Not really. Looks aren't all that important in the grand scheme of things. People aren't hating you and wanting to kill you over your preference in partners
Only looks matter. We have proven this over and over again. And while there is no outright calling for killing of incels, women still want our genes to be eradicated from the genepool. A silent genocide -- we are very much persecuted.
I don't really care what is and isn't "late" in some random dude's opinion. I get that this is supposed to be addressing my point somehow, but it isn't.
Let's see. When my gay friend emigrated from Russia to Canada, he was facing:
1) Violence
2) Ridicule
3) A lack of any domestic legal recourse to push back against his harassers
4) A severely reduced choice of possible careers since in most fields being LGBT would've precluded him from career advancement beyond a certain low point.
An unattractive unmasculine man faces largely the same struggles. His lack of options for legal recourse may not be as complete, but on the other hand he is taxed more heavily. Additionally, an LGBT person has the option to hide their orientation and thus avoid the above mentioned issues. An incel cannot.
Discrimination is discrimination regardless of who the victim is. And it's despicable regardless of who the victim is. And your attempts to simultaneously both erase and justify the oppression of incels is just as immoral and despicable as someone else's attempts to do the same for other oppressed groups.
Yes, it is. Since it's unrealistic to expect the IT hivemind to just leave this community alone, I have to bear with the frustration and compensate by rustling your jimmies. You make it so easy too, being that shallow and predictable.
Discrimination is discrimination regardless of who the victim is. And it's despicable regardless of who the victim is. And your attempts to simultaneously both erase and justify the oppression of incels is just as immoral and despicable as someone else's attempts to do the same for other oppressed groups.
No it isn't. Discrimination is good. We need more discrimination, not less.
"In human social affairs, discrimination is treatment or consideration of, or making a distinction in favor of or against, a person based on the group, class, or category to which the person is perceived to belong rather than on individual attributes."
For instance, "sexism," if a society correctly properly discriminates against women and for men, then Inceldom all but vanishes, along with a host of other social ills (divorce, endless cycle of poverty, crime, etc).
Lol itâs not an order of importance, dude, itâs mostly just the list as it develops. Trans people probably objectively have it worst, considering many of them arenât able to get above a 3-4, the men are generally under 5â5 and their dicks are roughly an inch and a half... And trans women got it even worse, theyâre are so far down the totem pole even incels feel safe bullying them.
What problems do women have in modern society? The amount of privileges they have is staggering. If you are a woman thinking about getting a child and are not actively aborting all male foetuses you are a sadist by bringing more suffering into the world.
So oppressed that youâre being thrown off buildings in Middle East? Youâre not oppressed, youâre a lazy fuck who would rather blame women for your failures than make yourself a better person.
I mean it isn't like I have anything better to do than point out how hypocritical most people are, for example I only post about as often as you if not for people replying to me, you're an overly trans-sympathizing, white hating racist piece of shit based on a quick look at your post history. People like you are the ones to deserve to be hanged, publicly.
Lmao you pudgy fucks canât even get out of your parents house to find a girlfriend. Nothing you ever say or do will ever matter to anyone. â¤ď¸â¤ď¸đ
I honestly believe it because I did it. Itâs not that people donât want anything to do with you itâs that you go into your everyday life hating yourself and assuming they donât. Honestly though if you really think that you should see a therapist, get some help.
I don't hate myself I hate everyone else, I personally think I am better than just about everyone else and no I'm not narcissistic, I know other people hate me though.
Psychological projection is a theory in psychology in which humans defend themselves against their own unconscious impulses or qualities (both positive and negative) by denying their existence in themselves while attributing them to others. For example, a person who is habitually intolerant may constantly accuse other people of being intolerant. It incorporates blame shifting.
According to some research, the projection of one's unconscious qualities onto others is a common process in everyday life.
Doesn't sound like me, I fully own up to the things that go against my morals, other people are definitely worse for than me in terms of doing things I look down on people for especially in regards to relationships. I kinda have an "well it's okay if I do it just not anyone else" type personality as well so that helps with not projecting.
People don't want anything to do with you because you all hate women and blame others for your own shortcomings, both mentally and physically.
