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Tee hee wimmenz r virgins too!

It's over

Normies nowhere to be seen. It's over. Adult male virgins are scum of the earth and should be euthanized.

It has only been 14 mins bro.

No sex - virgin fag. Escorting - misogynist, monster, loser. chad fucking dozens of bitches - "my love will change him!!111"

Yeah, that's how foids think. They hate virgin men and they hate men who lost their virginity to a prostitute. One of their main reasonings is that those guys had sex "without the emotional closeness". There's just no way to win with women unless you are a natural born Chad.

As if being a degenerate is something to be proud of. Filthy degenerate slut.

Take that secret to the grave boys. Even if you marry the first girl you bang, even if she’s a virgin, even if you think “this girl is different” (hahahaha!), never tell any girl that you are a Virgin, or that you were when you met. Don’t even bring it up. If she asks, you lost it when you were 13 and have been banging out loose sluts ever since.

Meh, I told several women I was a virgin, and I’ve told several more I lost it only a couple years ago. Most women didn’t bat an eye, the girl I lost it to I’m still close with. It never really affected me.

Lucky guy!

I don’t think luck has anything to do with it. I know three other guys who are (were) open about their virginity. They were good dudes with bad social skills and bad luck. Very few people seemed put off by it.

Put up with it as in not shun them or actually date them ?

Don't listen to this normie retard.

His looks determine how he'll be treated.

and he's lying in order to cope

What am I lying about?

sayin typical not all girls are like that and teehee shit

I’m not sure what I’m “teehee-ing” about. There are definitely women who will be turned off by virginity, and there are definitely women who don’t care.

I’m not here to sugarcoat it and say to be super nice and tell everyone you’re a virgin and women will flock to you, because that’s absurd. All I’m saying is that in my experience and the experiences of a couple close friends, we didn’t make a big deal of it. We didn’t make it part of our identity, but when asked we were up front and said “yeah, still virgins, by the way what’s the score?”

Majority of the time, men and women might ask a few questions about it, but generally the feel was very whatever.

awalt sorry

Not much of an argument

The thread seems to be that it’s the virginity. If it’s looks instead then that’s fine, but if virginity alone drives women away I’m just saying that it’s not the case.

Looks are a positive. Virginity is a negative. Positives need to out weigh the negatives. The age is also relevant.

SMV/RMV are all factors. Frame/insecurity. I owned my virginity a few times but i wasn't good looking enough to pull it off and that actively cost me opportunities.

Then maybe it’s a combination of things. But I’ve rarely seen virginity be a negative factor for me, so I dunno.

“Put off by it.”

Nobody is going to date a person solely based on sexual experience or lack thereof. Regardless, in my case I was pretty open about it so many people knew whether I told them or not. Women I dated knew and were totally fine with it, and I will say a handful told me they didn’t want to be my “first” but we still stayed in touch. The woman who eventually did take mine absolutely knew, as did women thereafter.

Again, lucky guy. Most women who knew were absolutely put off by it.

In your circumstance, maybe. In which case I’m sorry, I would call your situation unlucky.

Eastern Europe, different culture

Maybe so. Sorry about that

Fuck... ugh. i want to get this off my chest even though its offtopic.

I was (still am) part of a group of guys called RSD. "Pickup" and shit like that, approaching women in daytime and at night. I'm sure this community frowns on them but that's not the point, it's not like I actively do any of that shit right now anyway.

A year ago though, when i first discovered it, I went to a bar with a couple of guys and since I was new one of the more experienced guys gave me "challenges". Go up to this girl, open her (i.e start a conversation with complete stranger), go up to these other two, etc. Then my last "challenge" for the night was to go up to a random girl and tell her I'm a virgin.

So me being me i actually fucking did it. one of the more cringiest moments of my life. She just was like "what the fuck" and walked off....

Don't ask me why I did it.

