Haha yeah you're right dicks are totally capable of physically altering the appearance of vaginal lips. You sure showed me. I'm not even making of anyone I'm just trying to tell you how a vagina works. I don't even have a vagina. Maybe try being less autistic and understanding human anatomy better. Either that or report to your nearest university so they can research your superdick capable of mutating human skin.
Look how fast the monkey defaulted to bullying. 0-60 like a sports car.
Elastic snaps back, until it eventually gets too stretched. Women who give birth are known for their cavernous vaginas and need to do kegels. Dicks are the same. A vagina doesn't stay as stretched, but if you think it doesn't stretch, there's a bridge in brooklyn with your name on it, great view, we can cut a sweet deal.
Look how fast the monkey defaulted to bullying. 0-60 like a sports car.
Yeah after someone called me a loose roastie even though I'm a dude lul they hypocrisy is reallll up in here.
Women who give birth are known for their cavernous vaginas and need to do kegels.
I mean they're not. You're just making shit up at this point but okay let's continue.
A vagina doesn't stay as stretched, but if you think it doesn't stretch, there's a bridge in brooklyn with your name on it, great view, we can cut a sweet deal.
I'm not sure if you're capable of scrolling up to where I said "I'm not here to bully but when you say that a vagina isn't elastic that's just a poor understanding of anatomy." So basically I just stated they stretched because that's a part of what being elastic is all about but thanks for literally proving my point.
So to summarize this up into one sweet little package, you call me ..a dude.. a loose roastie (that would be bullying) after I haven't said anything other then a vagina is elastic (which you agreed with). Then you told me I'm the one now bullying since I responded harshly to someone bullying, and that apparently I don't think vaginas stretch when I literally said they're elastic in my first comment. 10/10 argument there man keep up the good work proud of you.
Labiaplasty (also known as labioplasty, labia minora reduction, and labial reduction) is a plastic surgery procedure for altering the labia minora (inner labia) and the labia majora (outer labia), the folds of skin surrounding the human vulva. There are two main categories of women seeking cosmetic genital surgery: those with congenital conditions such as intersex, and those with no underlying condition who experience physical discomfort or wish to alter the appearance of their genitals because they believe they do not fall within a normal range.
Right I know what that is but you're still saying that too much dick can damage pussy lips (the one part your dick literally slides by) to the point in which reconstructive surgery is needed to fix it. I hope you all realize how dumb that thought process is. Pussy lips are not manipulated by your dicks. The only reason that surgery exists is basically for looks. Kind-of like how women prefer tall men, men prefer vaginas that don't have meaty lips. Idk why I'm even explaining this I feel like the autism that is this subreddit will still find some way to try and prove me wrong.
You can't define incels only as virgins. People here are hateful and bitter. Incels are despicable because of their shit personnality, not because they are virgins.
While this comment is shit, the thought process is correct.
Incels are not miserable because they're virgins. They're miserable because they're starved of human intimacy and universally hated by women. Years of rejection and scorn from the opposite gender cultivates the bitterness and hate seen here. It's very easy to become hateful of women when they treat you like shit just for existing.
Maybe instead of becoming a worse person work on the shit personalities that got you denied and stop chasing women who are 10s when you're a fucking 4.
exactly, maybe go for a girl who is just as ugly. That's the point. Quit whining that hot women only like hot men when you don't go for ugly chicks. Aim lower. Personality wise too.
That it is how it works. I'm ugly, guys I know in person are very ugly. I'm in a relationship and plenty of the ugly ass dude's I know are in relationships. If they're not now they were in the past. My dad is a very ugly man. Explain how he had two children and is married now.
But, yeah your personality probably does make you uglier. You've never hung out with someone that you really enjoyed being around who was ugly as fuck when you first met but became more attractive because of their personality?
Plus, you guys try meeting women online too much. That's a big mistake. The online world is skewed. I have no issue with getting girls in real life. My personality is what wins them over.
Ugly girls can get more attractive guys to an extent. But, more often than not when I see girls in long term relationships the guy is a couple points below the girl. My girlfriend is atleast a 7 by society standards I'm definitely a 4. Most dude's I hang around are about a 4 or 5 and their girlfriends are 7 or 8s.
You guys just try to simplify everything. Dating isn't so simple. It's a lot of issues. Not to mention the fact you think you know women so well but yet you can't manage to date them. Maybe it's time to realize you don't know them. I'm an ugly guy telling you that it's possible for ugly guys to get girls. Why would you not listen to people who clearly know what they're talking about when you clearly do Not?
"Hey dude if you want to get a girl do x"
"No, man that's not gonna work girls don't like x they like y"
"But ive done x to get girls and that's what works has y ever worked for you?"
I agree with most of your longer post/outlook. You really don't seem ugly genetically though, just fat. If you lost weight and ate clean to further eliminate facial bloat, you'd probably be a 6.
Idk man, it's not that I care about my own looks too much. I just look at myself realistically and see an ugly dude lol. I am working on the weight now. Maybe I'm uglier in person, idk.
You don’t get bullied for being virgins. Literally no one gives a shit you’re virgins. You’re all assholes, misogynistic, racist, and generally shitty humans, so we pick on you for that.
Then the same should apply that not all women, attractive or otherwise, fit into the single "Stacy" archetype incels love to project their self-loathing on.
It's been pretty well established that "misogyny" is just a convenient excuse for you people, and what you're really after is indeed virgin shaming and harassment.
Nope, literally no one gives a shit if you're a virgin besides you. You're insecure about the fact that you're a virgin. So much so you join groups on line. That's why you feel like that's what people are picking on you for. It's your own lame ads insecurity about it.
Yes, it's real. But, what you guys don't understand is that the only people who genuinely care if someone is a virgin no one else respects. It's either 16 year olds or immature adults. If someone was genuinely making fun of someone for being a virgin at my age (21) they would get shamed for even giving a shit. That shit is so lame to care about.
That's simply untrue. You guys get denied and shit and assume why. Like I said, I was 19 when I lost my virginity. I had no problem getting girls before then. My current girlfriend who I lost my virginity to had no issue with me being a virgin. My girlfriends friends have no issues with guys who are virgins. Making a big deal about being a virgin is what girls don't like.
It’s perfectly normal to lose your virginity at 19, it’s just one year above average. Also you said “I had no problems getting girls before that” bro you are a normie not a KHHV.
There was an OkCupid study in which 60-70% of women said that they wouldn’t date a male virgin.
It’s not like we go out with a tattoo on our forehead that says “I’m a virgin”. I’ve never been on a date like most people here. Do you really think I talk to girls about my virginity? Come on, I’m embarrassed.
I mean, according to you guys i shouldn't have even been able to lose it at all? So, I think 19 is pretty impressive. I'm 5'6", 170 lbs, solid 4/10, and I have a micropenis. Also, don't be shocked by this, I don't treat women like garbage.
I hate those surveys too. They're trash. That's exactly the point. They couldn't possibly know. So, if a girl really liked you and you revealed you were a virgin she's not gonna just dump you. I would say the girls I hang out with are still pretty young. All around 23. My girlfriends best friend is actually dating a guy right now who was a virgin when they first started dating and he's 22 and she's 23. Another one of her friends is a virgin and he's 23. No one makes fun of him for it.
I'm just trying to get you to see how little of a deal it is. It definitely isn't a deal breaker for most women. In fact, it can't be because they can't know. But, I know virgins. No one gives a shit. Honestly, I rarely even hear people talk about their virginity. Only time it comes up is if it's relevant to the conversation. It only becomes a big deal when you make it one. Thinking about it and being online blaming your looks and virginity for your virginity is only going to make you more hateful and have less confidence. Just a self fulfilling prophecy at this point.
I'm 5'6", 170 lbs, solid 4/10, and I have a micropenis.
God, hearing this makes me really sad. I really feel for you if you have a micropenis. I would have offed myself if I had one. I consider you a very lucky guy for being able to get into a relationship despite your unfortunate genetics. Nature is cruel.
I hate those surveys too. They're trash. That's exactly the point.
I'm just trying to get you to see how little of a deal it is. It definitely isn't a deal breaker for most women. In fact, it can't be because they can't know.
You see how it’s conflicting with the fact that I stated and you just call the study bullshit. Just because your personal experience doesn’t align with this it doesn’t make it any less valid.
Although there is no male equivalent to the female hymen it’s likely that a girl is going to notice that you are awkward when it comes to kissing / sex. Imagine cumming in thirty seconds. You can’t just fake experience.
Man, I feel sorry for you that you place such emphasis on penis size. I apparently have a smaller penis than you but a higher quality love life. Having a micropenis has honestly helped me in life a lot. I felt bad about myself for awhile, then realized how much it didn't matter. My life got a lot better.
Dawg, of course she's gonna know when you act all awkward. At the point she's chosen to kiss you and/or have sex with you she already likes you and you being a virgin wouldn't matter. I definitely remember cumming fast as fuck. My girlfriend was cool with it. She still is sometimes lmao as long as you don't see sex as something that begins and ends with penetration that doesn't matter.
I say the survey is bullshit not because it doesn't align with my personal experience, but because it's hypothetical. There are so many other factors surrounding that decision that the simple question "would you date a virgin" isn't enough. Look at those surveys. Under my penis size, weight, and looks what percentage of women would've instantly said no to me? Shit, I probably would've said I wouldn't date someone with a lot of qualities my girlfriend has. But, I met her. I liked her. That stuff didn't seem as big of a deal because so many other things were so great. That's wht those surveys are bullshit.
I'm not shaming anyone for being a virgin lol I was a virgin until I was 19. I couldn't care less if someone was a virgin or not. Harassing? No. I just know you all pity yourselves too much. Just fix your personalities and quit being obsessed with sex. It's weird.
Well, if you taking the effort to come over here and harass people for being virgins, and then making a whole subreddit for the same purpose, is just in my head, then I must be pretty damn mentally ill.
But really, the alternative is just way more plausible.
I never harassed anyone for being a virgin. I am saying how little of a shit people give how the fuck would that make sense. People make subreddits making fun of how much you guys focus on being virgins and on much emphasis you put on it. How sad and angry it makes you to be a virgin is what people are making fun of. Not the fact that you are a virgin.
Just because you think your harassment is good and justified doesn't mean it's not harassment. I don't care how you personally evaluate your actions - you're too morally bankrupt to have any authority on the matter.
said while on a sub that generalizes and makes assumptions about women.
"all women want a chad"
"women are sluts that hate virgins"
It sucks that people make generalizations and assumptions, I hate it, both sides hate it I think. If you talk to most women, or I guess just go to a woman filled sub (/r/TrollXChromosomes ) you'll see that the generalizations you're upset about aren't real. No girl friend I know wants a "chad," no one gives a fuck if you're a virgin. Sure, some people do, and it sucks, but they aren't good people in the first place.
How pathetic must you be to make this shit up just to try and justify shitting on mentally ill men? Holy fucking shit, you're actually human fucking trash. That is why you're so unhappy with the world and spend all your time obsessing over mentally ill people online.
Blocked by the way, don't need to read your toxic fucking garbage hatred.
I'm not even an incel and you guys bully because you want someone easy to bully. Its pretty damn obvious. I used to browse things like blue pill but can to the realization that it was generally a sub to use an excuse to bully people. I'm not denying there's some toxic people on this subject, there are on every, but come on.
