Brutal. This is why incels should never go to bars or clubs.

Try again man, it sucks but you've got to wade trough the bitches until you find a decent girl

No, no you don’t. Normal people do not have to do this, ugly men have to do this.

Do you think normal people dont have bad dating experiences?

Never said that, I said that normal people don't have to cold approach over and over and over and over again.

You might be right, but my main point was to not give up and try to find a girl that was worth all the shit you've experienced.

It is absolutely not worth trying again lol

Yes they do, cupcake.

100% of women are bitches. None are decent.

That is a ridiculous and insane thing to say. How do you ever hope to get a girlfriend if you seriously feel this way about all women because of a few bad experiences? That's a pretty big assumption on your part, that an entire half of the population are bitches, and not decent.

If you are an incel you didn’t have “a few bad experiences”. All your experiences with women are bad.

So explain this to me. Let's say the person I was replying to has had only bad experiences with women (first of all, though, literally every woman he/you have ever met, ever? Your mother was a bitch, as were all of your aunts and cousins, and grandmother? All female teachers you've ever had were cruel, and every single female classmate? Every cashier and waitress, mean to you? I find that very hard to believe, that every single Incel has had this experience). So, every woman he has ever met has been a bitch. Therefore, in his narrow view (in the grand scheme of things), all women are terrible and he wishes they would get cancer (I saw a comment of his that said this yesterday). Where my confusion comes in, is why he/any of you want to date women if they are so awful and horrendous. And my follow up statement to that is that if you have all this anger about/towards women, and then you meet a woman and are interested in getting to know her, chances are you'll scare her away with the negativity that oozes out of you. I know, a lot of Incels deny that they show their hatred at all, but trust me, negativity like that absolutely shows through. So anyways, it's kind of a catch 22, right? Depressed, angry, and hateful because you can't get with a woman, but your anger and hate scares women off.

But honestly, you're telling me neither you nor any other Incel has ever had a positive experience/interaction with a woman? If so, why do you even want to date them? You hate them. I personally would never want to date someone I hated, or who hated me. It just seems like an odd desire.

97% of women are bitches, I hope this answers the main point of your long ramble.

I know, a lot of Incels deny that they show their hatred at all, but trust me, negativity like that absolutely shows through.

I’m actually a fun person to be around I’ve been told by females.

I'm going out of my way here to send long replies because I'm trying to add in as much information as I can. I see it's not worth it though, since apart from one respectful Incel everyone else is just giving me a couple of lines back after not reading what I wrote.

A note though, is that if you're interested in dating women - start calling them "women", not "females". If the females who told you you're fun to be around heard you referring to them as females, I think it would kind of deter that statement.

A note though, is that if you're interested in dating women - start calling them "women", not "females". If the females who told you you're fun to be around heard you referring to them as females, I think it would kind of deter that statement.

Nah. It seems mostly like an reddit thing to be offended by the term “female” and I don’t quite get it but ok. English is not my native language so I don’t even call them females irl, so you have nothing to worry about.

Fair enough. I'm not even trying to be rude by recommending you not use the word "female", it's honest advice that women don't like that. I exist in the real world as well as on Reddit, so I don't think it's limited to Reddit.

The ignorance here is off the charts

How many dates does it take on average to find a decent girl?

Are there any local hobby groups that you would be interested in? Even Facebook groups can be a good start. If those don't work for finding a gf, they can still be a good place to make some friends, which can also lead to a gf.

It's over

Yeah, I mean that isn't too surprising in all honesty, she was probably using you to try to get a chad anyway.

but then who would have paid for her dinner and pregame?

Just LOL

Well she got free drinks from you... But what I meant was she was trying to make her self seem higher value and harder to get by acting like she was with you.

I think it's insanely surprising. Fucked up actually.

Surprizing and fucked up are two different things, something fucked up can be expected and thus not surprising.

Well, it's surprising to me. She'd be shunned out of my social circle ASAP if I knew her and knew such a thing happened. Doesn't matter if it's a date or a hang out or what. If you are out with someone you don't fucking ditch them like that. It's so shocking to me I half feel like this post isn't real. But since I don't know, I'm just calling it surprising.

The part I had harder time believing was that one of us got a date.