You just told her “I’m a virgin”? Yeah I’d agree that’d be cringey as hell. But those awkward moments and “challenges” can definitely help with social anxiety. I’ve had conversations end real sour and awkward but in the end I’ll likely never see her again and I can start from scratch with the next person.

no i talked to her like 2-3minutes before hand. basically just walked up started chit chatting about mundane shit and then BOOM. Hit her with the disgusting, Too-much-information- why the fuck are you telling me this part.

Cringe over 9000.

Woooooof. Yeah that’s a bold go about. Don’t blame you or her for feeling uncomfortable at that one.

no i knew it was going to be uncomfortable, it was the point of the "challenge". but doing stuff like this is fucking dumb. I still wake up sometimes at night in the cringe... ok maybe that's an exaggeration but it's almost not.

I somewhat see the merit, in the sense of walking up to strangers and starting conversation. But yeah what you did was kind of dumb haha

No one says women don’t care if you’re a virgin. That’s unconditionally weird af.

It’s like you’ve never even been on Reddit lol

Reddit is full of retards who lie about everything. Don't let it influence you too much.

it's also like you've never been out in public either tho tbf

Reality can't lie to you as much as anonymous figures behind a keyboard.

No but that doesn't keep real women from acting like it doesn't matter... acting

Of course. But it's still harder. And once you know whats behind the veil (hypergamy, AFBB) there isn't really much left to hide.

I keep telling aspies to just lie. Who cares just lie.

i had a girl ask me and i said yes and she said please god tell me your lying and i was like lol yea and she was like omg phew lol

What's the point of being with someone when you have to lie about yourself?

Tbh I had hoped that the whole sex=religion angle would have a chance at making IncelTears but I still tried to make it something I truly believe and I guess it just didn't turn out extreme enough. Oh well.

Oh shut up, dumbass. Let us try to help incels ascend and sit down and shut up, please. Incels: lie. Thanks, goodnight.

I don't think it even matters if you've only had sex once. As long as you have stuck your peepee in a vagina for a few seconds that will completely change how a woman thinks of you. That's why I'm just going to lie.

With instances like this story, telling the truth would be suicide.

Dude, kudos to you for assuming you'll be in a situation like that one day. And I mean that completely unironic. You haven't given up, I honestly respect that a lot.

But here's the thing, in your situation honesty is the best bet. Jus think about this logically for a second: the girl will either care about you being sexually experienced, or she won't. If she does care, it's just not going to work out, because with her mindset, there is no difference between being a virgin or being inexperienced, it's bad sex either way. And if you think, well who cares just as long as I lose my v-card, you should consider that you first attempt at penetration will likely fail, due to a lot of reasons, but mostly anxiety. stress related erectile dysfunction is a very real thing. and a scenario like that will probably be more humiliating than just being honest from the start.

On the other hand, if she doesn't mind and you've been straight from the start, she can guide you and take away a lot of the anxiety. which makes all the difference between an awkward experience and an enjoyable first time.

That poor guy. And she denied him sex because of that? I literally cringed reading that part. Can't believe some people are that shallow.

I WISH I was a 27-year old virgin. You can still swing it at that age with the right person.

At 40, nobody is going to want you. And no amount of lying will save you.

Luckily at that age i highly suspect nobody would bother asking. Even the guy in the article would have actually had sex had he not said himself that he had never done it before.

why don't you guys fuck someone ugly? or get a prostitute.

i don't understand.. like sometimes you gotta get an internship before you can apply for the job you feel me?

why should we?

To get practice. To gain confidence. People want experience. It’s not fun or enticing for someone to be with a virgin. You can either bitch or try to get ur game up.

lol fucking a prostitute won't give you confidence. what should i be confident about? its not an accomplishment.

Do you know what confidence means? I didn’t say pride.

It means being confident in your abilities and knowing what to do. So the first time you see a woman naked you don’t act like a fucking 10 year old

confidence comes from pride.

What kind of regarded shit is that? I’m talking about having confidence in your abilities to have sex. Lol it’s like you don’t wan to solve any problems you just wanna bitch

Plenty of people would agree that an unpaid internship isnt worth anyones time.