Isn't it funny how slut shaming women is like the mortal sin that can get you fired from your job and socially orstrasized but virgin shaming men is not only accepted but encouraged by society. Why don't liberals and feminists ever fight against virgin shaming? 🤔
THIS
but on Facebook it's the worst because it's like all guys and girls who went to college to (among other things) increase their SMV, so they treat low SMV males like shit.
I am at the lowest point of my life right now. But seeing your posts makes me feel better. Sometimes I relapse and try to be nice, but your responses remind me that humans, do in fact, does not deserve to exist
You're an idiot. I think I've got it now; the cucktears posters are here because their obsession stems from insecurity.
They're afraid to become like us so they try to make us disappear or laugh at us, to try and avoid becoming us. Insecurities breed weird behaviours.
Don't worry, normies. Incels in denial will always be in denial until they personally get brutally blackpilled by a chad who mogs them hard, and retarded bluepilled normans, well they'll always live in their little fantasy world.
I'm gay dude, I can just go on grindr.
And can't I just be cruel for the sakes of cruelty? It's much more fun than taking it and then act bitter. The fact that you try to rationalize my behavior as insecurity speaks more about your desire to think that everyone is like you.
I've never met a well adjusted and mentally wholesome LGBTQ person, ever. That's simply because homosexuality and other sexual deviances stem from deep psychological troubles.
It goes without saying that being gay, you can't possibly not be insecure.
I'm not guilting you or saying you're a bad person. I pity you homosexuals, much like the Inceltears posters pity us Incels, except they bully us on top of that.
I won't bully the mentally ill because I know it feels bad. I'm just stating a fact.
Now the very PC Inceltears will lose their shit over this.
Ok, I'll try not to be offended that you called an entire group of people mentally ill( mostly because I'm insane myself). I disagree with your world view, but can still hope that you live well.
Nothing since I don't represent them. However it does show that I wished goodwill on somebody who had insulted me, and a group the I belong to. Perhaps my response wasn't clear enough
I'm not avoiding my own misery is the thing? "I'm probably at the lowest point in my life right now". Call me out if you want, but at least do it proper
It teaches me not to be kind anymore. Sure it's necessary, but never again will I let my heart get the better of me. Maybe I shouldn't do it here on this sub. You guys kind of deserve it, but there's better places to try
I know enough to know I always have more to learn, and I would love to have a basement to hide from the world (especially light), but it's not possible in the region where I'm situated.
And wtf stays with their mom ? Do you ? I invest in the future not the past.
No shit. I was going to say the same thing. If you're mentally ill that's ok but for the love of christ just get some help. Seriously. Meds and therapy is the only thing that's helped me.
Ok. I don't know anything about school shooters. A lot of people aren't fully compliant with their meds. A lot aren't on the right combination. There's a bunch of factors to consider. But that doesn't mean they're awful 100% in every case. It took a long time figuring out what works well for me but once we did shit started looking up.
what do you mean, "on a societal level"? everybody has to do their own work in therapy and it is Not easy or a quick fix but it's a damn sight more effective than doing Nothing. also there are tons of different types of mental health therapies, some more effective than others. what works for one person might not work for another. and not all therapy is talk therapy. there is stuff like TMS, EMDR and neurofeedback these days that are seeing some impressive results.
what has no basis in science? the treatments i mention below are literally developed by neuroscientists who would probably be surprised to learn that what they are doing is not science.
therapy working has no basis in science. psychology is not a hard science. you're being intentionally vague because you have no idea what you're talking about.
instead of admitting you were wrong, you went with some petty shit about the etymology of the word narcissist, which is not a concept entirely based in psychology, which you can find by googling the actual etymology of the word that the name was borrowed from a story from ancient greece about a guy who wouldn't stop staring at his own reflection, ie the concept is as old as humanity. which is why i know you're just 16 on some hormonal rage and not an actual adult trying to discuss things.
lol, thanks for mansplaining Narcissus to me but i was referring to the use of the term narcissist in psychology, notably popularised by Freud. you are embarrassing yourself mate.
Like you clearly are very ignorant about therapy and how psychology works. The reason they are a bunch of quacks to anyone paying attention is because they take the results of one or two studies and immediately start implementing treatments. In real medicine, you have to do loads of studies and peer review before you're allowed to start using it on the general population. Linking random articles about CBT and other shit makes you look like a 16 year old mouth breather.
the "random article on CBT" was a large-scale meta-analysis so it was compiling the results of many studies on CBT. funny that you claim to know so much about psychology yet also claim it is a load of shit! psychiatry is a crapshoot because of how little we still know about the brain. with advances in imaging there is more and more evidence coming out about how different therapies actually work. and yeah some therapies will probably be revealed to be a waste of time, but that's progress for ya
Science is a pre-established monolith. Being a scientist is an accreditation by an organization. There are rules and regulations. YOU MIGHT WANT TO BRUSH UP ON WHAT SCIENCE ACTUALLY MEANS
hahahahaa. you are correct about accreditation (which, shock horror, clinical psychologists have to attain), but no. science is a process. ask any scientist. seriously.
would love to know where i have contradicted myself? i'm just trying to explain things simply because your comprehension skills appear to be lacking. google "the scientific method for dummies" or something.
how many different kinds of therapy did you try? it's not a one-size-fits-all thing. it can be a frustratingly long process to find a therapy that works for you - same with psych meds unfortunately
You guys seem to think you're so unique with your problems. And maybe you are! Everyone of us is.
But all you see is the facade others put up, and you choose to think it's all there is.
While in reality, everyone is doing their best to fight existential dread every day, and fighting for that sanity amidst madness quite often.
What I'm saying is that people don't want to change you because they're outsiders. Many of us had or have the same difficulties you have, and er fight them every moment of our lives to make it feel better.
And we see that many of you could do the same if you just stopped accepting it as done deal that "it's over" because of whatever reason you chose to choose
Spend some time on some of the posts in this subreddit. A lot of these “incels” are nothing more than angry, homophobic, anti-Semitic, degenerates that will whine about being fragile and emotionally damaged then in the same breath turn around and insult everyone not like them (from behind a computer screen, of course). Adult babies with mommy and daddy issues that try, with a limp wrist, to lash out at people who call them out on their stupid bullshit.
Wait, telling someone they are responsible for their personality and actions around other people is bullying? Well shit, I thought SJWs were sensitive, but damn, that takes the cake.
Incels: All women only want Chad, are roastie whores, are basically evil
Also Incels: Don't generalize us
Enough of this pussy griping about generalizations, that's what people do, they generalize. You're all going to be judged based on the stereotypical members of your group, just like every other group in the word. Suck it up.
Get used to it. Every group generalize the members of other groups
so you're a sheep who follows others?
Incels do it IT does it
we don't have 50+ members who search this sub for hours just to find something stupid and misogynistic to post it.
So it's a pointless gripe to make.
really? i don't see how affecting others in this sub is pointless. besides, incels are diverse, why should the rest be grouped up with just one post? its plain stupid.
There irony that you don't see all those statements are applicable to the shit you rambled on about here. And yes, I do see members of this sub doing the exact shit in IT all the time. Only reason you don't is that the posts are always removed.
You yourself were lurking there earlier today. Not that anyone would know, since you're shadowbanned. Only reason I'm aware is your responses set off my notifications before they were removed. If they stopped erasing incel nonsense, you dopes would have IT just as overrun.
11,543 (alot of them are not even incels) vs 50k+ ''overrun'' lol
and yes, I do see members of this sub doing the exact shit in IT all the time. Only reason you don't is that the posts are always removed.
yeah, just like most of reddits.
You yourself were lurking there earlier today. Not that anyone would know, since you're shadowbanned. Only reason I'm aware is your responses set off my notifications before they were removed. If they stopped erasing incel nonsense, you dopes would have IT just as overrun.
IT = Inceltears (which is what this post is talking about). A sub originally made for making fun of the most extreme incels. However, since then it has turned into militant hate of anyone who employs the label no matter what beliefs they hold.
Nowadays, users from there often come in here shitting on incels like the ones I mentioned, who aren't hateful, for simple shits and giggles, which is why the user you replied to is, in my opinion, full of shit.
you know what's unreasonable and unhinged? thinking that 80% of men are uglier than the average guy. that's what women think, and i don't see you harassing and berating women for thinking that way.
If you can’t cite a source to back up that “80% of guys...” claim, then you’re proving me right. The incels who latch onto dumb hyperbolic shit are the ones who invite the derision from outside the sub, because you’re the ones that make all of you seem like stupid extremists - which makes it tougher on the incels who ARENT on board with that dumb shit.
Knock it off with the “that’s what women think”, your anecdotal (or just made up) bullshit that you spew to support your “argument”, is stupid and doesn’t help at all.
I mean, good on you for actually providing a source (most incels here wouldn’t, they’d just reeeee until the subject was dropped), but you do realize that “80% of women on OkCupid” or “80% of women included in this study” is NOT the same as “80% of all women period”, right?
And that link you provided essentially states that more attractive people garner more attention… no shit. I don’t think anyone’s arguing that. My point is that latching on to hyperbole like “80% of all women” is silly and an invitation to take you even less seriously.
Do you have another study with as many people as OKcupid? I didn't think so. You're not gonna find someone able to replicate it. The sheer sample size. To dismiss such a large sample size is absolutely retarded. The fact is you were proven wrong today. You lost, it doesn't mean you have to like it.
Pay attention, genius - I don't need to supply a sample size because my point (and try to pay attention this time) is: "that latching on to hyperbole like “80% of all women” is silly and an invitation to take you even less seriously" - a point which still stands.
And I "lost"? haha okay, I don't consider discussion a win/lose contest, but if you're the sort of person with an ego that fragile and you need to win - then, sure dude, you got it.
i've got an observation of the actions of** millions of women**, and you've got.... oh that's right, nothing at all. yes, you're operating under a story, and i'm operating under the observable universe.
Online dating as a source? Fucking go outside and speak to humans. Do THINGS with PEOPLE and then you guys wpuld see they don't all deserve hell... jist most of em
the purpose of posting that link is not to give you information about online dating. it's to inform you just how differently men and women view eachother.
As others have stated, you aren't being bullied for being ugly, uncharismatic, or a virgin. You're simply being rightfully called out for using those things the fuel your anger and contributing to the shitstorm you call "Inceldom". r/mgtow has their shit together, and they're all virgins too. If you don't like a problem, ignore it. Don't be an asshole about it.
No, the "mtgow" community is a joke. For people who don't like women, they sure spend a lot of time harassing them, and blaming them for all of the world's problems.
lol r/mgtow is just as “misogynistic” and “toxic” or whatever as this sub. they’re basically incelslight. the only reason they aren’t constantly brigaded is because their mods actually ban people
I realize that this sub is an echo-chamber, and no one wants to hear this, but as a fat guy who was a virgin until almost 19, I am giving you some real advice here.
No one is bullying you for being a virgin.
People are terrified of the way you are blaming your own personal problems on other people, and society at large.
It's as if you think you are entitled to have another person of your choosing be forced to have sex with you, because that's what you want.
but you are right, just dont be fat and dont be a loser and its not rocket science to have sex. people on here would rather do nothing and blame others though
Virgin is used as an insult towards women as well. Don't be such a snowflake.
just dont be fat
I'm fat AF and have an extremely hot girlfriend, which is the same for many fat people of both sexes. Nothing wrong with being fat, other than health issues.
dont be a loser
Nailed it.
people on here would rather do nothing and blame others though
Most people here blame their personal problems on their looks. Some blame them on women/society, but these are copes. It's over and the only hope for a lot of these people to end their suffering is to kill themselves.