Even if this post wasn’t a real story, do you really have a hard time imagining that this happened somewhere in the world at some point in time? It’s quite easy for me to believe this.

Okay true. I could believe this has happened somewhere at some point. But I expect that it is a pretty rare occurrence. I also feel very strongly that at anytime that it does occur, it should result in high levels of social shame so that that person (and others) refrain from doing that even if they feel the desire to.

Two strangers walk into a bar and one of them decides to leave with another stranger. Why would any person from the outside care about what other strangers are doing? If they even noticed this they could come up with a variety of reasons why this happened.

The OP presented this as "I was on a date" and then "my date left with another man when I went to the bathroom". The point of my response was that if either of those people (the girl on the date or the chad) were part of MY social circle and this information was known, they would be socially shunned. I am merely suggesting the the OP do this in his own social circle.

Chad always wins,we always lose...There is no point in even trying

inb4

r/thathappened"

Chad didn't steal her from you, she's not your property! Chad was empowering her! This is why you are incel!

Low-I.Qcel, he was making a joke

Lol, your first step towards wizardry. Had this happen. You’ll cry for a few days.

Becoming a virgin at a very old age = wizard. I'm on this path as well because of past experiences that were traumatizing.

that fucking sucks. sorry bro

Holy shit. Sorry to hear that. I rather not try. I already did, and it didn't work out, so i'm not volcel at all. I'd rather not have this happen to me. It's bad enough reading about it on here.

Don't go to bars unless you're tall or big or an ogrecel/fakecel. Unless you're strapped or something. Don't go to bars on dates, anyways.

How long were you in the bathroom for though?

Damn, why'd you have to pay the whole bill?

Yea, we have our results/fate set in stone pretty much. I never went on a date or kissed anybody. I'm not of age to go to bars anyways. I will be in a few weeks but I won't go though.

I assume they unmatched you or blocked your number; Did you contact the slut after that?

I wouldn't. Don't beat yourself up more than what already happened. Unless you're planning to brutally insult them. I personally would try to set something up and get revenge.

No, forget about her, you be the one to unmatch

She hasn't messaged you because she's fucking/fell asleep after fucking.

Later, she'll at best give you a half assed apology or she'll directly unmatch you.

Forget about it, and learn not to try. We're subhuman and we have to learn our place. Fuck, I'm crying while I type this

Tell her

You owe me xx dollars for drinks you fucking slut.

Screenshot message.

Profit.

Go strapped. Easier said than done though.

You can legally take a loaded gun to a bar if you don't drink booze and have a concealed carry permit.

I just go to bars to get shitfaced and forget that I'm hideous. Until I need to piss, then I'm forced to remember why I drink so much.

Welp, she's clearly a terrible person. She's the last human being a decent guy should ever date. I've been abused by women a lot and while it hurts when it happens, it won't be long before you look back and say "Christ, I'm glad I dodged that chick."

It's true, this happened. I was Chad.

Can confirm. Was Chad's tongue in Stacy's throat.

Damn that is brutal.

This is why I stopped trying. We will eventually get cucked anyway

It's not even worth it man. Seriously, you ascend inceldom and bam, you find out what a Chad's penis tastes like

women have no manners or respect anymore, they are sickening creatures

you should have glassed her

Oh yeah, because that woman is clearly an entitled, shallow cunt must mean we would all do that.

i see this disrespectful and ruthless behaviour a lot from women to low value males.

So? I've been treated poorly by plenty of men but I don't think they are all rapey, abusive pigs. I have met lots of lovely, intelligent men, too.

Even with you guys, who downvote and call us whores for caring. The vast majority of you are not bad people, just wanting to be heard like any human being would.

Grouping and demonising people through cavalier generalisations is dangerous and history proves it over and over. Look at what is happening with White Males at the moment. With Jordan Peterson and those SJW zealots yelling to "lock them in and burn it down" while he was speaking.

It's just divide and conquer shit and it's enervating.

yeh yeh ive heard it all before

Yeah. I shouldn't bother, your post history proves you are a troll and a fomenter.

call us whores for caring

They've seen it all before, throughout their entire lives. And exactly what has happened even after you've cared? Nothing at all. People such as yourself claim they care, but nothing changes. Incels are still categorically fucked in the ass. You may genuinely care, and I believe that's true, but when nothing changes and incels still repeatedly get screwed, it comes off as virtue signaling. I don't condone people downvoting and calling you all whores, but it's understandable.

