Are you kidding me? One of then looks like Hitler and the other one is extremely obese. Both are sub 1's. Of course women ignore them. I think most incels would look alot better, if they spent some more time away from the computer doing useful and healthy stuff.
If I showed you pictures of ugly guys with girlfriends or shared stories of how personality matters a helluva lot, you’d cover your ears and go spoon your waifu pillow. Stop acting like you’re open to other points of view.
Because exceptions to a rule is not evidence against the existence of that rule. If 2 billion uggos go unnoticed by women and a couple hundred arent unnoticed, the general trend is still very much there.
We don't discount the accounts of unicorns. But that's why women who date ugly men are called unicorns. Because they're rare.
So there’s no way that the “uggos” who have girlfriends are just doing something right while the rest are crying about being incels, right? Impossible.
Which do you think is more likely, in your heart of hearts:
The "ugly" guys you see with girlfriends aren't as ugly as you, think, and/or are the exceptions to the rule, OR, the "ugly" guys you see have found some magical "personality" hack that makes women sexually attracted to their personality?
What you've seen is guys you perceived as ugly in relationships. That's all you knew about what you saw. Everything else is speculation on your part...and it's speculation done by somebody who is delusional.
You know, just as an external observer, you're not actually listening to his view and experience at all. You're just doubling down on self improvement, life is what you make it propaganda.
Some people get dealt a shitty hand and no amount of finger in the ears denial is going to mitigate that. I would argue that's not the point on whether or not to be a decent human being though, You try to do that because it's better than all the alternatives. And if you believe in God, because you want to please him.
But getting lectured to about your attitude being the problem when it's the symptom not the cause must be fucking infuriating. Maybe stop?
You're shitting me right? Yea the fat guy might have great bone structure underneath, but the other guy is a truecel. His philtrum is twice the size of his chin, the moustache is probably an attempt to cover it.
You do know incel isn't a self prescribed label right? Sub 1s who don't have sex because women won't see past their looks are incels whether or not they even know the word.
Obviously, but personality also doesn't matter in that sense either. Women knowingly decide to get into relationships with and stay with cheaters, drug dealers, rapists, and abusers, so I can't imagine personality can matter much at all lmao
Some women are attracted to that type of personality. Usually pretty self destructive. The vast majority of people want someone they can connect with on an intimate level mentally and physically
when people say "personality" they're not talking about your moral character btw. you may not be as bad of a person as your average felon, but you probably are boring as shit, unconfident and unassertive
Women shouldn't want to be with cheaters and drug dealers and rapists and abusers. If that's the personalities they want, then they deserve what they get
you are pretending as if you can tell in advance that these people will be abusers, when in reality you cannot. most dominant, confident and interesting people don't rape or abuse, it just so happens that most rapists are also not very submissive and shy.
maybe if you date an incel type you are relatively safe from being abused, but "this guy probably won't rape me" on its own doesn't make someone an interesting romantic prospect
you are pretending as if you can tell in advance that these people will be abusers, when in reality you cannot.
Lmao yet women can somehow see my internet post history at first glance and know I'm a bad person and that's why I'm incel
most dominant, confident and interesting people don't rape or abuse, it just so happens that most rapists are also not very submissive and shy. in other words, abusers tend to be a subset of dominant people
So women should be smart enough to avoid that risk. But, clearly, theyre not able to figure this out.
maybe if you date an incel type you are relatively safe from being abused, but "this guy probably won't rape me" on its own doesn't make someone an interesting romantic prospect
So what does? I'm interesting, have plenty of hobbies, funny, smart, sweet, Yada Yada
Lmao yet women can somehow see my internet post history at first glance and know I'm a bad person and that's why I'm incel
you being incel for your personality =/= you being incel for being a "bad person". you only had to scroll back up one more comment to read:
"when people say "personality" they're not talking about your moral character btw."
please, pay attention.
So women should be smart enough to avoid that risk.
should be based on what? men should be smart enough to avoid their incredibly high suicide rates, why don't they? men should be smart enough to not get imprisoned so often, why don't they?