I'll admit that's true, but if one can it does make things much much easier to deal with.
I do appreciate not being barked at with demands to kill myself or the simple angry statement that I'm wrong because it's not the same opinion you share.
I hope you have a very pleasant week for that.
lmao you weren't even 19, you fucking fat piece of shit. That's extremely early and young. The average age to lose it is 17. Please fuck off, your experience isn't relatable and you cannot understand.
lol what's your problem, Jabba? Everyone should tell fatasses to fuck off. They're disgusting pigs that need to lose weight or be eradicated. Can't stand the site of them.
if there was a problem with drunks organizing themselves in society I wouldn't tell them they had a fault of willpower, I'd figure out what the fuck is wrong with society.
Try harder, start with the way you view the world. The fact that you are here complaining shows that you have not yet succeeded in improving yourself very much.
This is a sub for guys who followed all of the bullshit advice about self improvement only to realize, after years of beating themselves up, that they're actually just ugly and it's not their fault at all.
What people are terrified of is admitting that what they've been told about genders, relationships, and sex are lies.
The only one who gives a shit about you being a virgin is yourself.
This "community" is sometimes ridiculed because many of its members are absolute assholes that have brought themselves to think that absolute assholes is all they can be, and hate anyone that isn't like them, or wants to stop being like them.
It's like a cult almost. The mantra being
"we're assholes. But everyone else is even worse, because they hate us for being assholes"
It's certainly over if you accept it to be over and never try again. And the best way to do that is wallowing on self hate and pity in a community of like-minded people who never want to strive to better themselves in any way.
I get it, life is shit for many of you. But it's not like we're living in a paradise where you get what you want because you want it. You have to grab life by its balls and make it do what you want, because no one else will do that for you.
That was possible for previous generations... They haven't been exposed to ideals trough media. We've been overly desensitized so we are hardly attracted below 5. I haven't seen more than a few ugly young couples in my entire life, also not a lot of averages, just bunch of hot people together
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Haha have you actually asked a woman this? It sounds like you're trying to find excuses for other behavior.
If anyone does think less of you for being a virgin, man or woman, they are an asshole, and nothing more.
If you'd like to generalize the entire female population, then sure. I hope you come to realize that that is just not the case, and the only one holding someone's virginity against them is themselves.
The good old "the only people shaming virgins are themselves" meme. Peoples insecurities and resentment come from somewhere, you know that right? It doesn't just pop out of thin air. Why would virgins purposefully shame themselves if they hate said shaming so much? Why do people like you feel the need to question and invalidate people's experiences so much?
You could simply say "hey that sucks man" and move on, but nah you gotta go on a forum for lonely guys and tell them it's all in their head.
Hey, sorry for questioning and invalidating your experiences. It really sucks that you have been made to feel that way by other people. It has not been my experience and I guess I am just trying to say that it doesn't have to be yours. I hope someday you are around better people that don't judge you for factors that are out of your control.
There are some actual bullies who show up just to be horrible and tell subscribers how "pathetic" they are. These bullies are not the feminists, however.
The whole "new posts show up first" system doesn't seem to be working, mods, as these faggots are being upvoted for their bullshit on a consistent basis.
Its quite honestly your own fault. Not that you are a virgin, but that you are objectively a shitty person who has done nothing to fix themselves, and if you have you most likely regressed because here you are reading my post back in this community.
Cut out the toxic shit in this community and you will be 150% better off or dont and continue to blame society.
I didn't need to fix myself. I was an outgoing, happy, friendly child. I wanted to be friends with everyone, but they shunned me. They picked on me, bullied me, because they saw me as being beneath them. I wasn't even human in their eyes.
How fucking dare you tell me to fix myself? I am the way I am today, not because of my personality, mental illness, misogyny, or whatever excuse normies try to come up with to excuse their shitty behavior. I am this way because of you. Because of bullies like you and everyone on IT.
You treat me like dirt all my life, and then you complain when I've had enough? Fuck you.
r/braincels: women should be treated like property, have no work rights and be bound to men financially. This will ensure us men have a steady supply of pussy
Normies/Chads/Stacies/Non-spastics: that's really disgusting. You should be ashamed of yourselves. No wonder you are all alone
It teaches me not to be kind anymore. Sure it's necessary, but never again will I let my heart get the better of me. Maybe I shouldn't do it here on this sub. You guys kind of deserve it, but there's better places to try
You guys seem to think you're so unique with your problems. And maybe you are! Everyone of us is.
But all you see is the facade others put up, and you choose to think it's all there is.
While in reality, everyone is doing their best to fight existential dread every day, and fighting for that sanity amidst madness quite often.
What I'm saying is that people don't want to change you because they're outsiders. Many of us had or have the same difficulties you have, and er fight them every moment of our lives to make it feel better.
And we see that many of you could do the same if you just stopped accepting it as done deal that "it's over" because of whatever reason you chose to choose
That it is how it works. I'm ugly, guys I know in person are very ugly. I'm in a relationship and plenty of the ugly ass dude's I know are in relationships. If they're not now they were in the past. My dad is a very ugly man. Explain how he had two children and is married now.
But, yeah your personality probably does make you uglier. You've never hung out with someone that you really enjoyed being around who was ugly as fuck when you first met but became more attractive because of their personality?
Plus, you guys try meeting women online too much. That's a big mistake. The online world is skewed. I have no issue with getting girls in real life. My personality is what wins them over.
Ugly girls can get more attractive guys to an extent. But, more often than not when I see girls in long term relationships the guy is a couple points below the girl. My girlfriend is atleast a 7 by society standards I'm definitely a 4. Most dude's I hang around are about a 4 or 5 and their girlfriends are 7 or 8s.
You guys just try to simplify everything. Dating isn't so simple. It's a lot of issues. Not to mention the fact you think you know women so well but yet you can't manage to date them. Maybe it's time to realize you don't know them. I'm an ugly guy telling you that it's possible for ugly guys to get girls. Why would you not listen to people who clearly know what they're talking about when you clearly do Not?
"Hey dude if you want to get a girl do x"
"No, man that's not gonna work girls don't like x they like y"
"But ive done x to get girls and that's what works has y ever worked for you?"
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1 geneticwaste43 2018-03-11
Men are scum!
1 Incelvester 2018-03-11
Everyone on r/IncelTears
1 birtopia 2018-03-11
Except I’m not mentally ill, just 0/10. This is still pretty accurate though.
1 sc2isadeadgame 2018-03-11
normally i would remove this for generalising the sub but i hate these fuckers so much
1 Claymore-2000 2018-03-11
IT tend to generalize. so why the fuck not?
1 sc2isadeadgame 2018-03-11
are you dumb, i'd remove it if it generalised actual incels
1 TsarHarkinian 2018-03-11
i'm retarded v*Rgin incel but why is there a rule against generalizing incels despite us generalizing inceltears lmao
1 sc2isadeadgame 2018-03-11
because we don't brigade inceltears
1 xxgtxy 2018-03-11
"Men are privileged"
1 not_so_plausible 2018-03-11
I'm not here to bully but when you say that a vagina isn't elastic that's just a poor understanding of anatomy.
1 ZepaMs43 2018-03-11
Found the loose roastie
1 not_so_plausible 2018-03-11
Haha yeah you're right dicks are totally capable of physically altering the appearance of vaginal lips. You sure showed me. I'm not even making of anyone I'm just trying to tell you how a vagina works. I don't even have a vagina. Maybe try being less autistic and understanding human anatomy better. Either that or report to your nearest university so they can research your superdick capable of mutating human skin.
1 asdfasdffsdaasdfasdf 2018-03-11
Look how fast the monkey defaulted to bullying. 0-60 like a sports car.
Elastic snaps back, until it eventually gets too stretched. Women who give birth are known for their cavernous vaginas and need to do kegels. Dicks are the same. A vagina doesn't stay as stretched, but if you think it doesn't stretch, there's a bridge in brooklyn with your name on it, great view, we can cut a sweet deal.
1 Crackcel 2018-03-11
Something tells me her roast is stretched
1 not_so_plausible 2018-03-11
Yeah after someone called me a loose roastie even though I'm a dude lul they hypocrisy is reallll up in here.
I mean they're not. You're just making shit up at this point but okay let's continue.
I'm not sure if you're capable of scrolling up to where I said "I'm not here to bully but when you say that a vagina isn't elastic that's just a poor understanding of anatomy." So basically I just stated they stretched because that's a part of what being elastic is all about but thanks for literally proving my point.
So to summarize this up into one sweet little package, you call me ..a dude.. a loose roastie (that would be bullying) after I haven't said anything other then a vagina is elastic (which you agreed with). Then you told me I'm the one now bullying since I responded harshly to someone bullying, and that apparently I don't think vaginas stretch when I literally said they're elastic in my first comment. 10/10 argument there man keep up the good work proud of you.
1 KufoIV 2018-03-11
you people are so braindead, you will never learn. this shit is fucking hilarious
1 ZepaMs43 2018-03-11
Its to easy sometimes
1 Hopecel 2018-03-11
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Labiaplasty
1 not_so_plausible 2018-03-11
Right I know what that is but you're still saying that too much dick can damage pussy lips (the one part your dick literally slides by) to the point in which reconstructive surgery is needed to fix it. I hope you all realize how dumb that thought process is. Pussy lips are not manipulated by your dicks. The only reason that surgery exists is basically for looks. Kind-of like how women prefer tall men, men prefer vaginas that don't have meaty lips. Idk why I'm even explaining this I feel like the autism that is this subreddit will still find some way to try and prove me wrong.
1 ranseroto 2018-03-11
LOL we really are no different
1 ItsReallyYouOnMyMind 2018-03-11
Who is that? I'd like to masturbate to her.
1 not_so_plausible 2018-03-11
Marry Queen and that's a good idea.
1 mazafakaaaa 2018-03-11
LMAO at not having a vagina in 2018
1 justforlulzandkeks 2018-03-11
EVERY TIME
1 JohnQNo1 2018-03-11
Like clockwork
1 justforlulzandkeks 2018-03-11
1 KufoIV 2018-03-11
don't forget strong and independent.
1 AntiAbleism 2018-03-11
And nobody does shit, yet men are the oppressors and privileged.
1 rifain 2018-03-11
You can't define incels only as virgins. People here are hateful and bitter. Incels are despicable because of their shit personnality, not because they are virgins.
1 Incel_Executioner 2018-03-11
While this comment is shit, the thought process is correct.
Incels are not miserable because they're virgins. They're miserable because they're starved of human intimacy and universally hated by women. Years of rejection and scorn from the opposite gender cultivates the bitterness and hate seen here. It's very easy to become hateful of women when they treat you like shit just for existing.
1 BornToBeABanana 2018-03-11
Maybe instead of becoming a worse person work on the shit personalities that got you denied and stop chasing women who are 10s when you're a fucking 4.
1 destiny-draw 2018-03-11
Stop being such a banana.
1 BornToBeABanana 2018-03-11
I cant deny my DNA
1 currynator3000 2018-03-11
Just lol at incels chasing 10s. Most of us are sub 2 except for the dicks that post selfies here for attention
1 BornToBeABanana 2018-03-11
exactly, maybe go for a girl who is just as ugly. That's the point. Quit whining that hot women only like hot men when you don't go for ugly chicks. Aim lower. Personality wise too.