Yeah, I understand why they do it. I do care, a lot of people clearly want to help. Most people don't like seeing others unhappy or in pain.

Of course I can't fix individuals problems. All I can do is give a woman's perspective so maybe it gets through to even just a few of you that looking like a boofhead Chad is not nearly as important as these subs make it out to be.

You can help, indeed. Date an incel.

I did. My first bf was likely what you would term an incel. Very low self esteem, not a Chad by this subs standards at all. We lost our virginity to each other. I loved him and wanted to be with him forever. Until he started drinking too much, being abusive and taking out his anger at the world on me.

Well, that sucks for you. On the bright side you have the chance to rescue another incel! :)

🙂

Chad can't steal your date if you can't get dates

Lol truth!!!

I'm real sorry this happened to you, try not to feel too bad about it. You deserve better, anyone who would do something like that to you is an asshole who isn't worth your time.

The blackpill *laughs*

And the universal, average cucking-speed gets closer to its limit

This is premium suicide fuel

you should accused them of stealing you. that way, the bouncer would kick that chad's ass and stacy would have to pay the bill.

sure you are silly

this is high octane sui fuel. it's over

Lol something similar happened to me aswell.

This shit must be pretty fucking common.

That woman and that man sounds like shallow jerks. I'm so sorry she did that to you. How cruel.

Make sure you don't let those bullies think that you're worthless or without value. They have no qualifications to judge your worth or change it.

Fuck off, this is normal for incels.

I won't fuck off.

I think the way you're treated is despicable. Nobody should be "brutally reminding" you of anything.

These people aren't qualified to judge your worth or who you are. What they do reflects the ignorance and malice in their own minds. They don't get to decide who you are or what your potential is. They can pretend that they have that power (and narcissistic people sure love telling themselves that they do), but they don't.

I want society to be different so that you do get to stand up for yourselves and so that you are respected as the full human beings that you are. I don't know yet how to change things, though.

I don't know yet how to change things, though

Exactly. So it's cope or rope. We're all idealistic at one point in time, we all recognize that things need to be changed. The difference lies in the fact that you've had success and can be idealistic, charismatic and good-natured. Braincels don't have that prerogative.

No one's ever called me charismatic before! That's probably because I'm autistic as all hell, though.

What do you mean exactly by "good-natured," and why can't braincels be that?

why can't braincels be that

Good-natured in the sense that you can be optimistic. Braincels can't be that because they've been repeatedly miffed by a society that treats them like garbage(whether unconsciously or not). Would anyone be rational and loving after being treated like shit for most of their life?

Would anyone be rational and loving after being treated like shit for most of their life?

No, most people wouldn't be. Humans need acceptance and affection in order to be mentally and emotionally healthy.

It's so hard to think of anything to get around this. How do you change an entire damn culture?

I know that a lot of incels feel completely friendless. It's not exactly amazing, but maybe having a penpal/Internet friend could help. That helped me a lot when I was lonely during my teenage years (shunned for, again, being autistic as all hell). By penpal/Internet friend, I mean someone who is a friend, but not also part of the incel community. That way at least the person is not completely and totally isolated, with only other online people telling them that they are disgusting, that they have no hope, and to go ahead and kill themselves. But that would require enough people willing to be penpals... so now I'm back at square one again.

(I'm totally willing to be a penpal to anyone here if they're interested, by the way! Just message me!)

How do you change an entire damn culture?

That's the point. Nothing ever changes

Well, I know that can't be true. For example, in the U.S., attitudes toward black people have changed. Black people still face a lot of prejudice and discrimination, but we did manage to at least stop being cunts long enough to realize that humans shouldn't be actual slaves.

Lots of other things like that have happened. But it took a long time.

Also, I think this situation is different. Racism (to most evolutionary psychologists' thinking) is not an "instinct." Joining a group and defending it from competing groups is the "instinct." There are studies showing that you can get people to be prejudiced toward one another just by the color of the shirt they're wearing, or other stupid stuff like that (e.g., set up 2 groups, one has blue shirts, the other has red shirts, have them interact for a while, then ask them to rate each other). But avoiding mating with individuals who show signs of possibly having a disease or disorder is strongly ingrained. A lot of posters here have things like acne, which is normal and not a sign of disorder or anything like that. Some of the posters have jaw issues and such, and that's on a more serious level. It can be corrected, though -- I used to have a severe underbite, but managed to get it mostly corrected through surgery.

