Females have so much higher 'what you can say to them' standards
Literally any guy wouldn't care, and would actually be flattered if girl responded that he is her type. In fact, that is what he's hoping to hear
But a huge percentage of girls will get creeped out, unsettled, decide that this is cringey, and so forth, if any subChad comes on, as u/tmrienzi put it, this 'strongly'
It feels strange that the standards for sexual intimacy have dropped so significantly (hookups) yet the requirement for being a super smooth, super experienced PUA is holding strong, it feels like saying just about anything is "creepy".
I'm a woman and I think this is actually a cute line. It's not rude or overly sexual (don't lead with a sexual pick up line).
Sure, if someone likes you and you don't like them back it can be awkward. This is just an example of someone being unkind in how they reject someone (calling them gross). I think it was posted here because OP and some of the members of this sub have bad experiences of being rejected in an unkind way. That's unfortunate. I just hope they are able to not generalize all woman as one group and know that some people are kind and some aren't, regardless of gender.
14 comments
1 Kharsack 2018-03-13
We all know that if a Chad pulled off that line, he would win that girl in a heartbeat.
1 AreYouHECCINJoking 2018-03-13
Personally, if a chad did that, I’d probably just walk away, bc what the fuck?
1 SeveralPracticeBJJ 2018-03-13
And the next part is some form of public shaming
1 tmrienzi 2018-03-13
Nah this is coming on strong, I would be creeped out if someone said this to me.
1 CptErection23 2018-03-13
If he's attractive and said it confidently you would be extremely flattered. Don't lie.
1 Mr-Mercedes- 2018-03-13
Females have so much higher 'what you can say to them' standards
Literally any guy wouldn't care, and would actually be flattered if girl responded that he is her type. In fact, that is what he's hoping to hear
But a huge percentage of girls will get creeped out, unsettled, decide that this is cringey, and so forth, if any subChad comes on, as u/tmrienzi put it, this 'strongly'
1 Invisible_247 2018-03-13
It feels strange that the standards for sexual intimacy have dropped so significantly (hookups) yet the requirement for being a super smooth, super experienced PUA is holding strong, it feels like saying just about anything is "creepy".
1 stygianStruthio 2018-03-13
I disagree, as a sub5 I'd be thrilled if anyone said this to me, so long as we were reasonably close in age and not complete strangers.
1 TheHatOnTheCat 2018-03-13
I'm a woman and I think this is actually a cute line. It's not rude or overly sexual (don't lead with a sexual pick up line).
Sure, if someone likes you and you don't like them back it can be awkward. This is just an example of someone being unkind in how they reject someone (calling them gross). I think it was posted here because OP and some of the members of this sub have bad experiences of being rejected in an unkind way. That's unfortunate. I just hope they are able to not generalize all woman as one group and know that some people are kind and some aren't, regardless of gender.
1 Kharsack 2018-03-13
Exactly this, I don't mind getting rejected but some girls take it too far and try and rip out your heart emotionally.
1 TheHatOnTheCat 2018-03-13
That sucks. I'm sorry. And it's totally okay to mind being rejected. No one likes being rejected. Even a polite rejection can hurt.
I hope you don't let some people being unkind get you down or make you feel badly about yourself or about woman in general.
1 InevitableScarcity 2018-03-13
Perfect.
1 captvic 2018-03-13
If Chad did that the girl would start giggling
1 MassiveWesd 2018-03-13
lol she did
1 Kharsack 2018-03-13
Exactly this, I don't mind getting rejected but some girls take it too far and try and rip out your heart emotionally.