So what does? I'm interesting, have plenty of hobbies, funny, smart, sweet, Yada Yada
you're not very smart (based on you failing to understand what I'm saying), you're very clearly bitter, you're probably incredibly unfunny, you're DEFINITELY not "sweet" in any sense other than the /r/niceguys sense, and you're probably a socially awkward pushover in real life, despite you probably bravely claiming you aren't from the comfort of your secluded bedroom
it's funny how you pretend you're "sweet" and then admit you have a post history only a shitty person could have, but claim it doesn't matter because women can't read it when they meet you (trust me, they can tell you're a weirdo, and so could I). I could absolutely pick an angry incel poster out of 100 normies after 10 seconds of conversation, I'll bet my life savings on it
but claim it doesn't matter because women can't read it when they meet you (trust me, they can tell you're a weirdo, and so could I
Lmao this is all I needed to read to see what you believe in. Somehow women get themselves raped and beaten by their boyfriends, but when they meet me they can just *tell& I'm a weirdo lol you know how they do that? BY JUDGING MY APPEARANCE.
Lmao this is all I needed to read to see what you believe in. Somehow women get themselves raped and beaten by their boyfriends every fucking day, but when they see me they can just tell I'm a weirdo
do you actually think abusers are necessarily socially inept or something? in fact the opposite tends to be true, as you probably know psychopaths tend to be very charming, the opposite of incels. your comments betray a lack of understanding of social dynamics
So which is it? Can women magically sense a shitty personality
sigh, one more time:
"WHEN PEOPLE SAY PERSONALITY THEY'RE NOT TALKING ABOUT YOUR MORAL CHARACTER BTW"
Because idk about you, but I think a man who loves raping and beating women has a bad personality.
yes, but they're often not socially awkward to the point where you can tell right away that they're fucked up - quite the opposite actually
And if they can hide their misogyny so well (they don't, by the way, you see them literally calling women bitches and sluts so the misogyny is not actually hidden from the women at all), why is it that you don't think i can hide my frustration with women?
when did I ever say you can't hide your frustration with women? no woman walks away from an interaction with you thinking you hate women, I'd imagine. because they don't detect anything about your moral character before getting to know you. they probably think the opposite, that you put women on a pedestal because you act so awkward and subservient around them
If they think I have a shitty personality and that's not why their with me
please, learn to read, I don't want to have to correct you every single sentence
Im leagues better than a fucking rapist lol
you probably have more moral character than a rapist, sure. good luck conveying that to a woman in 10 seconds though, especially when your awkwardness gets in the way
Because it's so fucking obvious that women don't care about personality and only cares about a persons looks.
well, it's actually obvious that this isn't true, but only if you go outside and actually talk to women
Women make gagging faces when they SEE me.
I will bet my net worth that this is anywhere between a GROSS exaggeration (symptomatic of a mental disorder that makes you interpret it this way) and a blatant lie. please do not lie by pretending this is something that regularly happens to you, it doesn't happen to even the ugliest people on earth (which is not a category you're a part of)
do you actually think abusers are necessarily socially inept or something? in fact the opposite tends to be true, as you probably know psychopaths tend to be very charming, the opposite of incels.
Lmao I'm not socially inept, I'm a fairly social person. You're thinking of a stereotype of a basement dweller. The only difference between me and a normie is that I'm ugly.
your comments betray a lack of understanding of social dynamics
In what way? I have a friend group, participate in group-oriented hobbies, I have a job that involves socializing with coworkers. I have no complaints.
So which is it? Can women magically sense a shitty personality
sigh, one more time:
"WHEN PEOPLE SAY PERSONALITY THEY'RE NOT TALKING ABOUT YOUR MORAL CHARACTER BTW"
ONE MORE TIME:
MORAL CHARACTER IS APART OF YOUR PERSONALITY.
YOU CAN'T HAVE A GOOD PERSONALITY AND ALSO BE ADOLPH HITLER, SORRY.
this is what we here are talking about.
Women do not care about personality.
Moral character is a very big portion of your personality. If you're charming, funny, dominant, and also believe women should be caged and tortured:
YOU HAVE A BAD PERSONALITY.
Thats why normies like you tell us that being misogynistic is why we're incels. But if women don't care about moral character, why would they care about us being misogynistic?
yes, but they're often not socially awkward to the point where you can tell right away that they're fucked up - quite the opposite actually
Neither am I, but wouldn't a woman have to TALK to me to figure out I'm socially awkward? How can they tell by LOOKING at me? This is your problem, you assume there's something wrong with my social skills, there's NOTHING wrong with my social skills. Women AVOID talking to me, how do they know I have a bad personality or that I don't have the social skills before talking to me?
when did I ever say you can't hide your frustration with women? no woman walks away from an interaction with you thinking you hate women, I'd imagine.