So... square one again. Shit. I refuse to give up, though. There's a way, there's always a way for everything. I'm just not intelligent and/or educated to come up with it. Maybe I'll never be. I don't know. But I'm going to keep trying.

Racism (to most evolutionary psychologists' thinking) is not an "instinct."

That's just PC bluepill, studies of babies show they're already "racist."

Send us your noodz, autist. Otherwise, you can't help. So fuck off, annoying little shit.

Maybe I can't help you. N00ds shortage, you see. You'll have to backorder. Is that OK?

Noodz or get lost.

If you/we don't stand up for us/him/you/yourself, then who will?

We have to learn to cope or rope, that is the cruel nature of this world because normies will never fight for us in the numbers that are required. The incel cause will never be given validity.

This is pretty real.

The normie platitudes really put me down more than OPs ropefuel story

Just because you read this on motivational picture doesn't mean it makes sense or is relevant.

actually i didnt read it anywhere, just my realization. my parents will fight for me but i dont think ill impress any chicks when they do, let alone they fighting for me my entire life

/r/nofap

How the fuck does it help him in this situation?

I imagine you read success story after success story before you responded to my post, correct? That way your response wouldn’t seem ill informed right?

Quit your bs that nofap is some kind of magic that will solve all your problems. If you have an addiction and want to quit it, good for you but that subs makes up the most ridiculous benefits that nofap allegedly creates. It’s full of pseudoscience.

Dude. Stop fapping for like two weeks and just reap the extra energy. Overcoming any kind of addiction is part of a positive feedback loop.

I’ve gone for far longer than that and I’m not addicted to fapping. You are free to believe in your placebo effects.

You mean 302,000 nofappers are free to rave about the effects? I know.

Argumentum ad populum

In argumentation theory, an argumentum ad populum (Latin for "argument to the people") is a fallacious argument that concludes that a proposition must be true because many or most people believe it, often concisely encapsulated as: "If many believe so, it is so."

This type of argument is known by several names,[1] including appeal to the masses, appeal to belief, appeal to the majority, appeal to democracy, appeal to popularity, argument by consensus, consensus fallacy, authority of the many, bandwagon fallacy, vox populi,[2] and in Latin as argumentum ad numerum ("appeal to the number"), fickle crowd syndrome, and consensus gentium ("agreement of the clans"). It is also the basis of a number of social phenomena, including communal reinforcement and the bandwagon effect. The Chinese proverb "three men make a tiger" concerns the same idea.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Argumentum_ad_populum

I'm not using "300,000 nofappers" to back up my argument. 300,000 people who have witnessed the effects IS the statement. You can call it an observation if you like. You can also say there's a good chance r/nofap will help this guy, and you'd be right.

Why would you pay for her bill?? Fucking cuck

The most unbelievable part of this however is that he actually got a date on tinder. Even 6/10s have trouble getting that.

r/thathappened

The most unbelievable part of this however is that he actually got a date on tinder. Even 6/10s have trouble getting that.

r/thathappened

Same thing once happened to me. We were at a bar and she excuses herself by saying she had to go to the bathroom and then I found out that she's at another table making out with some random chad who had been eye fucking her the night. This event and many other similar events is why I cannot forgive femoids for what they have done to me.

Very shitty situation, bro. She is obviously trash not worth spitting on. Didn't even have the decency to tell you it's not working out or some shit like that.

Let me give you some life fuel - A Chad friend shows me the pics of a model he's about to date for the first time- a really impressive girl. When I asked him how it went he said he took her out to dinner, she started ordering like a motherfucker so he told her he'll be right back, paid his part of the bill on the way out and didn't return. Oh boy was she salty and triggered after that on messenger.

Yeah this is exactly what i expect from femoids. I'm sorry man, you don't deserve this. Let those 2 share their STDs with each other.

My god, that's rough. To hell with both of them.

