What hurts the most is that there are good girls around, they just want nothing to do with us.
42 2018-02-23 by Short_Incel_Throw
It's cope to believe that Stacy has nothing of value other than her vagina.
Just because a woman is hot doesn't mean she can't be accomplished. Many goodlooking women are also talented in a way, or they have a STEM degree that earns them good money, while being a semi-athlete and a volunteer at a daycare.
Some can also be genuinely nice and kind towards those they value. They can also be very loyal towards their boyfriend.
You will never get to experience that sort of kindness because you are literally beneath her, lookswise and skillswise.
Good girls are out there, they just don't want us.
108 comments
21 ResentfulSoul 2018-02-23
Not even bad girls want us how would the good ones do?
15 Li_alvart 2018-02-23
Who the fuck would want someone that calls people “roasties” “Stacies” “normies” and assumes every girl is after “chad’s” cock?
14 gufestus2 2018-02-23
Not all of us call girls that.
14 Sniveling_Cur 2018-02-23
Yet the guys who refer to their gfs as "my bitch" have no problem.
Hmmmmmmmm
0 PM_ME_UR_FIRST_NUDE 2018-02-23
Those guys make up a small percentage of guys and they don't end up with the "good girls" either. Referring to women as "bitches" is something that's been heavily criticized, so it's not like people don't have a problem with it.
This stereotypical bad boy lives in your head, entertainment media, and high school. A few immature douchebags stay the same as adults, but they ain't getting women with self respect, either. They're getting women just as ratchet as they are.
2 generic_lolita 2018-02-23
and we're getting none despite treating them with respect
0 PM_ME_UR_FIRST_NUDE 2018-02-23
Respect?! Hahahahahahha
1 ceDrowRanger 2018-02-23
You think we HAVEN'T tried respecting them? You don't think with how common that advice is and how desperate we are we wouldn't have at least given it a shot? It just leads to getting used.
8 daskettenkrad 2018-02-23
"normie" and "Stacy" aren't insults and these words aren't usually used in the meatspace.
0 PM_ME_UR_FIRST_NUDE 2018-02-23
Lol no one wants to be known as a "Stacy" as it's used here. Few people can relate to someone who refers to life as "meatspace," either.
2 daskettenkrad 2018-02-23
https://imgur.com/gallery/a4uo7WF
5 MaleFAer 2018-02-23
All females want this as long as the guy is hot enough.
-1 Li_alvart 2018-02-23
Ah thanks for telling me what I want. I guess my “femoid “ brain doesn’t know what it want so I need an incel, expert in femoids despite not being able to get one, to make it clear for me!
1 MaleFAer 2018-02-23
No problem, after all you are just a female.
1 Li_alvart 2018-02-23
Must be that chad’s DNA that fused with my brain and is making me dumb.
1 MaleFAer 2018-02-23
As I said, you are just a female.
4 r4risbullshit 2018-02-23
Ask that to the people with relationships in subreddits like drama and dankmemes. All of these terms are not incel exclusive so this stupid belief that incel users unironically use these terms IRL needs to fucking cease.
2 ResentfulSoul 2018-02-23
I guess honesty isnt appreciated
2 IncelSlayerZero 2018-02-23
Yeah because that's part of my game IRL. Don't be naive, I'm far from a virgin.
1 Short_Incel_Throw 2018-02-23
That's not the reason.
We don't go around calling women this in real life. Many of us do have girl friends and such.
The reason women don't want us is because we are sexually unattractive.
1 ScrewWomyn 2018-02-23
Normie has been used as a slang for layperson for a very long time.
13 anonymousvirgin88 2018-02-23
Good. The good females are able to get the top picks of men. This is in accordance with nature and helps to create better offspring. Sadly we incels are in the bottom 66% of to have ever existed that died without ever procreating.
1 ttthrowaway07649243 2018-02-23
There's nothing to guarantee they actually fuck "top" men, but even if they do, I don't know why I should care that they "create better offspring."
7 AnnoyingSeaAnt 2018-02-23
I think I don't want good girls being with super active redditors. Let the bottom tier males die out, maybe the next generation will be more Chad.
10 Short_Incel_Throw 2018-02-23
Honestly yeah. Us reproducing is doing a disservice to humanity.
0 TordYvel 2018-02-23
What do you think will happen after that? I can tell you what: The 3/10 will become the new 1/10. No difference. Also, you getting kids or not will have 0 impact to humanity. Regardless of what you do, there will still be 500 million ugly kids.