Yes, there are shallow people who will snub you just because you're not conventionally attractive but by basing all of your feelings for the world (and women) off of those people you ruin any chance for good hearted people to try to socialize with you because you've blackened your own heart towards everything. Incels tend to live inside of their own often close-minded bubbles of hatred, all surrounded by a perpetual confirmation-bias.
People don't dislike incels for being lonely and being virgins, people dislike incels because so many of them are angry, sexist, rude, and all around not the type of people they want to be around.
People don't want anything to do with you because you all hate women and blame others for your own shortcomings, both mentally and physically.
Are we supposed to take the blame for being short and ugly?
Yes, there are shallow people who will snub you just because you're not conventionally attractive but by basing all of your feelings for the world (and women) off of those people you ruin any chance for good hearted people to try to socialize with you because you've blackened your own heart towards everything.
From my experience that's been most women, what else is there to do when you have struggle to even find women let alone ones who don't judge too harsh based on looks.
Lmao ruin what? Do you feel threatened by people asking you not to be homophobic? + maybe you should try living there to see how easy it is to come out when you immediately get executed. You're a first world keyboard warrior.
Considering I'm dealing with people demanding me to abandon my beliefs and force their sexuality down my throat and expect me to deal with "gender identity" BS yeah I do feel a bit threatened by it. I mean it's not like they are forced to come out and in most first world countries they don't get immediately executed. You're damn right I'm from a first world country and I'd prefer to keep it as that way.
No one is forcing anything down your throat, gays don't want to fuck you I swear. I don't know how to explain to you that you should care about other human beings though, straight or not.
I can't tell if you genuinely thought that what I said was referring to being afraid of being raped by a gay or having gays hounding me for sex(that said I've had to deal with them hitting on me too many times for a straight guy showing no large signs of homosexuality... Trans make me second guess every woman I see so that is something that annoys me and affects me constantly.) But anyway I more meant the way they seemed to have trained so many people into their attack dogs to go after anyone who dares be against them for any reason or any perceived thing that seems like it goes against them.
I have cared about people of many sexuality, the of the two friends I talk to most one is a bisexual woman and the other is ftm I care about them because they've proven to be nice and likable people. That doesn't mean I approve of their choices though and I let them know that once I feel like I know them well enough and like the friendship will last because I feel bad keeping something like that from them. I'm polite about it and explain my view on things and that I value them as friends and as people most of them have been cool about it with only one exception having gone completely crazy over the smallest thing I mentioned her close friend/future boyfriend(and then ex) was with me at the time, is also bi and agreed that she is just a bit crazy and that I presented a respectable enough opinion in a non-offensive way.
First off you said care not respect, personally I don't respect that aspect of them, but that doesn't mean I don't care about them as people. Secondly you're being overly picky about words, what is the politically correct term then? One of the main conversations I was thinking of while writing that was one about I had was about the trans friend's choice to actually go through with the transition because I was worried it might just be a phase given his age and how a seemingly hardcore "trans-woman" I knew had recently thought "you know what? I'll just accept that I'm a dude" after literal years.
I guess because one involves only guys and one only girls. They could have used homosexual, but then it becomes a much longer word than the others and since the design seems to follow the length of the words, it would have been prominent and annoying tbh.
Unofortunately it won't work. All these movements only took off because they framed their plight in the context of women. If you want to have any societal change at all, you need to frame your problem in the context of women. It's not "how does it affect people negatively?", it's "how does it affect WOMEN negatively?"
That's how gynocentric societes, like ours, work.
And, I hope I don't need to explain this, you can't frame incel issues as women's issues.
Iâm not sure you guys will have a lot of fun, us queer folk are pretty big on mutually respectful dialogue. Itâs pretty much why weâre able to put up with each other when weâre all so different.
Dw I know there is a lot of good guys in the incel community, the bad apples a few but like any bad apples they are a bit more in your face than the others. It's just that on r/incels before it got deleted I remember seeing often 'kill yourself there's no future for us incels anyway' in the comments or as post advocating suicide as an actual solution. It was something regular during the week. It's WAY less often on r/braincel which I am so happy of, but have you seen incel.me? (or incels.me can't remember rn) It's ridden with verbal violence against others and each others. And it's supposed to be the new sanctuary for incels so it's hard to not associate that plethora of negative comments to the incel community.
I'm glad that things are starting to change and that it's becoming more and more a real support group, but stereotypes about a group normally find source in the truth about them, and incels is no different.