Look at these normies saying feel sorry bro. These cunts would do same thing if they got the chance . So sick of nornies acting like they decent humans when I’ve seen over and over them get thirsty and feel like they better than someone else for a chick they find attractive and will do behind the back shit to get her while telling said male that is with woman that I feel you. Never trust them bro the normies and thirsty betas are the reason women have become so immoral with all their decisions cause they know there is another orbiter ready even if she acts immoral now.

The femoid brain knows no bounds, this is the type of behavior sub 8 males have to deal with. She can go to the club and find better male in seconds u are just disposable toy. It truly is over.

This is so fake lmao

You have been here calling every story fake you idiot. The only fake thing here is your life.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Braincels/comments/7rddlg/double_standard_of_believability

Holy shit bru i'm so sorry this happened to you.

Atomic black pill.

I'm dying this is so obviously fake. r/thathappened

https://www.reddit.com/r/Braincels/comments/7rddlg/double_standard_of_believability

You make up stories so often you had to make a post about it? There is zero chance that story happened. I'm sure your fellow incels enjoyed the fanfiction though.

Oh I get it you are just a troll with nothing better to do. My bad don't let me disturb you from wasting your time.

You're talking about wasting time while you are also sitting on reddit? That lack of self-awareness... I'm doing the same thing as you- getting free entertainment. Really it's this subs own fault that incels are so amusing.

I am wasting my time cause I am sitting here at work on break with nothing better to do. Also I am actually an incel so it makes sense for me to visit here. You on the other hand...

I'm wasting my time on reddit here because, like I said, this sub is endlessly funny and you guys get your panties twisted over everything. The inability to form logical arguments is way better entertainment than most of the other subs.

Whatever you say man.

Where else would I find people that are both blindingly ignorant and yet intensely self-righteous about the pettiest shit?

Uh huh. Whatever you say.

He's projecting at you.

ironic, on a post where someone wasted their time making up a story so that people would feel bad for him, about seomthing that didnt even happen, just something he IMAGINES would happen, but doesn't actually happen in real life.

And what makes you believe this story is fake? Because an incel told it? You say these stories are fake but when someone tells their story of their ugly short retarded who drowns in pussy we are supposed to take them as gospel. The double standard is real.

oh shutupppp, why do you type out this cringey pathetic BS when you know you were actually lying, some kind of delusional scary stuff

Incels never get lucky.

You forgot your place. You must never forget your place when you are an incel. You are relegated to the lowest rung of the ladder. By virtue of being unattractive you are put into the 'creepy' category alongside pedophiles, rapists, murderers, and the like. Know your place. It will save your more pain than the pain that it brings.

wtf is wrong with you

nothing, he is just speaking the truth something you normies will never ever understand

who the fuck said i was a "normie"? i have ADHD, ive always been scrawny, bullied untill i was out of highschool. I started going bald from hoth a receding and thinning hairline since i was 15.

I get the whole nhilist thing, i do. But id never encourage some one else to give up on everything.

cope

You guys literally cannibalize each other

wahhhh

Psssst! Just enjoy the show man.

I'm unattractive.

This seems fake. She didn't even had the decency to apologize, then walk the next block over?

Oh I meant she could at least have told you it was a good time, and went somewhere else discretely and get plowed by chad. At least be polite you know?

Fuck her. She deserved to get smacked for that. Don't worry so much about it. I would totally date you if you're into guys or something

And don't worry about her. She's a gigantic dick bag. If you're not a troll and this is real, nothing good will even come out with associating with her. Who would want to date somebody with such a rotten personality?

I'll take things that never happened for 500, Alex

/r/thathappened

Post receipt or debit transaction with info blurred with time stamp that corresponds to this incident.

Or did you use cash?

This sub became cancer. Too many normans

This didn’t happen. Also, maybe you should workout.

you have the basic framework for most the Greek artwork i’ve seen

He's not implying that at all. No one thinks they'll turn into a "greek god" after working out.

doesn't change the fat that you are fat, fatmess is unattractive, and being in good shape would take away from your unattractivceness, but you refuse to do it, and then blame in on other features that have nothing to do wtih being healthy and in shape.

and then you come on the internet and lie about fake dates for sympathy points on a sub full of disgusting hateful losers.

don't get me wrong, having a girl with u is nice and all but 5/10 is pushing it!

if a girl is 5/10, it's better to just hang out with a male friend and masturbate.