Um..in computer science internships are huge. Builds experience and if they like you they keep you. It’s definitely worth your time. People just can’t afford to not make anything

Well would you rather have an internship that respects you despite your lack of experience? Or one that has had several penises inside of it?

Fucking Kek

You gotta play in the minors before you get to the big leagues my dude

Dayum. Im about to turn 28. Im looking down the barrel here.

Whats life like?

sui fuel for the day.

Maybe I should just drive off the bridge on my commute back today.

Inceltears, where you at ?

Being the useless cuckolds they are

i would too lol

i’d walk out on a 27 year old virgin

Do you wear weaves?

It's become apparent that you are supposed to lose your virginity at a very young age.

Even sexually inexperienced males in high-school are mocked.

Makes dem look cool

"Never. Had. Sex." - And? Why do you care?

"Don't worry, honey. The past is the past!"

What a fucking cunt... This kind of shit is praised but if you look down on a woman for being a slut prepare for the hordes of white knights preparing to defend m'lady.

Get this- one woman doesn’t represent the billions of other women in the planet? Surprising, right?

lol, ‘no’ what?

She represents all women.

Says who? A misogynist who believes that all women are sluts if they don’t sleep with him?

says who?

Women

All women are like this

Get this - that guys still a lonely virgin that wants to die everyday of his existence

I mean, she's a shithead. Honestly the kind of vindictive bitch who'd cry rape just after. He dodged a bullet tbh

One person shouldn't be used to represent half the people on the planet... My wife was happy I was, I know woman who have taken older guys virginity and were stoked about it. There are also woman who would never have sex with a virgin. Woman, like men, aren't all the same, contrary to the circlejerk.

Having a realistic viewpoint is not coping. Convincing yourself that your virginity is an insurmountable hurdle in a potential relationship is.

Just don’t tell them that you’re a virgin then if it concerns you so much. Pretend like you’re not. Do you think that every time someone has sex they proclaim whether or not they are a virgin? The answer is no. Most people won’t even ask until after you’re done. Then you can just say not anymore. Also nothing is stopping you from just lying about it. Sure she might realize during but depending on your innate skills you might even be good. Project confidence (but not like a ridiculous amount) and most people will just assume you aren’t one.

Don’t assume that one is gonna be your last. Go in, do your best, enjoy yourself, try to make the other person have a good time and try to make it a learning experience to get better next time. The more afraid you are of fucking it up the more likely you will. Go with the flow

I’m saying there will be others. Chase the ones that wanna chase you back. Not the ones that don’t really care about you. But, if you want “that” kind of advice DM me and I’ll tell you a few things. You’ll be fine.

No mate, that’s not at all what I’m saying.

My first and only guy was a virgin in his late 20's (I was exactly 20)... actually pretty conventionally attractive by most people's standards. I actually felt more confident with him because we were both virgins who had no idea what we were doing, despite the fact that it was a complete disaster. I think right now I'd still prefer an inexperienced guy because I'm not good at sex. But yeah obviously all women are the same because some slut on tinder and blah blah

One of my friends thought he looked like a creepy pedophile and another friend said "he's actually kind of cute!". Lol. Women are not a hivemind!

That's all subjective, though. I've always been made fun of for my taste in men because it's subjective and a lot of girls clearly disagree with me.

I think so? Define beta-ey features.

Wow these people are sad huh?

ikr? looks are subjective, women love ugly guys.

teehee

This sorta hurts. Because I know I'll be in that guys boat. I'm 23 and no way I'm gonna find a girl who is an inexperienced as me and not do I necessarily want that. But fuck if this happened to me I'd feel so bad.

Yeah, that's how foids think. They hate virgin men and they hate men who lost their virginity to a prostitute. One of their main reasonings is that those guys had sex "without the emotional closeness". There's just no way to win with women unless you are a natural born Chad.

Being the useless cuckolds they are

Of course. But it's still harder. And once you know whats behind the veil (hypergamy, AFBB) there isn't really much left to hide.

Fucking Kek

Wow these people are sad huh?

ikr? looks are subjective, women love ugly guys.

teehee