You'd be right to assume that.
because they don't detect anything about your moral character before getting to know you. they probably think the opposite, that you put women on a pedestal because you act so awkward and subservient around them
Lmao okay so now I put women on a pedestal. AGAIN IM NOT SOCIALLY INEPT. I TALK TO PEOPLE LIKE THEY'RE PEOPLE.
you probably have more moral character than a rapist, sure. good luck conveying that to a woman in 10 seconds though, especially when your awkwardness gets in the way
LMAO AGAIN WITH AWKWARDNESS
Also you heard it here first folks, women would rather be raped then date an ugly man!
well, it's actually obvious that this isn't true, but only if you go outside and actually talk to women
Too bad they're too disgusted by my face to go near me.
I will bet my net worth that this is anywhere between a GROSS exaggeration (symptomatic of a mental disorder that makes you interpret it this way)
HOLY SHIT, do you know how many of us have this shared experience? This is like when people say catcalling doesn't happen to women because they don't see it happen and can't imagine people would be that rude to those women.
please do not lie by pretending this is something that regularly happens to you, it doesn't happen to even the ugliest people on earth (which is not a category you're a part of)
It DOES happen regularly. You live a privileged life, alright, you don't have to deal with this shit. That's a good thing for you. But we deal with this every day of our lives.
not in the mood to send walls back and forth, but:
Lmao I'm not socially inept, I'm a fairly social person. You're thinking of a stereotype of a basement dweller. The only difference between me and a normie is that I'm ugly.
everyone can type this, there are plenty of ugly "incel" people who nevertheless don't share the bitter incel mentality
In what way? I have a friend group, participate in group-oriented hobbies, I have a job that involves socializing with coworkers. I have no complaints.
I have seven wives and a trillion dollars
MORAL CHARACTER IS APART OF YOUR PERSONALITY. YOU CAN'T HAVE A GOOD PERSONALITY AND ALSO BE ADOLPH HITLER, SORRY.
you're misunderstanding. you can be adolf hitler and still have an ATTRACTIVE personality.
think of attractive vs good personalities as the political compass with on one side "libertarian vs authoritarian" and the other side "left vs right". you can have an attractive evil personality, an unattractive "good" personality, etc.
Thats why normies like you tell us that being misogynistic is why we're incels. But if women don't care about moral character, why would they care about us being misogynistic?
I disagree with anyone who tells you this
Neither am I, but wouldn't a woman have to TALK to me to figure out I'm socially awkward?
actually not necessarily, if you look at a picture of, say, Dylann Roof you can just tell he's one of those "weirdos". to be fair, some people are weirdos and you can't tell in their case, but this is sometimes the case.
Women AVOID talking to me, how do they know I have a bad personality or that I don't have the social skills before talking to me?
I'm not saying women aren't less keen to talk to ugly men, obviously. but not all women avoid talking to you, and there are definitely women who would date you if your personality was a certain way. I'm not even saying there aren't women who won't date you in your current state btw, there probably are
AGAIN IM NOT SOCIALLY INEPT. I TALK TO PEOPLE LIKE THEY'RE PEOPLE.
according to you. kinda sucks that one of the symptoms of social ineptitude is an inability to read social cues and know what behavior is socially normal, so if you were socially inept you couldn't really know. if you understood this you wouldn't irrationally try to tell me "but I know I'm not socially inept"
Also you heard it here first folks, women would rather be raped then date an ugly man!
this presupposes that: getting abused is likely when dating a dominant man (false, they're just more likely to abuse) or that ugly man can't rape (false, they're just less likely to abuse). your worldview cannot handle nuance, it seems
Too bad they're too disgusted by my face to go near me.
in what sense do they "avoid" you? do you actually think that if you weren't ugly they'd come up to you out of the blue?
HOLY SHIT, do you know how many of us have this shared experience?
I know many of you truly believe this is the case, I'm just saying you're delusional. It's similar to body dysmorphia. your brain is fucking with you
It DOES happen regularly. You live a privileged life, alright, you don't have to deal with this shit. That's a good thing for you.
I've seen countless truly ugly people in my life (much uglier than I've ever seen in /r/incels selfies) and known a few pretty intimately - I've never seen anyone be treated this way in the real world, it's just not something that happens, at least not in this corner of the world
It's probably over for some of you and probably not for more. Trouble is youre all incredibly insecure and thus all believe it's you. What I do know is that staying in a community like this will only make you more miserable and unattractive
It's about both. You need mutual physical attraction and a strong friendship, that's what a companion is.