1 currynator3000 2018-03-11
You miss the point then. All women are chasing Chads
1 BornToBeABanana 2018-03-11
No, they arent.
1 Incel_Executioner 2018-03-11
What about my personality made women call me ugly?
1 BornToBeABanana 2018-03-11
That it is how it works. I'm ugly, guys I know in person are very ugly. I'm in a relationship and plenty of the ugly ass dude's I know are in relationships. If they're not now they were in the past. My dad is a very ugly man. Explain how he had two children and is married now.
But, yeah your personality probably does make you uglier. You've never hung out with someone that you really enjoyed being around who was ugly as fuck when you first met but became more attractive because of their personality?
Plus, you guys try meeting women online too much. That's a big mistake. The online world is skewed. I have no issue with getting girls in real life. My personality is what wins them over.
Ugly girls can get more attractive guys to an extent. But, more often than not when I see girls in long term relationships the guy is a couple points below the girl. My girlfriend is atleast a 7 by society standards I'm definitely a 4. Most dude's I hang around are about a 4 or 5 and their girlfriends are 7 or 8s.
You guys just try to simplify everything. Dating isn't so simple. It's a lot of issues. Not to mention the fact you think you know women so well but yet you can't manage to date them. Maybe it's time to realize you don't know them. I'm an ugly guy telling you that it's possible for ugly guys to get girls. Why would you not listen to people who clearly know what they're talking about when you clearly do Not?
"Hey dude if you want to get a girl do x"
"No, man that's not gonna work girls don't like x they like y"
"But ive done x to get girls and that's what works has y ever worked for you?"
"No y has never worked for me"
"Okay so try x"
"Nope x doesn't work"
1 IphisTelethousas 2018-03-11
hahaha
1 Incel_Executioner 2018-03-11
Post face.
1 BornToBeABanana 2018-03-11
https://m.imgur.com/a/raI6m
Can u see my acne good too? Included pic of me with my girlfriend too
1 Incel_Executioner 2018-03-11
Mogs me hard
1 BornToBeABanana 2018-03-11
I'm not lazy lol I have an active job lol I just eat shit. I'm definitely ugly. If you're denying that you're a liar lmao
1 LPO55 2018-03-11
I agree with most of your longer post/outlook. You really don't seem ugly genetically though, just fat. If you lost weight and ate clean to further eliminate facial bloat, you'd probably be a 6.
1 BornToBeABanana 2018-03-11
Idk man, it's not that I care about my own looks too much. I just look at myself realistically and see an ugly dude lol. I am working on the weight now. Maybe I'm uglier in person, idk.
1 FEDORA_GOD 2018-03-11
You don't get to police what the word "incel" means, sorry.
1 currynator3000 2018-03-11
Fucking Kek at this cope
1 rifain 2018-03-11
Are you trying to speak english ?
1 shuang_xi 2018-03-11
破病殀寿
1 Claymore-2000 2018-03-11
incels means virgin. dfaq are you on about?
1 insultin_crayon 2018-03-11
You don’t get bullied for being virgins. Literally no one gives a shit you’re virgins. You’re all assholes, misogynistic, racist, and generally shitty humans, so we pick on you for that.
1 Machazzo 2018-03-11
^
1 thiccboiWW 2018-03-11
Oh racists too, want to give a few examples?
1 insultin_crayon 2018-03-11
No need. Just browse the sub.
1 ZepaMs43 2018-03-11
So none
1 Cristalline144hz 2018-03-11
Half that sub isn't white. Yeah and the racism against indians are usually from indians themselve.
Incel know no races.
1 Hopecel 2018-03-11
Imagine being this high up on the horse and deciding what’s good and bad.
1 insultin_crayon 2018-03-11
You mean exactly what you worthless assholes do? The only difference here is that you literally have NO worth.
1 IphisTelethousas 2018-03-11
Show me my misogyny and racism.
1 insultin_crayon 2018-03-11
Every post made on this sub is misogyny
1 IphisTelethousas 2018-03-11
That includes your own?
1 insultin_crayon 2018-03-11
I have never made a disparaging post against women
1 IphisTelethousas 2018-03-11
Neither have I. Still you're calling me an "asshole, misogynistic, racist, and generally shitty human".
I'll stipulate to "asshole" and "generally shitty human" but I want you to show me my misogyny and racism.
1 insultin_crayon 2018-03-11
You support a violent, misogynistic, racist sub.
1 IphisTelethousas 2018-03-11
I'm contributing much less material support to this sub than e.g. /u/Board_Gaming. Is she misogynistic and racist, too?
1 behindcloseddoors1 2018-03-11
So do you
1 insultin_crayon 2018-03-11
I’m not here to support. I’m here to report every single post in hopes that this sub goes the way of r/incels.
1 behindcloseddoors1 2018-03-11
By being here you're supporting the sub
1 ItsReallyYouOnMyMind 2018-03-11
lol, i love this sub but don't pretend there isn't a shitload of misogyny and racism. i found this after 10s
1 IphisTelethousas 2018-03-11
I don't pretend that. I'm saying it's untrue that we're all misogynistic and racist.
1 bizzerk22 2018-03-11
Then the same should apply that not all women, attractive or otherwise, fit into the single "Stacy" archetype incels love to project their self-loathing on.
1 IphisTelethousas 2018-03-11
Of course, never said anything different.
1 homendailha 2018-03-11
I, too, would like to be shown my misogyny and racism please /u/insultin_crayon.
1 ranseroto 2018-03-11
Except all of society
1 Carkudo 2018-03-11
It's been pretty well established that "misogyny" is just a convenient excuse for you people, and what you're really after is indeed virgin shaming and harassment.
1 insultin_crayon 2018-03-11
Pretty well established in your own hideous head
1 Carkudo 2018-03-11
And if you want people to think of you differently, it's up to you to change that impression.
1 BornToBeABanana 2018-03-11
Nope, literally no one gives a shit if you're a virgin besides you. You're insecure about the fact that you're a virgin. So much so you join groups on line. That's why you feel like that's what people are picking on you for. It's your own lame ads insecurity about it.
1 Hopecel 2018-03-11
It takes two seconds to google that virgin shaming is real.
1 BornToBeABanana 2018-03-11
Yes, it's real. But, what you guys don't understand is that the only people who genuinely care if someone is a virgin no one else respects. It's either 16 year olds or immature adults. If someone was genuinely making fun of someone for being a virgin at my age (21) they would get shamed for even giving a shit. That shit is so lame to care about.
1 Hopecel 2018-03-11
Women hate virgins and don’t want to date them.
1 BornToBeABanana 2018-03-11
That's simply untrue. You guys get denied and shit and assume why. Like I said, I was 19 when I lost my virginity. I had no problem getting girls before then. My current girlfriend who I lost my virginity to had no issue with me being a virgin. My girlfriends friends have no issues with guys who are virgins. Making a big deal about being a virgin is what girls don't like.
1 Hopecel 2018-03-11
It’s perfectly normal to lose your virginity at 19, it’s just one year above average. Also you said “I had no problems getting girls before that” bro you are a normie not a KHHV.
There was an OkCupid study in which 60-70% of women said that they wouldn’t date a male virgin.
It’s not like we go out with a tattoo on our forehead that says “I’m a virgin”. I’ve never been on a date like most people here. Do you really think I talk to girls about my virginity? Come on, I’m embarrassed.
1 BornToBeABanana 2018-03-11
I mean, according to you guys i shouldn't have even been able to lose it at all? So, I think 19 is pretty impressive. I'm 5'6", 170 lbs, solid 4/10, and I have a micropenis. Also, don't be shocked by this, I don't treat women like garbage.
I hate those surveys too. They're trash. That's exactly the point. They couldn't possibly know. So, if a girl really liked you and you revealed you were a virgin she's not gonna just dump you. I would say the girls I hang out with are still pretty young. All around 23. My girlfriends best friend is actually dating a guy right now who was a virgin when they first started dating and he's 22 and she's 23. Another one of her friends is a virgin and he's 23. No one makes fun of him for it.
I'm just trying to get you to see how little of a deal it is. It definitely isn't a deal breaker for most women. In fact, it can't be because they can't know. But, I know virgins. No one gives a shit. Honestly, I rarely even hear people talk about their virginity. Only time it comes up is if it's relevant to the conversation. It only becomes a big deal when you make it one. Thinking about it and being online blaming your looks and virginity for your virginity is only going to make you more hateful and have less confidence. Just a self fulfilling prophecy at this point.
1 Hopecel 2018-03-11
God, hearing this makes me really sad. I really feel for you if you have a micropenis. I would have offed myself if I had one. I consider you a very lucky guy for being able to get into a relationship despite your unfortunate genetics. Nature is cruel.
You see how it’s conflicting with the fact that I stated and you just call the study bullshit. Just because your personal experience doesn’t align with this it doesn’t make it any less valid.
Although there is no male equivalent to the female hymen it’s likely that a girl is going to notice that you are awkward when it comes to kissing / sex. Imagine cumming in thirty seconds. You can’t just fake experience.
1 BornToBeABanana 2018-03-11
Man, I feel sorry for you that you place such emphasis on penis size. I apparently have a smaller penis than you but a higher quality love life. Having a micropenis has honestly helped me in life a lot. I felt bad about myself for awhile, then realized how much it didn't matter. My life got a lot better.
Dawg, of course she's gonna know when you act all awkward. At the point she's chosen to kiss you and/or have sex with you she already likes you and you being a virgin wouldn't matter. I definitely remember cumming fast as fuck. My girlfriend was cool with it. She still is sometimes lmao as long as you don't see sex as something that begins and ends with penetration that doesn't matter.
I say the survey is bullshit not because it doesn't align with my personal experience, but because it's hypothetical. There are so many other factors surrounding that decision that the simple question "would you date a virgin" isn't enough. Look at those surveys. Under my penis size, weight, and looks what percentage of women would've instantly said no to me? Shit, I probably would've said I wouldn't date someone with a lot of qualities my girlfriend has. But, I met her. I liked her. That stuff didn't seem as big of a deal because so many other things were so great. That's wht those surveys are bullshit.
1 Claymore-2000 2018-03-11
hahahahaah
1 photobombyourmom 2018-03-11
You do realize that all people who aren't currently virgins..were once virgins 🤔(shocking I know.). Even 'Chad' had to start out as one..like wut even
1 Hopecel 2018-03-11
Don’t be a fucking dumbass. Adult male virgins are hated.
1 photobombyourmom 2018-03-11
If they are hated..then how did the ones that managed to get laid do it?
1 FEDORA_GOD 2018-03-11
Yet here you fucking are.
Why the actual FUCK are you here LOL? You being here is LITERALLY fucking harassment you fucking trashcan.
Holy shit people like you who need to involve themselves in everything and invalidate others experiences trigger me, blocked.
1 BornToBeABanana 2018-03-11
I'm not shaming anyone for being a virgin lol I was a virgin until I was 19. I couldn't care less if someone was a virgin or not. Harassing? No. I just know you all pity yourselves too much. Just fix your personalities and quit being obsessed with sex. It's weird.
1 Carkudo 2018-03-11
Well, if you taking the effort to come over here and harass people for being virgins, and then making a whole subreddit for the same purpose, is just in my head, then I must be pretty damn mentally ill.
But really, the alternative is just way more plausible.
1 BornToBeABanana 2018-03-11
I never harassed anyone for being a virgin. I am saying how little of a shit people give how the fuck would that make sense. People make subreddits making fun of how much you guys focus on being virgins and on much emphasis you put on it. How sad and angry it makes you to be a virgin is what people are making fun of. Not the fact that you are a virgin.
