True but you took it a little too far, it's not really written in stone like that, a girl can text back in time and all that shit it doesn't mean she likes you.

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This is true. This is when they're leading you on; carrot on a stick. I fell for it once; never again.

Quality post.

Kinda true but not totally. One of my exes was too shy, I had to initiate a lot before she reciprocated.

Was she a virgin? No.

So she was too shy to initiate with you, but not another guy. Disparity in attraction.

women give subtle signs tehee

When I was younger I thought asking them out was like playing roulette. I thought you just made friends with a girl and asked her out, hoping for he best. I was so wrong. If she actually does like you you'll know.

just ask her out bro!

If you don't you will be damning yourself for the rest of your life thinking "what if?", if you get your rejection that thought won't linger in your mind :)

"what if?"

At a certain part of life with constant rejections, you stop asking yourself that.

Pretty much this entire list is false and nothing but generalizations based on probably a high school understanding of women.

Want to get women? Treat them like friends. Treat them like people. Stop staring at their chests when you talk to them. Stop pretending you're intellectually superior to them. Fuckin' be a regular dude who knows how to be friends with the opposite gender without constantly thinking with his dick.

Leaving the r/braincels echo chamber is a good start for improvement.

Damn dude, you’re right. The reason I can’t get a girlfriend is because I call them femoids to their face, start slobbering when I look at their tits or ass, act like I’m smarter than them, and make sexual innuendos with asterisks to show what action I’m doing. Why didn’t I think to not do any of these things?

also you should just lift bro

lol. don't forget the shower and 🐝ing yourself champ.

well of course goes without sayin

Only lifting does not work, he needs to take shower as well.

You never know, since there's CLEARLY someone for everyone you might find a woman who likes being degraded. Consensually of course.

don't listen to this nonsense. They use this as a way to rationalize our failings. even though, most normal incels don't act this way.

I'm not an Incel, but I've had more luck with women by pretending as if I don't give a shit about them than I have attempting to be their friend.

“Treat them like friends”

Lol women don’t even want to be “friends” with ugly guys like me, what are you on about?

I was going to respond to this until I realized you are a tranny coper

Treat them like friends.

That usually makes friends, not romantic partners.

So true.

Some women don't show overt interest and have self esteem / self confidence / anxiety issues too. You cant make super broad, general statements about the behavior of an entire gender numbering ~3.5 billion souls.

But there are definitely some things right about this post. Like 'effort'. No one should be putting in 'effort' toward anything except becoming a person they are happy and proud of being.

Putting 'effort' toward a woman is the wrong way to think about things and a waste of your time. If you are thinking 'I didn't 'get' the girl because I didn't try hard enough' it is a sign your priorities and perspective on human relationships need some serious re-adjusting.

Be the best you that is possible. Put effort toward continuous self improvement and everything else will eventually come in time... without you even having to 'try'

Cope

will women start liking a fugly incel after he has read 100 fucking books? i hope a car crashes into your spine and youre left in a wheelchair

cope

Haha wow, thanks for the reminder bro. Just woke up and saw this and it explains a lot. Thank you.

Didn't you say you were getting out?

Still trying, I still browse here once in a while just to check on things or need an uplifting meme to cheer me up but aside from that distancing myself from here has been very beneficial for me.

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women will deny this but even they don't know what they're thinking, they rely on pure instinct and justify decisions after the fact.

Was just arguing with a bunch of ignorant askreddit normies about this the other day

My argument that men don't get hit on as often as women was that there exists a fundamental discrepancy in instantaneous, physical attraction between the sexes. The full gamut of feelings a man has upon seeing the avg woman are obviously much stronger than the feelings a woman has when seeing an avg man.

This is just the obvious reality smacking us all in the face, yet there are still so many denialists.

YOU WANT HER #MORE THAN SHE WANTS YOU

No better explanation exists. Someone who desires something crazily, and believes they have a very, very reasonable chance at getting it with minimal effort, is not going to just pass up on that opportunity. So if a girl works with you, or is just sitting next to you at the beach or a café or wherever, if she really, REALLY finds you incredibly attractive and WANTS you AS BADLY as you desire her, there would not be this HUGE discrepancy in which sex makes the first move. The very reason a guy ends up saying something first, or tries to say something to the girl before he or she leaves, is because the "I can't let this chance go" feeling is more strongly felt by the male than the female.

It's time to face the blackpilled fact of life that men find more females insanely hot than vice versa.

This is in large part the reason why there are way more men willing to date any given woman, than there are women willing to date any given man.

Some will say that everything I said IS true, but go to the 'women are emotional' argument.

Well, because physical lust is an important component of attraction, this STILL means that women have an overall deficit in attraction.

It also mean that men need to work harder to get appraisal from women because they need to compensate for the attraction-deficit by striking an emotional chord with the female, or impressing her in some other way.

Lastly, it's funny how when a female DOES encounter a male she is crazily physically attracted to (Chad), she becomes less 'emotional'

This comment is absolute gold. Saving to my computer for later.

YOU WANT HER MORE THAN SHE WANTS YOU

Nah. I'm the prize. They need me, but I don't need them. Truth.

Daily reminder: 'advice' and 'reminders' like this are dumb and unproductive

You know, I can't argue that - they do remind people what's really important, that being anything except these posts.

So, yeah, well done.

I’m going to copy paste a comment I made a few weeks ago on r/IncelTears/ that I got heavily downvoted for.

What normal men take for granted, something that incels will never experience, is how much effort a woman will put into starting a new relationship if she's into you. She will do a lot of the work like signalling her attraction and laughing at your jokes and creating opportunities to hang out. Normal men don't really have to invest time into getting gf's, because if a girl likes you, everything will happen naturally and progress without much effort. It's not about getting a gf so much as it is about if a girl likes you. If a man gets that far, at that point he has already won. There's nothing to invest time into "getting" - you're each attracted to each other and the situation will escalate organically. There is no "getting gf" stage. A man can invest all the time he wants, but it won't be enough if it feels forced.

How do you get downvoted for this when one of their generic advices is "just wait for the right person, there's someone for everyone, it'll happen naturally" 🤔🤔🤔

If you are "the man," it doesn't matter what you do and if you're not "the man," it doesn't matter what you do.

I will say women will make it ear, but a lot of times they'll drop big hints that they think are obvious clues but a guy will have no clue about. I still encourage approaching women since a lot were raised thinking the guys would ask them out so they might be a bit more hesitant to ask.

If a girl finds excuses to talk to you or keeps showing up where you are she's into you. If you like her be straight forward, tell her you think she's cute and you want to get to know here, trade info and go from there. But remember not every relationship is going to last forever, so if you break up keep moving.

If she doesn't like you which means you're ugly and she has determined this in a millisecond of looking at you, expect to be treated like shit by her. If you stand up for yourself, expect a criminal charge, be fired, assaulted by a white knight, or be banned from somewhere.

Or feed you

Amazing post bro. I think you will ace gmat with writing skills like this.

Legit AF

Try getting to know her. It might change things