Sure some guys dont have what you consider personality. They date girls who im sure usually dont have what you consider personality either. Therefore they are compatible personalitywise.
I wouldn't have survived 1 week in a relationship with someone I didn't get along with regardless of how attractive they are.
It's about both. You need mutual physical attraction and a strong friendship, that's what a companion is.
Sure some guys dont have what you consider personality. They date girls who im sure usually dont have what you consider personality either. Therefore they are compatible personalitywise.
So you just admitted you don't need personality to get in a long-term relationship. Thanks for playing.
No I didnt.. I said they don't have what you consider personality. But when you look at things objectively its clear that their compatibility is a result of their respective personalities.
So you're saying that people without personality are compatible with people who don't have personality. Again, you're agreeing with me; you don't need a personality for an LTR, because you can't get in an LTR with someone else who doesn't have a personality.
You said personality doesnt matter. Clearly it does if you believe you have a personality. It's barmy how you can believe you're an expert on these things despite presumably never having had the experience yourself
You just agreed with me that it doesn't matter. You originally said you NEED a personality for an LTR, and now you have admitted that you don't, because you can just find someone else who doesn't have a personality.
My point is that what you perceive as lack of personality actually is personality. If one of them had my personality the relationship wouldnt work out.
I’ve seen many, many couples out there where both the man and the woman are ugly. But they have compatible personalities. You don’t need to be good looking to be in a relationship.
Anyone willing to rock a Hitler stash already has a questionable personality. And im not here to make the argument that personality means anything to anyone. Most people in the world are shallow. If they have good personalities they probably have some friends, which has nothing to do with how fuckable they are. Actually dating someone is essentially being friends with them and having sex. Then there's being friends. Then there's fucking. No one wants to have sex with someone they're not attracted to. No one wants to be pals eith a Hitler impersonator. Or at least I don't.
Im not an incel and I know that. But can you blame the world for being shallow? I mean we aren't having sex with personalities out here. If your a good guy it gets you friends not buns.
I haven't been fed any information about this sub. This is the second time I've come across this sub, last time it was called incels. No one has ever even mentioned this sub to me. In fact im my only friend that uses reddit and im subbed to art pages and videogame pages exclusively.
Also, you've misinterpreted what I meant. I didn't aim to call you out for placing blame, I was using that purely as an expression. To me the shallow nature of humans is a reasonable response to being surrounded by so many people. By "can you blame the world" I meant that it seems reasonable to me that people are so shallow these days.
It's probably over for some of you and probably not for more. Trouble is youre all incredibly insecure and thus all believe it's you. What I do know is that staying in a community like this will only make you more miserable and unattractive
92 comments
1 random1234lol 2018-03-01
Sub7s are invisible to femoids. It's over
1 Smallishh 2018-03-01
Sub 8s*
1 AnthroBuL 2018-03-01
Bright pill: Not true. Sub 7's get laid all the time, as well. They just don't go after the stacys.
1 warmestblack 2018-03-01
Yea they have to date below their looksmatch
1 PhucCheet 2018-03-01
It's over for Sub3s though
Half this sub is 4-7 fakecel Normans with low self-esteem and high looks standards. The rest of us are truecels and actually invisible.
1 wazzap_dude 2018-03-01
fuck, that's me
soz bro
1 behindcloseddoors1 2018-03-01
I would say it's over for Sub3 white guys, but its Sub4 ethnics.
1 anonmymouse 2018-03-01
the 2 guys in that pic aren't sub 7 though, they're like, sub 3.
1 hiiamwhoiam 2018-03-01
These 2 incels are volcels.
1 justforlulzandkeks 2018-03-01
Hitlercel did literally nothing wrong
1 PROLAPSED_SUBWOOFER 2018-03-01
Wrong. Hitlercel was born as an ugly male, the worst possible offense a human being could commit.
1 Chef_Lamar 2018-03-01
Only the fatty is volcel
1 Madeon929 2018-03-01
EXCELLENT ILLUSTRATION!!!
You are literally invisible
1 AnthroBuL 2018-03-01
Are you kidding me? One of then looks like Hitler and the other one is extremely obese. Both are sub 1's. Of course women ignore them. I think most incels would look alot better, if they spent some more time away from the computer doing useful and healthy stuff.
1 jdc5294 2018-03-01
Stop with the logic. It hurts them.
1 bopoll 2018-03-01
Because there is no logic
1 jdc5294 2018-03-01
If I showed you pictures of ugly guys with girlfriends or shared stories of how personality matters a helluva lot, you’d cover your ears and go spoon your waifu pillow. Stop acting like you’re open to other points of view.