1 Carkudo 2018-03-11
Just because you think your harassment is good and justified doesn't mean it's not harassment. I don't care how you personally evaluate your actions - you're too morally bankrupt to have any authority on the matter.
1 timeout400 2018-03-11
All the anti-virgin spaces online say otherwise
1 AntiAbleism 2018-03-11
All the generalizations, assumptions and acting like you fucking know us.
1 Okamii 2018-03-11
said while on a sub that generalizes and makes assumptions about women.
"all women want a chad" "women are sluts that hate virgins"
It sucks that people make generalizations and assumptions, I hate it, both sides hate it I think. If you talk to most women, or I guess just go to a woman filled sub (/r/TrollXChromosomes ) you'll see that the generalizations you're upset about aren't real. No girl friend I know wants a "chad," no one gives a fuck if you're a virgin. Sure, some people do, and it sucks, but they aren't good people in the first place.
1 FEDORA_GOD 2018-03-11
How pathetic must you be to make this shit up just to try and justify shitting on mentally ill men? Holy fucking shit, you're actually human fucking trash. That is why you're so unhappy with the world and spend all your time obsessing over mentally ill people online.
Blocked by the way, don't need to read your toxic fucking garbage hatred.
1 insultin_crayon 2018-03-11
Ohh no!
1 GreasyElite 2018-03-11
I'm not even an incel and you guys bully because you want someone easy to bully. Its pretty damn obvious. I used to browse things like blue pill but can to the realization that it was generally a sub to use an excuse to bully people. I'm not denying there's some toxic people on this subject, there are on every, but come on.
1 EntroPete 2018-03-11
Exactly this. The worst part about it is that they won't admit that. Like c'mon guys, at least be honest.
1 TheIncelPill 2018-03-11
I don't hate black people, I just hate those saggy-pantsed, basketball-playing, watermelon-eating thugocrats that just happen to be black.
I don't hate Jews, I just hate those big-nosed, gold-stealing, Christ killing ratmen that just happen to be Jewish.
1 PeppyHydra 2018-03-11
Yeah, internet behaviour on a sub made specifically to vent about romantic frustrations reflects our real life behaviour.
You must be mentally retarded
1 sailorgangordie 2018-03-11
Isn't it funny how slut shaming women is like the mortal sin that can get you fired from your job and socially orstrasized but virgin shaming men is not only accepted but encouraged by society. Why don't liberals and feminists ever fight against virgin shaming? 🤔
1 rubbish_everywhere 2018-03-11
There are 2 types of women who lurk here:
Feminists who want to shame and feel superior
Attention whores who want to be the Khaleesi of incels bc they’ll never be Stacy
1 Okamii 2018-03-11
I take it you're a nice guy?
1 CatalystEXE 2018-03-11
Type 1 identified
1 xkewlsomuchkewl 2018-03-11
1 timeout400 2018-03-11
I've had virgin shaming happen IN GROUP THERAPY. DURING FUCKING GROUP THERAPY.
"just get therapy" shit is such bad advice
1 methaferus 2018-03-11
It's because those groups you mentioned (especially feminists) are gynocentric
1 boredyeah 2018-03-11
Ask yourself the age old question: does it affect women?
Theres your answer.
1 googol89 2018-03-11
I'm for slut shaming everyone and against virgin shaming everyone, in fact I endorse virginity for everyone
1 ThatOneExpatriate 2018-03-11
Lol everyone hates everyone else on the internet... it's a dystopian community of insecure assholes
1 timeout400 2018-03-11
THIS but on Facebook it's the worst because it's like all guys and girls who went to college to (among other things) increase their SMV, so they treat low SMV males like shit.
1 fishet 2018-03-11
Smv?
1 timeout400 2018-03-11
sexual market value
1 fishet 2018-03-11
are you fucking serious? Dude that's some really well done bullshit you're cooking there
1 SoFetchBetch 2018-03-11
Just get off fb then... it's old and boring anyway
1 gulpingulpin 2018-03-11
Pretty sure the bullying happens cus you guys say some of the most disgusting shit I’ve ever seen. Not cus you’re virgins
1 Carkudo 2018-03-11
No bully thinks he's a bully.
1 rubbish_everywhere 2018-03-11
I don’t know what’s sadder: being an incel and complaining online or being obsessed with incels and spending all your time trolling them online.
Either way, both don’t have a life.
1 CherubOfBael41 2018-03-11
Nah you guys are hilarious. I look down on you guys to practice being more of an evil fuck
1 rubbish_everywhere 2018-03-11
Yeah we’re Pathetic. But the fact that you’re on this sub obsessing over us makes you even more pathetic :)
1 CherubOfBael41 2018-03-11
I am at the lowest point of my life right now. But seeing your posts makes me feel better. Sometimes I relapse and try to be nice, but your responses remind me that humans, do in fact, does not deserve to exist
1 PeppyHydra 2018-03-11
You're an idiot. I think I've got it now; the cucktears posters are here because their obsession stems from insecurity.
They're afraid to become like us so they try to make us disappear or laugh at us, to try and avoid becoming us. Insecurities breed weird behaviours.
Don't worry, normies. Incels in denial will always be in denial until they personally get brutally blackpilled by a chad who mogs them hard, and retarded bluepilled normans, well they'll always live in their little fantasy world.
1 CherubOfBael41 2018-03-11
I'm gay dude, I can just go on grindr. And can't I just be cruel for the sakes of cruelty? It's much more fun than taking it and then act bitter. The fact that you try to rationalize my behavior as insecurity speaks more about your desire to think that everyone is like you.
1 PeppyHydra 2018-03-11
I've got my answer then. You are gay.
That is all.
1 CherubOfBael41 2018-03-11
So being gay is a bad thing? I don't understand how that makes me insecure?
1 PeppyHydra 2018-03-11
You are a homosexual. That is your insecurity.
I've never met a well adjusted and mentally wholesome LGBTQ person, ever. That's simply because homosexuality and other sexual deviances stem from deep psychological troubles.
It goes without saying that being gay, you can't possibly not be insecure.
1 CherubOfBael41 2018-03-11
Huh incels are really as despicable as they come. And here they try to guilt me for being a bad person.
1 PeppyHydra 2018-03-11
I'm not guilting you or saying you're a bad person. I pity you homosexuals, much like the Inceltears posters pity us Incels, except they bully us on top of that.
I won't bully the mentally ill because I know it feels bad. I'm just stating a fact.
Now the very PC Inceltears will lose their shit over this.
1 CherubOfBael41 2018-03-11
Ok, I'll try not to be offended that you called an entire group of people mentally ill( mostly because I'm insane myself). I disagree with your world view, but can still hope that you live well.
1 PeppyHydra 2018-03-11
Yeah no wonder you're mentally ill, you're gay.
You hope that I live? What does that say about the rest of the Inceltears members?
1 CherubOfBael41 2018-03-11
Nothing since I don't represent them. However it does show that I wished goodwill on somebody who had insulted me, and a group the I belong to. Perhaps my response wasn't clear enough
1 silkygoombah 2018-03-11
Oop looks like we have a gay master here telling everyone why the gays are gay. 👍
1 PeppyHydra 2018-03-11
Go post this on Inceltears I promise you'll get lots of karma. Anything as long as you go away.
1 silkygoombah 2018-03-11
I don't make posts over there. I rarely even poke my head in there.
1 freejosephk 2018-03-11
But you do realize how ironic your schtick is, or do you try to keep the facade of being completely unaware of your own pathetic misery?
1 CherubOfBael41 2018-03-11
I'm not avoiding my own misery is the thing? "I'm probably at the lowest point in my life right now". Call me out if you want, but at least do it proper
1 freejosephk 2018-03-11
But don't you think you're adding to your own misery by being miserable to others? How can you look yourself in the mirror?
1 CherubOfBael41 2018-03-11
It teaches me not to be kind anymore. Sure it's necessary, but never again will I let my heart get the better of me. Maybe I shouldn't do it here on this sub. You guys kind of deserve it, but there's better places to try
1 currynator3000 2018-03-11
So you're an incel in denial? Welcome. Ldary
1 CherubOfBael41 2018-03-11
Thanks but I'm gay. Could always be a volcel I guess. But guys are so horny though is the thing.
1 Visovari 2018-03-11
Prison gay because you can't get women. That's pathetic.
1 CherubOfBael41 2018-03-11
I'm not in prison? And tfw girls seem to have crushes on me but not her qt guy friends. Why do I live such a sad life?
1 EvilBananaManRD 2018-03-11
I'd agree, but it's just such a curious confidence that those people always go after ugly/short/unattractive jerks instead of any kind of jerk
I really doubt they'd spend half the effort on humiliating these virgins if they weren't ugly
It's almost like they judge people based on appearance. Ugly = mean spirited, evil, bad personality. Good looking = great personality.
1 gulpingulpin 2018-03-11
I have never seen what any one of you look like.
1 vvvvvvvvvvv11 2018-03-11
LOL damn.
1 vvvvvvvvvvv11 2018-03-11
Look how normies are now trying to defend themselves on this post.
1 electrogeek8086 2018-03-11
Stop thinking people give a Shit about you being a Virgin? They dont.
1 Dellarie 2018-03-11
That's why you spend all your free time obsessing over virgins on their sub, normieshit?
1 avtarius 2018-03-11
lol people do, welcome to the real world.
Sexperience is an expectation for most people of/from their counterparts.
1 electrogeek8086 2018-03-11
yeah cuz you know so much about the real world tucked in your mom's basement.
1 avtarius 2018-03-11
I know enough to know I always have more to learn, and I would love to have a basement to hide from the world (especially light), but it's not possible in the region where I'm situated.
And wtf stays with their mom ? Do you ? I invest in the future not the past.
1 GuyFromDaStore 2018-03-11
It builds character. The last thing any of you should be is a fucking snowflake
1 sharkb8master 2018-03-11
Biggest bullshit I've ever heard.
1 GuyFromDaStore 2018-03-11
You think Chad gives a shit about feminists?
1 sharkb8master 2018-03-11
I don't want to be chad
1 boredyeah 2018-03-11
And thats why they want him. They cant touch him no matter what they try.
1 MisterRatburn 2018-03-11
So you guys are mentally ill then?
1 silkygoombah 2018-03-11
No shit. I was going to say the same thing. If you're mentally ill that's ok but for the love of christ just get some help. Seriously. Meds and therapy is the only thing that's helped me.
1 timeout400 2018-03-11
psych. meds. don't. help. society.
every. school. shooter. was. on. loads. of. meds. and. talk. therapy.
Suicide. is. increasing. despite. more. psych. meds. and. more. therapy.
1 silkygoombah 2018-03-11
Ok. I don't know anything about school shooters. A lot of people aren't fully compliant with their meds. A lot aren't on the right combination. There's a bunch of factors to consider. But that doesn't mean they're awful 100% in every case. It took a long time figuring out what works well for me but once we did shit started looking up.
1 mferguson2 2018-03-11
There’s quite a few potential school shooters in here.
1 FrameMogged 2018-03-11
Lul
1 fearville 2018-03-11
correlation. does. not. indicate. causation.
therapy. works. try. it. some. time.