I'd be fucking happy to get a date with a 5/10.

merely having is not a a good, having a good thing is a good.

5/10 is average, average is good

even if it is so, a 5/10 isn't that good to begin with.

i duno a vast majority of people are gross and fat, average is disgusting

Stop reaching above your station lol, 5/10 is too high for you obviously.

Just become a faggot, atleast then no one will have any standards for you.

If that is true I'm sorry. What she did was awful and absolutely disgusting. Even if she wasn't enjoying the date she shouldn't have done that. You're better off without her, she would've shown her shitty personality sooner or later.

Why did you pay for her bill?

you should have gone ER on the spot

Sounds fake as fuck. Victim complex delusions.

It's kind of cute when they try to lie about dates.

welcome to this entire community

Roping time for incels

People who think this did not happen obviously never been out. Actually for this exact reason I'm scared to leave even for a toilet, because dealing with other man who WILL approach a try to steal your girl is pain in the ass.

Jesus, a girl has no problem making out with other guy in front of your face, while you are next to her on a date. There's no reason to think this did not happen when he went to a toilet.

and no 10% reasonable human being woman would start making out with a random stranger at the bar when she's on a date, you're lying, you don't go out, you have no life, and you're making up stories about how bad it is out there, so that you can sit here and feel bad for yourself and your fake, imagined life that doesn't even exist, so that you feel justified being a whiney complainy little bidge

and no 10% reasonable human being woman would start making out with a random stranger at the bar when she's on a date, you're lying, you don't go out, you have no life

I think you protest too much. If you've never seen this, people making out with strangers, and running off with other people, then you've probably led a sheltered life and haven't been out in society much.

I upvoted you because the answer is so hostile it's funny.

You are still wrong though.

Bro im sry. So so so sry if this is real. Ill fight a dude for cuttin into my convo if im talking to a woman esp if shes a 8 or above. This would have made me snap and tell her she better pay for her food and drinks. Id pay my half and bounce. Guys, guys u gotta let woman go and focus on yourselves. You all hurt to much for so little. Just give in to the salt life throws at you and use it season your personal life.

u cannot fight him if the girl prefers the new guy .

the new guy offers her a better deal if she accept u get mad ? and wnana fight him?

Im just saying its disrespectful af. Yes i have had to get in a dudes face about that before surprisingly the chick found it hot. Yes im a norman. Thats beside the point. Its disrespectful all the same. Whats sadder is the reaction. He should have told the manager she skipped out on the bill.

if u leav the roonm and chads comes in . ( he wsnt there before ..) he got the right to ask her out

That’s fucking pathetic. Buy a gym membership, if you stick to it you won’t be a virgin in a year. Otherwise go fuck your self cause life ain’t gonna get better unless you make it

Yea everybody looks don't matter but you need to go to a gym.

looks matter more than anything, that's why all you fat/skinny/lazy fucks need to hit the gym

except for that literally no one said looks don't matter. Some straw manning going on here

if you're ugly as ish, nobody will be attracted to you.

Fat cope. If you go to the gym for femloids you will only become gymcel.

Even if that story is true, which it isn't, I don't feel for you. Pathetic man.

And creating an account just for that shitty 4th grader story? Come on man.

nobody believes you. literally, nobody feels bad reading this pathetic fake little plea you wrote in response here, eveyrone knows you're lying. Why do you do things like this?

I can't even imagine how shitty a life has to be, so that one person makes a fake story about a Becky leaving him for a Chad while on a date with said person. Dude, that is so pathetic and sad, I am refusing to be empathetic about that.

And I'm not an incel, I'm a Chad lowtier, but even in the incel community you are low in the hierarchy. Not standing up for yourself? You know what? If your story is true it's even more sad, cause you're not even defending yourself.

you ARE a liar, it has nothing to do with who was sitting across from her at the table, this didn't happen, i know you, you know it, you know I know it, so juist stop.

97% of women are bitches, I hope this answers the main point of your long ramble.

I know, a lot of Incels deny that they show their hatred at all, but trust me, negativity like that absolutely shows through.

I’m actually a fun person to be around I’ve been told by females.