1 bopoll 2018-03-01
Because exceptions to a rule is not evidence against the existence of that rule. If 2 billion uggos go unnoticed by women and a couple hundred arent unnoticed, the general trend is still very much there.
We don't discount the accounts of unicorns. But that's why women who date ugly men are called unicorns. Because they're rare.
1 jdc5294 2018-03-01
So there’s no way that the “uggos” who have girlfriends are just doing something right while the rest are crying about being incels, right? Impossible.
1 bopoll 2018-03-01
Yes, it is impossible. The woman is the variable that's different. That's why she's a unicorn.
1 DilateTRESDOPE 2018-03-01
That's not even discounting the possibility (inevitability?) that these uglies are getting cucked or beta bucked
1 bopoll 2018-03-01
That too!
1 DestroyingIdioticPpl 2018-03-01
Which do you think is more likely, in your heart of hearts:
The "ugly" guys you see with girlfriends aren't as ugly as you, think, and/or are the exceptions to the rule, OR, the "ugly" guys you see have found some magical "personality" hack that makes women sexually attracted to their personality?
1 jdc5294 2018-03-01
Magical personality hack like being a decent human? Yeah going with that.
1 DestroyingIdioticPpl 2018-03-01
Being a "decent human" is getting ugly guys laid? You honestly believe that?
1 jdc5294 2018-03-01
I believe it because I’ve seen it, yeah.
1 DestroyingIdioticPpl 2018-03-01
What you've seen is guys you perceived as ugly in relationships. That's all you knew about what you saw. Everything else is speculation on your part...and it's speculation done by somebody who is delusional.
Decent guys are a dime a dozen.
1 jdc5294 2018-03-01
Yes, they are. None of them subscribe to what you’re talking about though.
1 t0lkien1 2018-03-01
You know, just as an external observer, you're not actually listening to his view and experience at all. You're just doubling down on self improvement, life is what you make it propaganda.
Some people get dealt a shitty hand and no amount of finger in the ears denial is going to mitigate that. I would argue that's not the point on whether or not to be a decent human being though, You try to do that because it's better than all the alternatives. And if you believe in God, because you want to please him.
But getting lectured to about your attitude being the problem when it's the symptom not the cause must be fucking infuriating. Maybe stop?
1 fuckitidunno 2018-03-01
You're a bunch of average - slightly below average guys comparing yourselves to men that look borderline deformed, it's fucking dumb.
1 bopoll 2018-03-01
I'm malformed
1 KufoIV 2018-03-01
cope
1 fuckitidunno 2018-03-01
The real cope is comparing yourself to someone that's deformed so you never have to face direct rejection.
1 KufoIV 2018-03-01
JFL if you think no one here has been rejected before. most of us have been rejected countless times.
1 fuckitidunno 2018-03-01
Most guys have been
1 GoodbyeYall333 2018-03-01
You're shitting me right? Yea the fat guy might have great bone structure underneath, but the other guy is a truecel. His philtrum is twice the size of his chin, the moustache is probably an attempt to cover it.
1 bopoll 2018-03-01
You do know incel isn't a self prescribed label right? Sub 1s who don't have sex because women won't see past their looks are incels whether or not they even know the word.
1 PhucCheet 2018-03-01
You assume wrong. Don't insult those of us who are truly ugly.
1 trevmon 2018-03-01
lol at hitlercel there
1 asdasda5453 2018-03-01
tfw hitler was hot irl
https://i.imgur.com/BFHRabc.jpg
1 wont_tell_i_refuse_ 2018-03-01
It's over
For the Jews
1 asdasda5453 2018-03-01
kek
1 iQ9k 2018-03-01
WoMeN hAVe a VaRieTy oF TaSTeS
1 jimmargerine 2018-03-01
people have a variety of tastes when it comes to food, doesn't mean they'll eat rotten hotdogs covered in shit off the ground
1 taiwanna 2018-03-01
That fat guy might be one of the ugliest dudes I've ever seen lol.
1 PROLAPSED_SUBWOOFER 2018-03-01
He is JabbaTheHutcel
1 M4DW0RLD 2018-03-01
I mean... C'MON the guy on the left looks like Hitler FFS. And the other guy looks like Bebop from TMNT. Nobody is trying to date a super-villain.