1 timeout400 2018-03-11
if it worked, it would work on a societal level
1 fearville 2018-03-11
what do you mean, "on a societal level"? everybody has to do their own work in therapy and it is Not easy or a quick fix but it's a damn sight more effective than doing Nothing. also there are tons of different types of mental health therapies, some more effective than others. what works for one person might not work for another. and not all therapy is talk therapy. there is stuff like TMS, EMDR and neurofeedback these days that are seeing some impressive results.
1 timeout400 2018-03-11
duuuuuuuude you have no idea how much therapy and psych drugs I've tried, I've even done TMS, EMDR and neurofeedback.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
that has no basis in science
1 fearville 2018-03-11
what has no basis in science? the treatments i mention below are literally developed by neuroscientists who would probably be surprised to learn that what they are doing is not science.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
therapy working has no basis in science. psychology is not a hard science. you're being intentionally vague because you have no idea what you're talking about.
1 fearville 2018-03-11
i'm not talking about psychology, i'm talking about psychiatry and neuroscience
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
then you're painting a strawman. i see the word 'therapy'.
1 fearville 2018-03-11
therapy is not just talk therapy/counselling/psychology
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
maybe the next time you start an argument on the internet, bring an adult so you don't look like a fucking idiot
1 fearville 2018-03-11
i was just trying to be informative but i can't argue with this level of ignorance
1 fearville 2018-03-11
it is ironic that you would use the word "narcissist", a concept entirely based in psychology
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
so you're 16, that's what this is about, your hormones
1 fearville 2018-03-11
wtf, you're not even making sense dude
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
instead of admitting you were wrong, you went with some petty shit about the etymology of the word narcissist, which is not a concept entirely based in psychology, which you can find by googling the actual etymology of the word that the name was borrowed from a story from ancient greece about a guy who wouldn't stop staring at his own reflection, ie the concept is as old as humanity. which is why i know you're just 16 on some hormonal rage and not an actual adult trying to discuss things.
1 fearville 2018-03-11
lol, thanks for mansplaining Narcissus to me but i was referring to the use of the term narcissist in psychology, notably popularised by Freud. you are embarrassing yourself mate.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
mansplaining lol. are you not getting enough dick or something kid?
1 fearville 2018-03-11
unfortunately i get condescended to by men no matter how much dick i'm getting
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
it's not your gender, you're just an idiot and you don't deserve respect
1 fearville 2018-03-11
everybody deserves respect you fucking wank
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
pm tits or vagine
1 fearville 2018-03-11
evidence based psychiatry: https://blogs.scientificamerican.com/guest-blog/the-rise-of-evidence-based-psychiatry/
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
the rise
1 fearville 2018-03-11
science: https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Daniel_Amen2/publication/7383354_High-Resolution_Brain_SPECT_Imaging_and_Eye_Movement_Desensitization_and_Reprocessing_in_Police_Officers_With_PTSD/links/00b7d53c6b0a83fafa000000/High-Resolution-Brain-SPECT-Imaging-and-Eye-Movement-Desensitization-and-Reprocessing-in-Police-Officers-With-PTSD.pdf
1 fearville 2018-03-11
science: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23341412
1 fearville 2018-03-11
also science: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3584580/
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
Like you clearly are very ignorant about therapy and how psychology works. The reason they are a bunch of quacks to anyone paying attention is because they take the results of one or two studies and immediately start implementing treatments. In real medicine, you have to do loads of studies and peer review before you're allowed to start using it on the general population. Linking random articles about CBT and other shit makes you look like a 16 year old mouth breather.
1 fearville 2018-03-11
the "random article on CBT" was a large-scale meta-analysis so it was compiling the results of many studies on CBT. funny that you claim to know so much about psychology yet also claim it is a load of shit! psychiatry is a crapshoot because of how little we still know about the brain. with advances in imaging there is more and more evidence coming out about how different therapies actually work. and yeah some therapies will probably be revealed to be a waste of time, but that's progress for ya
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
It's a crapshoot because it's not science and even a broken clock is right twice a day.
1 fearville 2018-03-11
you keep saying that, as if science is some pre-established unchangeable monolith. you might want to brush up on what science actually means.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
Science is a pre-established monolith. Being a scientist is an accreditation by an organization. There are rules and regulations. YOU MIGHT WANT TO BRUSH UP ON WHAT SCIENCE ACTUALLY MEANS
1 fearville 2018-03-11
hahahahaa. you are correct about accreditation (which, shock horror, clinical psychologists have to attain), but no. science is a process. ask any scientist. seriously.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
a process with rules and regulations, established by a SHOCKING pre-established monolith.
1 fearville 2018-03-11
you do realise i'm talking about scientific knowledge, not the scientific establishment??
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
you're totally a kid and it's obvious because you're trying so hard to twist your own words around.
1 fearville 2018-03-11
would love to know where i have contradicted myself? i'm just trying to explain things simply because your comprehension skills appear to be lacking. google "the scientific method for dummies" or something.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
you're embarrassingly trying to change what you previously meant
1 fearville 2018-03-11
er, no. i have not tried to change anything. it seems like you are the one whose comprehension is lacking.
1 Claymore-2000 2018-03-11
i did. and it didn't work?
1 fearville 2018-03-11
how many different kinds of therapy did you try? it's not a one-size-fits-all thing. it can be a frustratingly long process to find a therapy that works for you - same with psych meds unfortunately
1 Claymore-2000 2018-03-11
money is an issue now. i can't go to therapy.
1 fearville 2018-03-11
that sucks. i hope you find a solution!
1 FrameMogged 2018-03-11
Cope
1 FrameMogged 2018-03-11
Is that a problem?
1 Zero_Gravvity 2018-03-11
Goteem
1 awe300 2018-03-11
If you're wallowing in it, celebrating it instead of letting anyone help, or trying helping yourself? What do you think?
1 FrameMogged 2018-03-11
Fuck off.
1 awe300 2018-03-11
You guys seem to think you're so unique with your problems. And maybe you are! Everyone of us is.
But all you see is the facade others put up, and you choose to think it's all there is.
While in reality, everyone is doing their best to fight existential dread every day, and fighting for that sanity amidst madness quite often.
What I'm saying is that people don't want to change you because they're outsiders. Many of us had or have the same difficulties you have, and er fight them every moment of our lives to make it feel better.
And we see that many of you could do the same if you just stopped accepting it as done deal that "it's over" because of whatever reason you chose to choose
1 FrameMogged 2018-03-11
I'm not reading that lol
1 awe300 2018-03-11
As you're not doing a lot of things
1 FrameMogged 2018-03-11
Ouch such a meanie :(
1 Okamii 2018-03-11
You should read it. awe300 is saying we're all the same and just want people to do well.
If you'd rather watch videos, this youtube channel is pretty great at humanizing others: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=petg12b36UA
1 MisterRatburn 2018-03-11
No, I think acknowledging it is quite healthy.
1 FrameMogged 2018-03-11
Good.
1 mferguson2 2018-03-11
Being mentally ill IS a problem, yes.
1 FrameMogged 2018-03-11
Of course it is, But people with mental illness shouldn't be bullied.
1 mferguson2 2018-03-11
Spend some time on some of the posts in this subreddit. A lot of these “incels” are nothing more than angry, homophobic, anti-Semitic, degenerates that will whine about being fragile and emotionally damaged then in the same breath turn around and insult everyone not like them (from behind a computer screen, of course). Adult babies with mommy and daddy issues that try, with a limp wrist, to lash out at people who call them out on their stupid bullshit.
1 FrameMogged 2018-03-11
That's a lot of projection.
1 mferguson2 2018-03-11
That’s real talk, bruh
1 FrameMogged 2018-03-11
"bruh" I can't take you seriously.
1 mferguson2 2018-03-11
That’s another problem on here.
1 FrameMogged 2018-03-11
No one here wants your help.
1 mferguson2 2018-03-11
How do you know?
1 FrameMogged 2018-03-11
People would make threads asking for your help. No one does that so it's kind of obvious. Go help the people at foreveralone out.
1 mferguson2 2018-03-11
This whole subreddit is one big ol cry for help lol
1 FrameMogged 2018-03-11
No one here wants your help. Are you brain dead as well? Go help foreveralone out if you really have the need to make yourself feel better.
1 mferguson2 2018-03-11
What’s up with foreveralone? Why are you bringing them up? Is that another subreddit with the same sort of theme as this one?
1 FrameMogged 2018-03-11
You can go check it out and help them guys out. We don't want your kind here.
1 mferguson2 2018-03-11
Well that’s sort of a problem because it doesn’t really matter what you want.
1 FrameMogged 2018-03-11
That's true, You come here and try to "help" when no one asks or wants it.
1 mferguson2 2018-03-11
I never said I came here to help anybody. I’m here to call these “incels” out on their stupid bullshit.
1 VolCelII 2018-03-11
t. incel in denial.
1 chefgoldblum__ 2018-03-11
Women can't take you seriously which is why you'll never get laid
1 FrameMogged 2018-03-11
Triggered normie
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
False
1 mferguson2 2018-03-11
I stand corrected. Some of them aren’t adults yet.
1 Hobolyra 2018-03-11
Wait, telling someone they are responsible for their personality and actions around other people is bullying? Well shit, I thought SJWs were sensitive, but damn, that takes the cake.
1 Claymore-2000 2018-03-11
is that what you guys do though?
posting in IT and generlizing incels isn't "helping" its actually making it worse.
1 FoetusCorruptus 2018-03-11
Incels: All women only want Chad, are roastie whores, are basically evil
Also Incels: Don't generalize us
Enough of this pussy griping about generalizations, that's what people do, they generalize. You're all going to be judged based on the stereotypical members of your group, just like every other group in the word. Suck it up.
1 Claymore-2000 2018-03-11
which is stupid.
1 FoetusCorruptus 2018-03-11
Get used to it. Every group generalize the members of other groups. Incels do it IT does it, everyone does it. So it's a pointless gripe to make.
1 Claymore-2000 2018-03-11
so you're a sheep who follows others?
we don't have 50+ members who search this sub for hours just to find something stupid and misogynistic to post it.
really? i don't see how affecting others in this sub is pointless. besides, incels are diverse, why should the rest be grouped up with just one post? its plain stupid.
1 FoetusCorruptus 2018-03-11
There irony that you don't see all those statements are applicable to the shit you rambled on about here. And yes, I do see members of this sub doing the exact shit in IT all the time. Only reason you don't is that the posts are always removed.
1 Claymore-2000 2018-03-11
11,543 (alot of them are not even incels) vs 50k+ ''overrun'' lol
yeah, just like most of reddits.
proves my generalization point.
1 Hobolyra 2018-03-11
What the hell is IT anyways? I don't think I've ever posted there / even know what that is (assuming it's a subreddit or forum)
1 Claymore-2000 2018-03-11
inceltears.
its not only directed to you though.
1 GOpencyprep 2018-03-11
You aren’t being shit on for being virgins, you’re being shit on for subscribing to reasonable and unhinged bullshit
1 t1000c 2018-03-11
Amazing how they miss this very basic and obvious truth.
1 VonMagnar 2018-03-11
And amazing how you keep missing the amounts of asshats from IT that come in here to shit on people.
1 t1000c 2018-03-11
I'm not sure what you're suggesting that I'm missing, also not sure what you mean by IT. Happy to listen and hear your point of view.
Also, any idea why can't I downvote comments in this sub?
1 VonMagnar 2018-03-11
IT = Inceltears (which is what this post is talking about). A sub originally made for making fun of the most extreme incels. However, since then it has turned into militant hate of anyone who employs the label no matter what beliefs they hold.