There are individuals who are extremely supportive and respectful. Incels run the gamut between polite/respectful and full on sociopath, it is true. Your culture of disrespect towards women, however, wouldnât really fly in most queer communities- We tended to form in response to ugly persecution, and in doing so, we tend to be extremely anti-bullying.
â And before you point out that incels are also bullied, yes. I genuinely believe that they are. Itâs wrong, and I think society could benefit from taking a knee thinking about why this is. Kids are raised to assign value to looks instead of health, and thatâs a major problem that isnât going to get better by NOT talking about it. ....The difference is that thereâs a faction of incels that feel this entitled them to them hate an entire demographic. They call women ugly names, make disgusting comments about their genitalia, plot elaborate revenge fantasies that involve slavery and rape...
And yo, itâs your own board. Youâre free to post and encourage whatever behavior you want, Iâm opposed to thought policing, and understand Iâm just a visitor here. Just saying that anyone that doesnât distance themselves loudly from these sorts of behaviors arenât going to find themselves welcomed under the rainbow flag.
Which sucks cuz theyâd find good company there if they stopped playing the cheap game of Rolling Shit Downhill. Many queer folk also struggle with the crippling loneliness of not finding a partner that wants them. Many of us are rejected by society and called cruel names and bullied for their looks. They suffer intense anxiety and face limited job prospects because of who they are and what they look like. As a community, we tend to organize and ban together in each city, where we share tips for housing and job openings and organize social times where we can spend time with other people that we can feel safe just being ourselves around.
But all genders are treating equally in these societies, so the âroastie flapsâ talk and the Chad Worship(Envy?), calling fat women âland whalesâ like... these behaviors would be considered pretty abhorrent in the greater queer community. Which sucks.
I mean. I know youâre pretty much just trolling, but the very fact that youâre asking questions pretty much compels me to give you the benefit of the doubt. Iâd love to be proven wrong and have a good discussion tho.
So oppressed that youâre being thrown off buildings in Middle East? Youâre not oppressed, youâre a lazy fuck who would rather blame women for your failures than make yourself a better person.
What problems do women have in modern society? The amount of privileges they have is staggering. If you are a woman thinking about getting a child and are not actively aborting all male foetuses you are a sadist by bringing more suffering into the world.
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1 zielony4 2018-02-27
Lol damn. We need a hot pink colored one.
1 fatchancebud 2018-02-27
yea I shulda picked a better color
1 zielony4 2018-02-27
Hot pink is our better color.
1 CptErection23 2018-02-27
Finally, we don't have to use this one anymore.
1 WhiteBlackPurple 2018-02-27
The most oppressed and mocked of them all.
1 fatchancebud 2018-02-27
true dat
1 69SRDP69 2018-02-27
That's dumb
1 WhiteBlackPurple 2018-02-27
Why?
1 69SRDP69 2018-02-27
No one oppressed you for something you can't control
1 WhiteBlackPurple 2018-02-27
lol wrong. You can improve looks, yes. But only by a very tiny margin. If you are sub 5 in 2018 as a male you are fucked.
1 69SRDP69 2018-02-27
Not really. Looks aren't all that important in the grand scheme of things. People aren't hating you and wanting to kill you over your preference in partners
1 WhiteBlackPurple 2018-02-27
Only looks matter. We have proven this over and over again. And while there is no outright calling for killing of incels, women still want our genes to be eradicated from the genepool. A silent genocide -- we are very much persecuted.
1 69SRDP69 2018-02-27
You really haven't proven anything though, because all of you seem like pretty unpleasant people in general
1 ceDrowRanger 2018-02-27
Everyone who isn't acting like a feminist ends up sounding unpleasant to people these days,
1 69SRDP69 2018-02-27
No, mostly just you guys
1 KelpFriess 2018-02-27
Do looks only matter to you?
1 WhiteBlackPurple 2018-02-27
No, but I'm a man. We are far less picky in every department as well, in comparision to women.
1 Carkudo 2018-02-27
Given that you don't struggle with appearance and masculinity and live an easy life, what do you even know about the grand scheme of things?
1 69SRDP69 2018-02-27
I didn't get my girlfriend until 21
1 Carkudo 2018-02-27
Exactly my point. You face none of the struggles that incels face.