1 bopoll 2018-03-01
What about personality
1 raven202020 2018-03-01
personality is a requisite for a long term relationship but if you're totally hideous youre not going to attract women
1 bopoll 2018-03-01
Obviously, but personality also doesn't matter in that sense either. Women knowingly decide to get into relationships with and stay with cheaters, drug dealers, rapists, and abusers, so I can't imagine personality can matter much at all lmao
1 raven202020 2018-03-01
Some women are attracted to that type of personality. Usually pretty self destructive. The vast majority of people want someone they can connect with on an intimate level mentally and physically
1 Stagetail 2018-03-01
The vast majority of males, not females. Women just want to ride the cock carousel until they get old and used up, and even then...
1 raven202020 2018-03-01
Make some female friends
1 jimmargerine 2018-03-01
when people say "personality" they're not talking about your moral character btw. you may not be as bad of a person as your average felon, but you probably are boring as shit, unconfident and unassertive
1 bopoll 2018-03-01
Women shouldn't want to be with cheaters and drug dealers and rapists and abusers. If that's the personalities they want, then they deserve what they get
1 jimmargerine 2018-03-01
you are pretending as if you can tell in advance that these people will be abusers, when in reality you cannot. most dominant, confident and interesting people don't rape or abuse, it just so happens that most rapists are also not very submissive and shy.
maybe if you date an incel type you are relatively safe from being abused, but "this guy probably won't rape me" on its own doesn't make someone an interesting romantic prospect
1 bopoll 2018-03-01
Lmao yet women can somehow see my internet post history at first glance and know I'm a bad person and that's why I'm incel
So women should be smart enough to avoid that risk. But, clearly, theyre not able to figure this out.
So what does? I'm interesting, have plenty of hobbies, funny, smart, sweet, Yada Yada
1 jimmargerine 2018-03-01
you being incel for your personality =/= you being incel for being a "bad person". you only had to scroll back up one more comment to read:
please, pay attention.
should be based on what? men should be smart enough to avoid their incredibly high suicide rates, why don't they? men should be smart enough to not get imprisoned so often, why don't they?
you're not very smart (based on you failing to understand what I'm saying), you're very clearly bitter, you're probably incredibly unfunny, you're DEFINITELY not "sweet" in any sense other than the /r/niceguys sense, and you're probably a socially awkward pushover in real life, despite you probably bravely claiming you aren't from the comfort of your secluded bedroom
it's funny how you pretend you're "sweet" and then admit you have a post history only a shitty person could have, but claim it doesn't matter because women can't read it when they meet you (trust me, they can tell you're a weirdo, and so could I). I could absolutely pick an angry incel poster out of 100 normies after 10 seconds of conversation, I'll bet my life savings on it
1 bopoll 2018-03-01
Lmao this is all I needed to read to see what you believe in. Somehow women get themselves raped and beaten by their boyfriends, but when they meet me they can just *tell& I'm a weirdo lol you know how they do that? BY JUDGING MY APPEARANCE.
1 jimmargerine 2018-03-01
do you actually think abusers are necessarily socially inept or something? in fact the opposite tends to be true, as you probably know psychopaths tend to be very charming, the opposite of incels. your comments betray a lack of understanding of social dynamics
sigh, one more time:
yes, but they're often not socially awkward to the point where you can tell right away that they're fucked up - quite the opposite actually
when did I ever say you can't hide your frustration with women? no woman walks away from an interaction with you thinking you hate women, I'd imagine. because they don't detect anything about your moral character before getting to know you. they probably think the opposite, that you put women on a pedestal because you act so awkward and subservient around them
please, learn to read, I don't want to have to correct you every single sentence
you probably have more moral character than a rapist, sure. good luck conveying that to a woman in 10 seconds though, especially when your awkwardness gets in the way
well, it's actually obvious that this isn't true, but only if you go outside and actually talk to women
I will bet my net worth that this is anywhere between a GROSS exaggeration (symptomatic of a mental disorder that makes you interpret it this way) and a blatant lie. please do not lie by pretending this is something that regularly happens to you, it doesn't happen to even the ugliest people on earth (which is not a category you're a part of)
1 bopoll 2018-03-01
Lmao I'm not socially inept, I'm a fairly social person. You're thinking of a stereotype of a basement dweller. The only difference between me and a normie is that I'm ugly.
In what way? I have a friend group, participate in group-oriented hobbies, I have a job that involves socializing with coworkers. I have no complaints.
ONE MORE TIME:
MORAL CHARACTER IS APART OF YOUR PERSONALITY.
YOU CAN'T HAVE A GOOD PERSONALITY AND ALSO BE ADOLPH HITLER, SORRY.
this is what we here are talking about.