Nowadays, users from there often come in here shitting on incels like the ones I mentioned, who aren't hateful, for simple shits and giggles, which is why the user you replied to is, in my opinion, full of shit.
1 chefgoldblum__ 2018-03-11
Nobody thinks incels are rapists because incels can't have sex with anyone at all whether it's consensual or not.
1 VonMagnar 2018-03-11
Shove it.
1 chefgoldblum__ 2018-03-11
Lol go have sex
Wait
1 VonMagnar 2018-03-11
Read the flair jackass ;)
Will do :D
1 chefgoldblum__ 2018-03-11
Ah you're an autistic.
1 VonMagnar 2018-03-11
And your flailing attempts at trolling remind me of a child.
1 chefgoldblum__ 2018-03-11
Yeah all the kids these days call people autistic online, I'm down with the kids dawg
1 VonMagnar 2018-03-11
Cool. Shove it.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
you know what's unreasonable and unhinged? thinking that 80% of men are uglier than the average guy. that's what women think, and i don't see you harassing and berating women for thinking that way.
1 chefgoldblum__ 2018-03-11
You're an idiot
1 GOpencyprep 2018-03-11
If you can’t cite a source to back up that “80% of guys...” claim, then you’re proving me right. The incels who latch onto dumb hyperbolic shit are the ones who invite the derision from outside the sub, because you’re the ones that make all of you seem like stupid extremists - which makes it tougher on the incels who ARENT on board with that dumb shit.
Knock it off with the “that’s what women think”, your anecdotal (or just made up) bullshit that you spew to support your “argument”, is stupid and doesn’t help at all.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
https://theblog.okcupid.com/your-looks-and-your-inbox-8715c0f1561e
1 GOpencyprep 2018-03-11
I mean, good on you for actually providing a source (most incels here wouldn’t, they’d just reeeee until the subject was dropped), but you do realize that “80% of women on OkCupid” or “80% of women included in this study” is NOT the same as “80% of all women period”, right?
And that link you provided essentially states that more attractive people garner more attention… no shit. I don’t think anyone’s arguing that. My point is that latching on to hyperbole like “80% of all women” is silly and an invitation to take you even less seriously.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
Do you have another study with as many people as OKcupid? I didn't think so. You're not gonna find someone able to replicate it. The sheer sample size. To dismiss such a large sample size is absolutely retarded. The fact is you were proven wrong today. You lost, it doesn't mean you have to like it.
1 GOpencyprep 2018-03-11
Pay attention, genius - I don't need to supply a sample size because my point (and try to pay attention this time) is: "that latching on to hyperbole like “80% of all women” is silly and an invitation to take you even less seriously" - a point which still stands.
And I "lost"? haha okay, I don't consider discussion a win/lose contest, but if you're the sort of person with an ego that fragile and you need to win - then, sure dude, you got it.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
if you don't think that other women are different just lol
1 GOpencyprep 2018-03-11
Insinuating now that ALL women are like that? So, doubling down on that dumb hyperbole huh? The ol Donald Trump school of arguing a point.
It's so dumb, I almost admire it.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
lol at thinking other women are different. no amount of evidence will ever convince you that the world is not the story you were told.
1 GOpencyprep 2018-03-11
HAAAAAAAAA - yeah, I'm the one operating under a "story" here, jesus thats rich
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
i've got an observation of the actions of** millions of women**, and you've got.... oh that's right, nothing at all. yes, you're operating under a story, and i'm operating under the observable universe.
1 GOpencyprep 2018-03-11
haha sure you are, champ
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
wow. another blackpill defeated by overwhelming logic and evidence.
1 GOpencyprep 2018-03-11
haha again, dude, if you just NEED the win - then go for it.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
brilliant. just brilliant. *bows*
1 CaptureEverything 2018-03-11
Online dating as a source? Fucking go outside and speak to humans. Do THINGS with PEOPLE and then you guys wpuld see they don't all deserve hell... jist most of em
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
the purpose of posting that link is not to give you information about online dating. it's to inform you just how differently men and women view eachother.
1 Mysteriex 2018-03-11
As others have stated, you aren't being bullied for being ugly, uncharismatic, or a virgin. You're simply being rightfully called out for using those things the fuel your anger and contributing to the shitstorm you call "Inceldom". r/mgtow has their shit together, and they're all virgins too. If you don't like a problem, ignore it. Don't be an asshole about it.
1 t1000c 2018-03-11
This is a joke, right?
1 Claymore-2000 2018-03-11
no. people who don't want women in their lives are a joke?
1 t1000c 2018-03-11
No, the "mtgow" community is a joke. For people who don't like women, they sure spend a lot of time harassing them, and blaming them for all of the world's problems.
1 WhyNotLayDownAndRot 2018-03-11
lol r/mgtow is just as “misogynistic” and “toxic” or whatever as this sub. they’re basically incelslight. the only reason they aren’t constantly brigaded is because their mods actually ban people
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1 WhyNotLayDownAndRot 2018-03-11
shut up
1 NightSkyPill 2018-03-11
Most of MGTOW are divorced BetaBux men, not virgins. They ban the ones who mess with their sub, that's the difference.
1 t1000c 2018-03-11
I realize that this sub is an echo-chamber, and no one wants to hear this, but as a fat guy who was a virgin until almost 19, I am giving you some real advice here.
No one is bullying you for being a virgin.
People are terrified of the way you are blaming your own personal problems on other people, and society at large.
It's as if you think you are entitled to have another person of your choosing be forced to have sex with you, because that's what you want.
1 dontreadrepliess 2018-03-11
virgin is used as an insult towards guys
but you are right, just dont be fat and dont be a loser and its not rocket science to have sex. people on here would rather do nothing and blame others though
1 t1000c 2018-03-11
Virgin is used as an insult towards women as well. Don't be such a snowflake.
I'm fat AF and have an extremely hot girlfriend, which is the same for many fat people of both sexes. Nothing wrong with being fat, other than health issues.
Nailed it.
Nailed it again.
1 TripMonster 2018-03-11
For some reason also find fat guys attractive. My husband is fat and I happen to think he's hot AF.
1 sharkb8master 2018-03-11
Virgin women are sought after, being a male virgin after 20 years old means there's something wrong with you.
1 timeout400 2018-03-11
winners are by definition not losers, so
what the fuck does "don't be a loser" mean in the context of telling someone how to be a winner?
1 DryYard 2018-03-11
Most people here blame their personal problems on their looks. Some blame them on women/society, but these are copes. It's over and the only hope for a lot of these people to end their suffering is to kill themselves.
1 GrinchBear 2018-03-11
Just stop caring and realize nothing matters
1 DryYard 2018-03-11
That's one possibility if you can do it. Sometimes it's biologically impossible for a mind to do that though.
1 GrinchBear 2018-03-11
I'll admit that's true, but if one can it does make things much much easier to deal with. I do appreciate not being barked at with demands to kill myself or the simple angry statement that I'm wrong because it's not the same opinion you share. I hope you have a very pleasant week for that.
1 timeout400 2018-03-11
what is wrong with you?
1 incelthrowawy1266 2018-03-11
WOOAAH
1 t1000c 2018-03-11
Yeah that's around when I figured out that my problems were my own fault, and started working on improving myself as a person.
When are you going to start?
1 incelthrowawy1266 2018-03-11
lmao you weren't even 19, you fucking fat piece of shit. That's extremely early and young. The average age to lose it is 17. Please fuck off, your experience isn't relatable and you cannot understand.
Also, fatasses are cancer.
1 t1000c 2018-03-11
Your personality and attitude are why you will die alone, not your looks or "feminism".
Please just kill yourself and not a bunch of innocent people.
1 incelthrowawy1266 2018-03-11
lol what's your problem, Jabba? Everyone should tell fatasses to fuck off. They're disgusting pigs that need to lose weight or be eradicated. Can't stand the site of them.
1 t1000c 2018-03-11
I seriously doubt that I'm the one with the problem here...
1 incelthrowawy1266 2018-03-11
You do have a problem. It's called diabetes.
1 QueequegTheater 2018-03-11
I bet you haven't seen a number on a scale that didn't start with 1, 2, or 3 in the last six years.
1 pitbull_phobia 2018-03-11
And you're saying feminists are the ones bullying people...?
Not that they never do, but really?
1 incelthrowawy1266 2018-03-11
Fatasses must be bullied for the good of the earth.
1 iamadickonpurpose 2018-03-11
So must incels then.
1 incelthrowawy1266 2018-03-11
username checks out
1 GrinchBear 2018-03-11
Annnnd wait for the hate filled trolls to type away in...3...2...1
1 timeout400 2018-03-11
dude, every problem has a societal component, get your neoliberal ass out of here.
1 t1000c 2018-03-11
So you are suggesting that, instead of working to improve our own personal problems, we should just blame society for everything?
I haven't take my garbage out in six weeks and I crashed my car drunk last night. Thanks, society.
hahahaha nailed me
1 timeout400 2018-03-11
if there was a problem with drunks organizing themselves in society I wouldn't tell them they had a fault of willpower, I'd figure out what the fuck is wrong with society.
1 Claymore-2000 2018-03-11
you got laid while being fat
"improve personal problems" i tried to imprive every aspect. still doesn't work.
1 t1000c 2018-03-11
Try harder, start with the way you view the world. The fact that you are here complaining shows that you have not yet succeeded in improving yourself very much.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
This is a sub for guys who followed all of the bullshit advice about self improvement only to realize, after years of beating themselves up, that they're actually just ugly and it's not their fault at all.
What people are terrified of is admitting that what they've been told about genders, relationships, and sex are lies.
1 t1000c 2018-03-11
What is the truth then?
1 BeyondEarthly 2018-03-11
That's me you're talking about!
1 FrameMogged 2018-03-11
We already know.
1 BeyondEarthly 2018-03-11
Good, just establishing my dominance here.
1 FrameMogged 2018-03-11
Tits or gtfo
1 BeyondEarthly 2018-03-11
You like man tits, huh? Is that why you're so angry? You're oppressing yourself ?
1 FrameMogged 2018-03-11
A white knight, really jogs the noggin.
1 BeyondEarthly 2018-03-11
Lol, anybody can be anything on the internet.
1 FrameMogged 2018-03-11
Nice try (((BeyondEarthly))) but your Jewish tricks don't work on me.
1 BeyondEarthly 2018-03-11
Huzzah!
1 timeout400 2018-03-11
This comment section is a garbage dump. Naturally, because the people who would be triggered by this are or should be garbage.
1 awe300 2018-03-11
If you constitute "stop lying in a pile of people dragging you down" ad bullying.. You might be the one doing the dragging down
1 awe300 2018-03-11
The only one who gives a shit about you being a virgin is yourself.
This "community" is sometimes ridiculed because many of its members are absolute assholes that have brought themselves to think that absolute assholes is all they can be, and hate anyone that isn't like them, or wants to stop being like them.
It's like a cult almost. The mantra being
"we're assholes. But everyone else is even worse, because they hate us for being assholes"
1 KingofCool123 2018-03-11
Tbh I’ve been lurking, and most of these dudes seem pretty chill and just realize that it’s over for them. Which in some cases is true.
1 awe300 2018-03-11
It's certainly over if you accept it to be over and never try again. And the best way to do that is wallowing on self hate and pity in a community of like-minded people who never want to strive to better themselves in any way.