1 69SRDP69 2018-02-27
Lol, 21 is pretty late
1 Carkudo 2018-02-27
I don't really care what is and isn't "late" in some random dude's opinion. I get that this is supposed to be addressing my point somehow, but it isn't.
1 69SRDP69 2018-02-27
K
1 Carkudo 2018-02-27
Let's see. When my gay friend emigrated from Russia to Canada, he was facing:
1) Violence
2) Ridicule
3) A lack of any domestic legal recourse to push back against his harassers
4) A severely reduced choice of possible careers since in most fields being LGBT would've precluded him from career advancement beyond a certain low point.
An unattractive unmasculine man faces largely the same struggles. His lack of options for legal recourse may not be as complete, but on the other hand he is taxed more heavily. Additionally, an LGBT person has the option to hide their orientation and thus avoid the above mentioned issues. An incel cannot.
Discrimination is discrimination regardless of who the victim is. And it's despicable regardless of who the victim is. And your attempts to simultaneously both erase and justify the oppression of incels is just as immoral and despicable as someone else's attempts to do the same for other oppressed groups.
1 69SRDP69 2018-02-27
You do not face those same problems
1 Carkudo 2018-02-27
It's ironic how you're using the exact same rhetoric (i.e. flat out denial) that campaigners against LGBT rights use in Russia.
1 69SRDP69 2018-02-27
No
1 Carkudo 2018-02-27
Yeah, it is ironic. Maybe you just can't comprehend the irony.
1 69SRDP69 2018-02-27
It's not really
1 Carkudo 2018-02-27
You're too young and inexperienced to talk about "really", son.
1 69SRDP69 2018-02-27
Uhh, ok then đ
1 Carkudo 2018-02-27
Cry more bitch.
1 69SRDP69 2018-02-27
Is this how you compensate?
1 Carkudo 2018-02-27
Yes, it is. Since it's unrealistic to expect the IT hivemind to just leave this community alone, I have to bear with the frustration and compensate by rustling your jimmies. You make it so easy too, being that shallow and predictable.
1 69SRDP69 2018-02-27
I hate to break it to you, but my jimmies have never been more still
1 Carkudo 2018-02-27
We both know they aren't, boyo.
1 69SRDP69 2018-02-27
You hitting on me?
1 apx24 2018-02-27
He won't understand, it's pointless.
1 Incel9876 2018-02-27
No it isn't. Discrimination is good. We need more discrimination, not less.
"In human social affairs, discrimination is treatment or consideration of, or making a distinction in favor of or against, a person based on the group, class, or category to which the person is perceived to belong rather than on individual attributes."
For instance, "sexism," if a society correctly properly discriminates against women and for men, then Inceldom all but vanishes, along with a host of other social ills (divorce, endless cycle of poverty, crime, etc).
God bless Russia and Vladimir Putin.
1 Carkudo 2018-02-27
You need to go to a dick restaurant, talk to a dick waiter, get him to relay your order to a dick chef and eat a plate of dicks.
1 Incel9876 2018-02-27
Can't refute another person's logic, and filled with impotent rage? Don't despair, there's always: Ad Hominem!
1 PartyPoisoned21 2018-02-27
No one has murdered you for being who you are. No one has put you into camps for being what you are.
1 Gravel_Roads 2018-02-27
Lol itâs not an order of importance, dude, itâs mostly just the list as it develops. Trans people probably objectively have it worst, considering many of them arenât able to get above a 3-4, the men are generally under 5â5 and their dicks are roughly an inch and a half... And trans women got it even worse, theyâre are so far down the totem pole even incels feel safe bullying them.
1 WhiteBlackPurple 2018-02-27
Men lead much harder lives than women, they deserve to be named first. IGBTL should be the new acronym.
1 Gravel_Roads 2018-02-27
lol guess everyone assumes their problems are the most important problems
1 WhiteBlackPurple 2018-02-27
What problems do women have in modern society? The amount of privileges they have is staggering. If you are a woman thinking about getting a child and are not actively aborting all male foetuses you are a sadist by bringing more suffering into the world.