Women do not care about personality.
Moral character is a very big portion of your personality. If you're charming, funny, dominant, and also believe women should be caged and tortured:
YOU HAVE A BAD PERSONALITY.
Thats why normies like you tell us that being misogynistic is why we're incels. But if women don't care about moral character, why would they care about us being misogynistic?
Neither am I, but wouldn't a woman have to TALK to me to figure out I'm socially awkward? How can they tell by LOOKING at me? This is your problem, you assume there's something wrong with my social skills, there's NOTHING wrong with my social skills. Women AVOID talking to me, how do they know I have a bad personality or that I don't have the social skills before talking to me?
You'd be right to assume that.
Lmao okay so now I put women on a pedestal. AGAIN IM NOT SOCIALLY INEPT. I TALK TO PEOPLE LIKE THEY'RE PEOPLE.
LMAO AGAIN WITH AWKWARDNESS
Also you heard it here first folks, women would rather be raped then date an ugly man!
Too bad they're too disgusted by my face to go near me.
HOLY SHIT, do you know how many of us have this shared experience? This is like when people say catcalling doesn't happen to women because they don't see it happen and can't imagine people would be that rude to those women.
It DOES happen regularly. You live a privileged life, alright, you don't have to deal with this shit. That's a good thing for you. But we deal with this every day of our lives.
1 jimmargerine 2018-03-01
not in the mood to send walls back and forth, but:
everyone can type this, there are plenty of ugly "incel" people who nevertheless don't share the bitter incel mentality
I have seven wives and a trillion dollars
you're misunderstanding. you can be adolf hitler and still have an ATTRACTIVE personality.
think of attractive vs good personalities as the political compass with on one side "libertarian vs authoritarian" and the other side "left vs right". you can have an attractive evil personality, an unattractive "good" personality, etc.
I disagree with anyone who tells you this
actually not necessarily, if you look at a picture of, say, Dylann Roof you can just tell he's one of those "weirdos". to be fair, some people are weirdos and you can't tell in their case, but this is sometimes the case.
I'm not saying women aren't less keen to talk to ugly men, obviously. but not all women avoid talking to you, and there are definitely women who would date you if your personality was a certain way. I'm not even saying there aren't women who won't date you in your current state btw, there probably are
according to you. kinda sucks that one of the symptoms of social ineptitude is an inability to read social cues and know what behavior is socially normal, so if you were socially inept you couldn't really know. if you understood this you wouldn't irrationally try to tell me "but I know I'm not socially inept"
this presupposes that: getting abused is likely when dating a dominant man (false, they're just more likely to abuse) or that ugly man can't rape (false, they're just less likely to abuse). your worldview cannot handle nuance, it seems
in what sense do they "avoid" you? do you actually think that if you weren't ugly they'd come up to you out of the blue?
I know many of you truly believe this is the case, I'm just saying you're delusional. It's similar to body dysmorphia. your brain is fucking with you
I've seen countless truly ugly people in my life (much uglier than I've ever seen in /r/incels selfies) and known a few pretty intimately - I've never seen anyone be treated this way in the real world, it's just not something that happens, at least not in this corner of the world
1 justforlulzandkeks 2018-03-01
This is why it's over
1 raven202020 2018-03-01
It's probably over for some of you and probably not for more. Trouble is youre all incredibly insecure and thus all believe it's you. What I do know is that staying in a community like this will only make you more miserable and unattractive
1 DestroyingIdioticPpl 2018-03-01
No it's not. Not sure where people get this idea.
1 raven202020 2018-03-01
From actually being in relationships...
1 DestroyingIdioticPpl 2018-03-01
Utter nonsense. You're delusional if you think your personality is the reason you were in relationships.
There are plenty of guys with every kind of personality there is who have no trouble being in long-term relationships. It's all about looks.
1 raven202020 2018-03-01
It's about both. You need mutual physical attraction and a strong friendship, that's what a companion is.
Sure some guys dont have what you consider personality. They date girls who im sure usually dont have what you consider personality either. Therefore they are compatible personalitywise.
I wouldn't have survived 1 week in a relationship with someone I didn't get along with regardless of how attractive they are.
1 DestroyingIdioticPpl 2018-03-01
So you just admitted you don't need personality to get in a long-term relationship. Thanks for playing.
1 raven202020 2018-03-01
No I didnt.. I said they don't have what you consider personality. But when you look at things objectively its clear that their compatibility is a result of their respective personalities.
