good looking person. As far as creeps go, only shall we say the most extreme ones stalk or harass. The vast majority are creeps because they simply say and do weird/inappropriate things or don't know when to leave someone alone and are thus perceived as such. Claiming that unattractive men are more or less in great danger of being thrown out at the request of some girl only because they were somewhere near is laughable. Sure, someone can always make a collage out of a few screenshots to prove their point, but it's far from the norm.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-17
they just go to the bouncer and say the guy is being creepy
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-17
This quora question is a solid blackpill and explains why indians have it so bad.
https://www.quora.com/How-do-nightclub-bouncers-decide-whom-to-let-in
-6 Stoic_Stranger 2018-03-17
r/thathappened
8 VonMagnar 2018-03-17
r/nothingeverhappens
-12 AndySambergsPants 2018-03-17
Shut the fuck up and find something else to do already.
6 VonMagnar 2018-03-17
Right back at'cha you twat ;)
5 GeneticCleansing 2018-03-17
0 self awareness. kys
1 [deleted] 2018-03-17
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4 Hopecel 2018-03-17
How retarded are you?
2 geneticSubhumanTrash 2018-03-17
Why did you leave your echo chamber?
0 [deleted] 2018-03-17
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3 Stoic_Stranger 2018-03-17
Who hurt you?
1 birtopia 2018-03-17
Normcunts (just like you)who stoned me and recorded me for being 0/10 gentrash.
Oh wait never mind you’re just gonna say r/thathappened because you can’t admit that you’re an emotionless psychopath.
As your kind has told me countless times, kill yourself.
2 Sydviciouz 2018-03-17
Blaming society as a whole and calling random people psychopaths...healthy logic.
2 birtopia 2018-03-17
Hey, I’m just going by what your kind has done to me.
1 Sydviciouz 2018-03-17
Look, I’m sorry that happened to you. That’s honestly really awful. But blaming all people that you perceive as “normal” isn’t going to help. That’s some deep rooted shit.
2 birtopia 2018-03-17
The only thing that can help is cutting my fucking throat open.
0 Sydviciouz 2018-03-17
Seek some help man. Everyone needs it at some point in their lives. Therapy is seriously awesome when you find the right doctor.
I don’t want you to feel like this. I’m sure you don’t want to feel like this. At the least, talking to someone makes it a little better. Even me if you ever need to vent.
1 birtopia 2018-03-17
I don’t need therapy I’m not crazy.
1 Sydviciouz 2018-03-17
God, I hate that fucking stigma.
I don’t think you’re crazy. But just being able to speak to someone trustworthy and hear yourself talk about issues out loud is...well it’s therapeutic lol.
Clearly nothing else is working for you. If you don’t want to talk to a therapist, I think you should at least talk to someone. Like I said, my inbox is here.
1 Stoic_Stranger 2018-03-17
Calm down, kid. You'll give yourself a headache.
2 birtopia 2018-03-17
The only thing that hurts is every time your kind stones me,
-1 GeneticCleansing 2018-03-17
you normshits literally have single digit IQs.
3 Stoic_Stranger 2018-03-17
You guys are fun.
-8 Board_Gaming 2018-03-17
r/ThatHappened
20 justthatguy4 2018-03-17
Similar shit has happened to me...
19 geneticSubhumanTrash 2018-03-17
r/BroadGamingIsAStupidCunt
19 Face-Hit-By-A-Lorry 2018-03-17
r/nothingeverhappens
15 currynator3000 2018-03-17
Yeah just like your posts on okcupid and reddit dating. "I got no matches".
Yeah /r/thstfuckinghappened
13 Carkudo 2018-03-17
ITT people who don't get ostracized for their appearance doubting that it ever happens to anyone.
9 KhalilYousuf3 2018-03-17
fat piece of trash
7 IncelSlayerZero 2018-03-17
LOL chad_chasing gets shit on daily, KEK. It's quite entertaining.
3 GeneticCleansing 2018-03-17
she deserves all of it and more.
3 IncelSlayerZero 2018-03-17
Well if she's being honest then she's in a similar boat... Although I can't trust a foid's word, lol. face_sitting should be able to find someone, she said 5'5" and Asian was acceptable.
2 ceDrowRanger 2018-03-17
I think she probably has a kink for it or something.
3 [deleted] 2018-03-17
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3 GeneticCleansing 2018-03-17
You normshits post the same thing every time.
2 kysacademy 2018-03-17
Lol moderator btw, im on y'all side btw
1 Stoic_Stranger 2018-03-17
Calm down, kid. You'll give yourself a headache.
2 birtopia 2018-03-17
The only thing that hurts is every time your kind stones me,
2 Sydviciouz 2018-03-17
Blaming society as a whole and calling random people psychopaths...healthy logic.
1 TheEndOfDreams 2018-03-17
I'm willing to bet that they acted creepy towards them and not just merely existing a few feet away. But then again, If the creepy guy had any clue they were acting creepy, they wouldn't be doing in it the first place, so we don't expect them to be aware of it and admit it.
1 Nadare3 2018-03-17
Because someone asking you to leave for being creepy to an establishment's customers is exactly the same as being hit, amirite.
1 Nadare3 2018-03-17
Sure.