1 Gravel_Roads 2018-02-27
no one is even talking about women, put your guns down
1 inuyoshi2 2018-02-27
Our color is grey
1 zielony4 2018-02-27
No hot pink? :'(
1 GeneticFatalist 2018-02-27
No, it's black because of the blackpill
1 AbuIncelAlAustrali 2018-02-27
and blackops2cel
1 kj107 2018-02-27
Incels are more oppressed than all those put together. Nobody fights for us.
1 KnowNothingKnowsAll 2018-02-27
Because it's impossible to stop you from punching yourself in the face.
1 MirorBCipher 2018-02-27
So oppressed that youâre being thrown off buildings in Middle East? Youâre not oppressed, youâre a lazy fuck who would rather blame women for your failures than make yourself a better person.
1 ceDrowRanger 2018-02-27
If they LGBT fags are so concerned with their treatment i the middle east they should bitch about that instead of trying to ruin western society.
1 MirorBCipher 2018-02-27
Holy shit all you do is post on Reddit. Literally fucking hang yourself.
1 ceDrowRanger 2018-02-27
I mean it isn't like I have anything better to do than point out how hypocritical most people are, for example I only post about as often as you if not for people replying to me, you're an overly trans-sympathizing, white hating racist piece of shit based on a quick look at your post history. People like you are the ones to deserve to be hanged, publicly.
1 MirorBCipher 2018-02-27
Lmao you pudgy fucks canât even get out of your parents house to find a girlfriend. Nothing you ever say or do will ever matter to anyone. â¤ď¸â¤ď¸đ
1 ceDrowRanger 2018-02-27
Right, because all we have to do to find a girlfriend is leave the house and none of us actually actually are in shape...
1 MirorBCipher 2018-02-27
Thatâs literally it! Fuckin read some books! Listen to a few albums! Learn to talk to people! Itâs that easy.
1 ceDrowRanger 2018-02-27
You honestly believe that don't you? how exactly would we learn to talk to people if they want nothing to do with us?
1 MirorBCipher 2018-02-27
I honestly believe it because I did it. Itâs not that people donât want anything to do with you itâs that you go into your everyday life hating yourself and assuming they donât. Honestly though if you really think that you should see a therapist, get some help.
1 ceDrowRanger 2018-02-27
I don't hate myself I hate everyone else, I personally think I am better than just about everyone else and no I'm not narcissistic, I know other people hate me though.
1 Nadare3 2018-02-27
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Psychological_projection
1 WikiTextBot 2018-02-27
Psychological projection
Psychological projection is a theory in psychology in which humans defend themselves against their own unconscious impulses or qualities (both positive and negative) by denying their existence in themselves while attributing them to others. For example, a person who is habitually intolerant may constantly accuse other people of being intolerant. It incorporates blame shifting.
According to some research, the projection of one's unconscious qualities onto others is a common process in everyday life.
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1 ceDrowRanger 2018-02-27
Doesn't sound like me, I fully own up to the things that go against my morals, other people are definitely worse for than me in terms of doing things I look down on people for especially in regards to relationships. I kinda have an "well it's okay if I do it just not anyone else" type personality as well so that helps with not projecting.
1 IUsedAFarcaster 2018-02-27
People don't want anything to do with you because you all hate women and blame others for your own shortcomings, both mentally and physically. Yes, there are shallow people who will snub you just because you're not conventionally attractive but by basing all of your feelings for the world (and women) off of those people you ruin any chance for good hearted people to try to socialize with you because you've blackened your own heart towards everything. Incels tend to live inside of their own often close-minded bubbles of hatred, all surrounded by a perpetual confirmation-bias. People don't dislike incels for being lonely and being virgins, people dislike incels because so many of them are angry, sexist, rude, and all around not the type of people they want to be around.
1 ceDrowRanger 2018-02-27
Are we supposed to take the blame for being short and ugly?
From my experience that's been most women, what else is there to do when you have struggle to even find women let alone ones who don't judge too harsh based on looks.
1 SickMuseArrow 2018-02-27
Lmao ruin what? Do you feel threatened by people asking you not to be homophobic? + maybe you should try living there to see how easy it is to come out when you immediately get executed. You're a first world keyboard warrior.
1 ceDrowRanger 2018-02-27
Considering I'm dealing with people demanding me to abandon my beliefs and force their sexuality down my throat and expect me to deal with "gender identity" BS yeah I do feel a bit threatened by it. I mean it's not like they are forced to come out and in most first world countries they don't get immediately executed. You're damn right I'm from a first world country and I'd prefer to keep it as that way.