1 DestroyingIdioticPpl 2018-03-01
So you're saying that people without personality are compatible with people who don't have personality. Again, you're agreeing with me; you don't need a personality for an LTR, because you can't get in an LTR with someone else who doesn't have a personality.
Again, thanks for playing.
1 raven202020 2018-03-01
You said personality doesnt matter. Clearly it does if you believe you have a personality. It's barmy how you can believe you're an expert on these things despite presumably never having had the experience yourself
1 DestroyingIdioticPpl 2018-03-01
You just agreed with me that it doesn't matter. You originally said you NEED a personality for an LTR, and now you have admitted that you don't, because you can just find someone else who doesn't have a personality.
It's hilarious watching you spin in circles.
1 raven202020 2018-03-01
My point is that what you perceive as lack of personality actually is personality. If one of them had my personality the relationship wouldnt work out.
1 DestroyingIdioticPpl 2018-03-01
Everybody has a personality, then. And if everyone has one, then nobody "needs" one.
Again, thanks for playing.
1 raven202020 2018-03-01
Everyone has looks, everyone has personality. You need to be compatible in both to have a successful relationship. Good luck
1 DestroyingIdioticPpl 2018-03-01
Everyone has an adequate personality to get in LTRs. Scumbags get in LTRs.
Not everyone has adequate looks.
1 YeaaaaahNooooooo 2018-03-01
I’ve seen many, many couples out there where both the man and the woman are ugly. But they have compatible personalities. You don’t need to be good looking to be in a relationship.
1 DestroyingIdioticPpl 2018-03-01
You need to be good looking enough.
1 M4DW0RLD 2018-03-01
Anyone willing to rock a Hitler stash already has a questionable personality. And im not here to make the argument that personality means anything to anyone. Most people in the world are shallow. If they have good personalities they probably have some friends, which has nothing to do with how fuckable they are. Actually dating someone is essentially being friends with them and having sex. Then there's being friends. Then there's fucking. No one wants to have sex with someone they're not attracted to. No one wants to be pals eith a Hitler impersonator. Or at least I don't.
1 bopoll 2018-03-01
I'm an incel, I already know personality doesn't matter. It was a meme.
1 M4DW0RLD 2018-03-01
Im not an incel and I know that. But can you blame the world for being shallow? I mean we aren't having sex with personalities out here. If your a good guy it gets you friends not buns.
1 bopoll 2018-03-01
I don't blame the world for it, I blame the liars who keep insisting that personality matters over looks.
You should really read what we say on here and stop thinking about the stereotype of us you've been fed.
1 M4DW0RLD 2018-03-01
I haven't been fed any information about this sub. This is the second time I've come across this sub, last time it was called incels. No one has ever even mentioned this sub to me. In fact im my only friend that uses reddit and im subbed to art pages and videogame pages exclusively. Also, you've misinterpreted what I meant. I didn't aim to call you out for placing blame, I was using that purely as an expression. To me the shallow nature of humans is a reasonable response to being surrounded by so many people. By "can you blame the world" I meant that it seems reasonable to me that people are so shallow these days.
1 Orrery- 2018-03-01
Who in their right mind wants to date a guy with a hitler tashe!
1 howcanyousleepatnite 2018-03-01
Mabye don't be a fat slob version of Fred Durst or wear a Hitler moustache, you disgustingly irritating pieces of shit.
1 MoneySagBag 2018-03-01
Damn that fatcel is fucked
1 TropicalStormJim 2018-03-01
I mean, one can lose weight and the other is trying to look like fucking discount shelf Hitler.
1 KufoIV 2018-03-01
hitler was bae dawg
1 Joe_Sapien 2018-03-01
Well who's gonna fuck mini Hitler or Mr. Potato Head?
1 TruthInBlack 2018-03-01
There has been some high quality content in this sub recently. I like this change.
1 captvic 2018-03-01
KEK
1 raven202020 2018-03-01
It's probably over for some of you and probably not for more. Trouble is youre all incredibly insecure and thus all believe it's you. What I do know is that staying in a community like this will only make you more miserable and unattractive
1 raven202020 2018-03-01
Make some female friends
1 bopoll 2018-03-01
I don't blame the world for it, I blame the liars who keep insisting that personality matters over looks.
You should really read what we say on here and stop thinking about the stereotype of us you've been fed.
1 fuckitidunno 2018-03-01
The real cope is comparing yourself to someone that's deformed so you never have to face direct rejection.