I get it, life is shit for many of you. But it's not like we're living in a paradise where you get what you want because you want it. You have to grab life by its balls and make it do what you want, because no one else will do that for you.
It's just this one try we all have.
1 KingofCool123 2018-03-11
Nah, some of these dudes have tried everything, and got the same results. Reality is, there is just no hope for some people.
1 awe300 2018-03-11
Bullshit. You've tried everything when your time is over
1 KingofCool123 2018-03-11
Your time is over when you come out the womb looking like Quasimodo.
1 awe300 2018-03-11
Your genes come from someone. And that someone obviously procreated
1 The_Real_Cannaman 2018-03-11
That logic doesn't apply here. Two beatiful people can create an ugly child, and two ugly people can create beautiful child
1 Red_Rocket_Rider 2018-03-11
If two ugly people can create a child- you can still have sex while being ugly
1 The_Real_Cannaman 2018-03-11
That was possible for previous generations... They haven't been exposed to ideals trough media. We've been overly desensitized so we are hardly attracted below 5. I haven't seen more than a few ugly young couples in my entire life, also not a lot of averages, just bunch of hot people together
1 QueequegTheater 2018-03-11
That's called confirmation bias.
1 mazafakaaaa 2018-03-11
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genetic_recombination
Now go back to high school
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1 awe300 2018-03-11
Yes, this is exactly what I mean. Through all your ancestors, the likelihood of one being ugly as fuck is pretty high, and yet here you are.
1 behindcloseddoors1 2018-03-11
All of my ancestors never had to deal with online dating. Women nowadays have hundreds of Chads messaging them every night asking them out on a date.
1 awe300 2018-03-11
Lol. Yeah, they never had society. They never took "hot" guy instead of he social shut ins.
If anything, online dating has made it easier for absolute hermits to date.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
This is sub is not about personality.
1 iQ9k 2018-03-11
Yeaaah sure
1 awe300 2018-03-11
You can't see if someone is a virgin. Especially not in men.
1 iQ9k 2018-03-11
Which would mean people hate us what is seen, aka our ugly faces.
Also, once a woman finds out a man is a virgin, instantly her opinion of them will go down
1 Okamii 2018-03-11
Haha have you actually asked a woman this? It sounds like you're trying to find excuses for other behavior. If anyone does think less of you for being a virgin, man or woman, they are an asshole, and nothing more.
1 iQ9k 2018-03-11
Then I guess you're alluding that most women are assholes, because yes girls don't like virgins
1 Okamii 2018-03-11
If you'd like to generalize the entire female population, then sure. I hope you come to realize that that is just not the case, and the only one holding someone's virginity against them is themselves.
1 iQ9k 2018-03-11
The good old "the only people shaming virgins are themselves" meme. Peoples insecurities and resentment come from somewhere, you know that right? It doesn't just pop out of thin air. Why would virgins purposefully shame themselves if they hate said shaming so much? Why do people like you feel the need to question and invalidate people's experiences so much?
You could simply say "hey that sucks man" and move on, but nah you gotta go on a forum for lonely guys and tell them it's all in their head.
1 Okamii 2018-03-11
Hey, sorry for questioning and invalidating your experiences. It really sucks that you have been made to feel that way by other people. It has not been my experience and I guess I am just trying to say that it doesn't have to be yours. I hope someday you are around better people that don't judge you for factors that are out of your control.
1 MenacingJowls 2018-03-11
There are some actual bullies who show up just to be horrible and tell subscribers how "pathetic" they are. These bullies are not the feminists, however.
1 Carkudo 2018-03-11
The bullies are not the feminists. Byt the feminists are bullies.
1 MenacingJowls 2018-03-11
What is Byt?
1 Carkudo 2018-03-11
You'll have to figure that out on your own. Or die trying :P
1 MenacingJowls 2018-03-11
Challenge accepted. begins charging the thinking cap
1 empatheticapathetic 2018-03-11
The feminists tend to have plausible deniability
1 Shoot-2-Chill 2018-03-11
I think its more of an irrational hatred of women is why peoplr hate you. But that's just my 2 cents.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
If you say that men only care about looks, you're just stating a fact. If you say that women only care about looks, you hate women.
Checks out bro.
1 chefgoldblum__ 2018-03-11
This right here is so retarded
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
agreed
1 QueequegTheater 2018-03-11
No, he's talking about you. It's not a fact.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
are you ok?
1 QueequegTheater 2018-03-11
This is wrong. It's not a fact.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
stop wearing makeup
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
u mad bro?
1 QueequegTheater 2018-03-11
Not really. It's mostly just funny how pathetic you are.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
is this like your first day talking shit. i bet kids throw trash at you.
1 Fudde 2018-03-11
The whole "New posts show up first" doesn't seem to be working, mods, as these faggots are being upvoted for their bullshit.
1 Fudde 2018-03-11
The whole "new posts show up first" system doesn't seem to be working, mods, as these faggots are being upvoted for their bullshit on a consistent basis.
1 chefgoldblum__ 2018-03-11
Lol go have sex
Wait
1 hatsand 2018-03-11
Its quite honestly your own fault. Not that you are a virgin, but that you are objectively a shitty person who has done nothing to fix themselves, and if you have you most likely regressed because here you are reading my post back in this community.
Cut out the toxic shit in this community and you will be 150% better off or dont and continue to blame society.
1 dontcomplain1 2018-03-11
Thanks
1 Fudde 2018-03-11
Take what you're saying and apply it towards feminism, and I 100% agree with this logic.
1 behindcloseddoors1 2018-03-11
Wow, victim blaming much? I bet you think all girls who are raped deserved it too for what they were wearing.
1 iamadickonpurpose 2018-03-11
The fact that you think you're a victim is a big part of your problem.
1 Nederweed 2018-03-11
Your sick.
1 hatsand 2018-03-11
You are a victim, but only of yourself. Good luck.
1 TwoPersonHorseJoke 2018-03-11
I didn't need to fix myself. I was an outgoing, happy, friendly child. I wanted to be friends with everyone, but they shunned me. They picked on me, bullied me, because they saw me as being beneath them. I wasn't even human in their eyes.
How fucking dare you tell me to fix myself? I am the way I am today, not because of my personality, mental illness, misogyny, or whatever excuse normies try to come up with to excuse their shitty behavior. I am this way because of you. Because of bullies like you and everyone on IT.
You treat me like dirt all my life, and then you complain when I've had enough? Fuck you.
1 hatsand 2018-03-11
Sorry I'm not reading your tantrum excuse for why you hate society.
1 TwoPersonHorseJoke 2018-03-11
I get the feeling you don't read much at all.
1 TacdeR 2018-03-11
This is a popular post
1 Mostly_Void_ 2018-03-11
Yeah no, it's the fact that you people are toxic and shitty and awful. No one cares that you're virgins
1 Earl_of_Pimpshire 2018-03-11
r/braincels: women should be treated like property, have no work rights and be bound to men financially. This will ensure us men have a steady supply of pussy
Normies/Chads/Stacies/Non-spastics: that's really disgusting. You should be ashamed of yourselves. No wonder you are all alone
r/braincels: FUCKING BULLIES EVERYWHERE MAN!!!
1 KidOblivion 2018-03-11
Show me the car fax
1 Mr_StealYoGirl69 2018-03-11
leave. them. ALONE. It is so simple. U fucks ruined r/incels and now you're here. I read their stuff and I don't comment. Fucking loser.
1 JaredManTyler 2018-03-11
The people who ruined r/incels were the people saying that rape should be legal. Who’s the real loser?
1 Mr_StealYoGirl69 2018-03-11
yes. they are pathetic, ugly, losers. let them be. they are funny
1 JaredManTyler 2018-03-11
Never said they were ugly
1 Mr_StealYoGirl69 2018-03-11
I did. retard.
1 JaredManTyler 2018-03-11
Leave. Them. ALONE
1 Earl_of_Pimpshire 2018-03-11
Are you white knighting a bunch of rape apologists and creepy virgins? Fucking hell dude, this didn't impress a single person
1 CherubOfBael41 2018-03-11
Nah you guys are hilarious. I look down on you guys to practice being more of an evil fuck
1 CherubOfBael41 2018-03-11
It teaches me not to be kind anymore. Sure it's necessary, but never again will I let my heart get the better of me. Maybe I shouldn't do it here on this sub. You guys kind of deserve it, but there's better places to try
1 Dellarie 2018-03-11
That's why you spend all your free time obsessing over virgins on their sub, normieshit?
1 avtarius 2018-03-11
lol people do, welcome to the real world.
Sexperience is an expectation for most people of/from their counterparts.
1 awe300 2018-03-11
You guys seem to think you're so unique with your problems. And maybe you are! Everyone of us is.
But all you see is the facade others put up, and you choose to think it's all there is.
While in reality, everyone is doing their best to fight existential dread every day, and fighting for that sanity amidst madness quite often.
What I'm saying is that people don't want to change you because they're outsiders. Many of us had or have the same difficulties you have, and er fight them every moment of our lives to make it feel better.
And we see that many of you could do the same if you just stopped accepting it as done deal that "it's over" because of whatever reason you chose to choose
1 mferguson2 2018-03-11
Being mentally ill IS a problem, yes.
1 mferguson2 2018-03-11
Well that’s sort of a problem because it doesn’t really matter what you want.
1 CherubOfBael41 2018-03-11
I'm not in prison? And tfw girls seem to have crushes on me but not her qt guy friends. Why do I live such a sad life?
1 BornToBeABanana 2018-03-11
That it is how it works. I'm ugly, guys I know in person are very ugly. I'm in a relationship and plenty of the ugly ass dude's I know are in relationships. If they're not now they were in the past. My dad is a very ugly man. Explain how he had two children and is married now.
But, yeah your personality probably does make you uglier. You've never hung out with someone that you really enjoyed being around who was ugly as fuck when you first met but became more attractive because of their personality?
Plus, you guys try meeting women online too much. That's a big mistake. The online world is skewed. I have no issue with getting girls in real life. My personality is what wins them over.
Ugly girls can get more attractive guys to an extent. But, more often than not when I see girls in long term relationships the guy is a couple points below the girl. My girlfriend is atleast a 7 by society standards I'm definitely a 4. Most dude's I hang around are about a 4 or 5 and their girlfriends are 7 or 8s.
You guys just try to simplify everything. Dating isn't so simple. It's a lot of issues. Not to mention the fact you think you know women so well but yet you can't manage to date them. Maybe it's time to realize you don't know them. I'm an ugly guy telling you that it's possible for ugly guys to get girls. Why would you not listen to people who clearly know what they're talking about when you clearly do Not?
"Hey dude if you want to get a girl do x"
"No, man that's not gonna work girls don't like x they like y"
"But ive done x to get girls and that's what works has y ever worked for you?"
"No y has never worked for me"
"Okay so try x"
"Nope x doesn't work"
1 GOpencyprep 2018-03-11
haha again, dude, if you just NEED the win - then go for it.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-11
brilliant. just brilliant. *bows*
1 electrogeek8086 2018-03-11
yeah cuz you know so much about the real world tucked in your mom's basement.
1 incelthrowawy1266 2018-03-11
username checks out
1 TwoPersonHorseJoke 2018-03-11
I get the feeling you don't read much at all.
1 KidOblivion 2018-03-11
Show me the car fax
1 Mr_StealYoGirl69 2018-03-11
leave. them. ALONE. It is so simple. U fucks ruined r/incels and now you're here. I read their stuff and I don't comment. Fucking loser.