1 SickMuseArrow 2018-02-27
No one is forcing anything down your throat, gays don't want to fuck you I swear. I don't know how to explain to you that you should care about other human beings though, straight or not.
1 ceDrowRanger 2018-02-27
I can't tell if you genuinely thought that what I said was referring to being afraid of being raped by a gay or having gays hounding me for sex(that said I've had to deal with them hitting on me too many times for a straight guy showing no large signs of homosexuality... Trans make me second guess every woman I see so that is something that annoys me and affects me constantly.) But anyway I more meant the way they seemed to have trained so many people into their attack dogs to go after anyone who dares be against them for any reason or any perceived thing that seems like it goes against them.
I have cared about people of many sexuality, the of the two friends I talk to most one is a bisexual woman and the other is ftm I care about them because they've proven to be nice and likable people. That doesn't mean I approve of their choices though and I let them know that once I feel like I know them well enough and like the friendship will last because I feel bad keeping something like that from them. I'm polite about it and explain my view on things and that I value them as friends and as people most of them have been cool about it with only one exception having gone completely crazy over the smallest thing I mentioned her close friend/future boyfriend(and then ex) was with me at the time, is also bi and agreed that she is just a bit crazy and that I presented a respectable enough opinion in a non-offensive way.
1 SickMuseArrow 2018-02-27
"That doesn't mean I approve of their choices though" You're not respecting them. Sexual orientation and gender dysphoria are not a choice.
1 ceDrowRanger 2018-02-27
First off you said care not respect, personally I don't respect that aspect of them, but that doesn't mean I don't care about them as people. Secondly you're being overly picky about words, what is the politically correct term then? One of the main conversations I was thinking of while writing that was one about I had was about the trans friend's choice to actually go through with the transition because I was worried it might just be a phase given his age and how a seemingly hardcore "trans-woman" I knew had recently thought "you know what? I'll just accept that I'm a dude" after literal years.
1 fatchancebud 2018-02-27
do you live in the middle east? no
Did Jeff Sessions recently send out a high profile lawyer to settle a trans murder case in favor of a trans person?
yes
Does anyone help incels?
Almost no one.
1 MirorBCipher 2018-02-27
Oh Iâm sorry you poor fat fuck :c. When was the last time someone was murdered for being a loser virgin?
1 GeneticFatalist 2018-02-27
I like how "gay" is a smaller line than "lesbian" and the others, shows how men are truly considered trash. What a coincidence.
1 justforlulzandkeks 2018-02-27
why is gay separated from lesbian anyways? why the need for a distinction?
1 cryomatik 2018-02-27
I guess because one involves only guys and one only girls. They could have used homosexual, but then it becomes a much longer word than the others and since the design seems to follow the length of the words, it would have been prominent and annoying tbh.
1 cryomatik 2018-02-27
Maybe because it's a smaller word? It definitely just looks like they designed it around the length of each words
1 GeneticFatalist 2018-02-27
It was half jokingly, but I get that people thought I was serious
1 cryomatik 2018-02-27
It's a good idea on Reddit to use /s, we're all dumb when it comes to written sarcasm
1 GeneticFatalist 2018-02-27
Eh, if someone gets upset by a comment they're not sound anyway
1 Carkudo 2018-02-27
Why would you even want to beat them?
1 AndySambergsPants 2018-02-27
Because we're cooler.
1 Sniveling_Cur 2018-02-27
Unofortunately it won't work. All these movements only took off because they framed their plight in the context of women. If you want to have any societal change at all, you need to frame your problem in the context of women. It's not "how does it affect people negatively?", it's "how does it affect WOMEN negatively?"
That's how gynocentric societes, like ours, work.
And, I hope I don't need to explain this, you can't frame incel issues as women's issues.
1 PhucCheet 2018-02-27
This is r/braincels, not brain cells. This sub ain't for thinkin
1 masternater10 2018-02-27
Lol this is why you are an /r/incel
1 onlyonebread 2018-02-27
lmfao do you actually think that Rosa Parks was the impetus to the civil rights movement
1 cws1981 2018-02-27
Isnt incel like a type of closeted homosexual?
1 mewtwokillsarceus 2018-02-27
We will have a black flag of that will destroy all other flags.
1 Gravel_Roads 2018-02-27
Iâm not sure you guys will have a lot of fun, us queer folk are pretty big on mutually respectful dialogue. Itâs pretty much why weâre able to put up with each other when weâre all so different.
1 iQ9k 2018-02-27
So.. are you saying that incels aren't mutually respectful?
1 cryomatik 2018-02-27
I mean, we do often see some of you guys encouraging depressed incels to kill themselves, that's hardly respectful
1 iQ9k 2018-02-27
Explain why that is disrespectful
1 cryomatik 2018-02-27
Explain how it's not disrespectful to tell someone to end their life?
1 iQ9k 2018-02-27
Because they believe it's what's best for turn
1 r4risbullshit 2018-02-27
There was a thread literally yesterday about an incel user leaving to take a break and most of the comments were supportive.
1 cryomatik 2018-02-27
Dw I know there is a lot of good guys in the incel community, the bad apples a few but like any bad apples they are a bit more in your face than the others. It's just that on r/incels before it got deleted I remember seeing often 'kill yourself there's no future for us incels anyway' in the comments or as post advocating suicide as an actual solution. It was something regular during the week. It's WAY less often on r/braincel which I am so happy of, but have you seen incel.me? (or incels.me can't remember rn) It's ridden with verbal violence against others and each others. And it's supposed to be the new sanctuary for incels so it's hard to not associate that plethora of negative comments to the incel community.
I'm glad that things are starting to change and that it's becoming more and more a real support group, but stereotypes about a group normally find source in the truth about them, and incels is no different.
1 Gravel_Roads 2018-02-27
There are individuals who are extremely supportive and respectful. Incels run the gamut between polite/respectful and full on sociopath, it is true. Your culture of disrespect towards women, however, wouldnât really fly in most queer communities- We tended to form in response to ugly persecution, and in doing so, we tend to be extremely anti-bullying.
â And before you point out that incels are also bullied, yes. I genuinely believe that they are. Itâs wrong, and I think society could benefit from taking a knee thinking about why this is. Kids are raised to assign value to looks instead of health, and thatâs a major problem that isnât going to get better by NOT talking about it. ....The difference is that thereâs a faction of incels that feel this entitled them to them hate an entire demographic. They call women ugly names, make disgusting comments about their genitalia, plot elaborate revenge fantasies that involve slavery and rape...
And yo, itâs your own board. Youâre free to post and encourage whatever behavior you want, Iâm opposed to thought policing, and understand Iâm just a visitor here. Just saying that anyone that doesnât distance themselves loudly from these sorts of behaviors arenât going to find themselves welcomed under the rainbow flag.
Which sucks cuz theyâd find good company there if they stopped playing the cheap game of Rolling Shit Downhill. Many queer folk also struggle with the crippling loneliness of not finding a partner that wants them. Many of us are rejected by society and called cruel names and bullied for their looks. They suffer intense anxiety and face limited job prospects because of who they are and what they look like. As a community, we tend to organize and ban together in each city, where we share tips for housing and job openings and organize social times where we can spend time with other people that we can feel safe just being ourselves around.
But all genders are treating equally in these societies, so the âroastie flapsâ talk and the Chad Worship(Envy?), calling fat women âland whalesâ like... these behaviors would be considered pretty abhorrent in the greater queer community. Which sucks.
I mean. I know youâre pretty much just trolling, but the very fact that youâre asking questions pretty much compels me to give you the benefit of the doubt. Iâd love to be proven wrong and have a good discussion tho.
1 The_Almighty_Demoham 2018-02-27
Time for that shower and haircut.
1 zielony4 2018-02-27
No hot pink? :'(
1 GeneticFatalist 2018-02-27
No, it's black because of the blackpill
1 KnowNothingKnowsAll 2018-02-27
Because it's impossible to stop you from punching yourself in the face.
1 MirorBCipher 2018-02-27
So oppressed that youâre being thrown off buildings in Middle East? Youâre not oppressed, youâre a lazy fuck who would rather blame women for your failures than make yourself a better person.
1 WhiteBlackPurple 2018-02-27
What problems do women have in modern society? The amount of privileges they have is staggering. If you are a woman thinking about getting a child and are not actively aborting all male foetuses you are a sadist by bringing more suffering into the world.