Charles Darwin quote:
The aid which we feel impelled to give to the helpless is mainly an incidental result of the instinct of sympathy, which was originally acquired as part of the social instincts, but subsequently rendered, in the manner previously indicated, more tender and more widely diffused. Nor could we check our sympathy, if so urged by hard reason, without deterioration in the noblest part of our nature. The surgeon may harden himself whilst performing an operation, for he knows that he is acting for the good of his patient; but if we were intentionally to neglect the weak and helpless, it could only be for a contingent benefit, with a certain and great present evil. Hence we must bear without complaining the undoubtedly bad effects of the weak surviving and propagating their kind; but there appears to be at least one check in steady action, namely the weaker and inferior members of society not marrying so freely as the sound; and this check might be indefinitely increased, though this is more to be hoped for than expected, by the weak in body or mind refraining from marriage.”
If you want to be a loser, go ahead. If you don't want to be, don't be one.
1 suspension_collector 2018-02-23
We don't need more Chad. We need more high iq.
-1 AnnoyingSeaAnt 2018-02-23
The Chinese will do that via Crisp9. The Western World is slowly dying anyway.
-1 NoTimeForCucks 2018-02-23
hope you have cancer
1 AnnoyingSeaAnt 2018-02-23
I'm already cancer.
6 pangeacel 2018-02-23
I have a pet theory that everyone who is single past a certain age (maybe late 20s/early 30s?) is single for good reason (I include myself in this list). The high quality, marriageable people pair off early, and the rest of us are left to just slowly destroy each other
1 Chad-Strange-Tamer 2018-02-23
What about still being single, as in not in a commited relationship, but still sexually active and casually dating until they settle down by early 30s? I find it hard to believe the situation is 'pair up early or die alone'.
2 FuckCuckedWorld 2018-02-23
Good girls want chad
0 BlackpilledAndBased 2018-02-23
It's true. They all try at least one casual sex situation before realizing it's probably not the best thing for them, when they then settle for a nicer guy.
1 ceDrowRanger 2018-02-23
Except they won't go for a nice guy either... They will go for someone who treats them like shit regardless rather than the one going through the effort to go out of his way to be nice to her.
0 patheticsubhuman 2018-02-23
All women want Chad
2 CptErection23 2018-02-23
I’m too emotionally stunted. Even if a good girl wanted to be with me, I would 1. Not realize it 2. Not believe it 3. Not know what to do
1 WaylanderTS 2018-02-23
Do you have friends?
1 CptErection23 2018-02-23
Yes
1 WaylanderTS 2018-02-23
This is (partially) what they are for. They're often the best judge of when you're gonna say or do something stupid.
1 ttthrowaway07649243 2018-02-23
I agree, except "beneath" is subjective. There is no "beneath" other than she deciding she doesn't want you. There is nothing inherent in the world to say one thing is above and another beneath.
1 SickMuseArrow 2018-02-23
This post says nothing about ugly girls though, maybe that's where you should try. We're single too, you know.
3 taftbrodda 2018-02-23
This is what we look like. You're single because you wouldn't date ugly guys either.
Edit: lol just saw that you find 99% of guys ugly. No sympathy
2 SickMuseArrow 2018-02-23
Believe it or not, but ugly guys are incredibly picky IRL and would rather wait for a hypothetic hot girl instead of wanting us.
0 taftbrodda 2018-02-23
Well, you don't want them (and apparently "them" is almost all men), so why do you care?
1 SickMuseArrow 2018-02-23
Just because I find most men ugly doesn't mean I'm lesbian instead of bisexuals. Looks go away and aren't everything.
2 taftbrodda 2018-02-23
Why would you date an ugly guy if you're bisexual? Just date a woman
1 SickMuseArrow 2018-02-23
Because I can't choose who I will date based on looks if I ever date someone, can't be picky when you're ugly
1 taftbrodda 2018-02-23
Well, I apologize for making assumptions about you. Good luck
1 foreignincel3 2018-02-23
they rejected me too you know , pm me and we will see
1 MaleFAer 2018-02-23
Its an important thing to realise: All females want Chad.
The cute nerdy girl who has the same interests as you, seems awkward and talks with you about your favourite anime? She wants Chad, not you. She doesn't care about your hobbies, or interests or that you have things in common. She wants a nerdy guy: A Chad with glasses.
1 ChadOps420cel 2018-02-23
Femoid hypergamy will ensure nothing changes. It WILL get worse.
0 retiredho 2018-02-23
good girl stacies might be outta reach but good girl bertha is right around the corner in r/theoffspring waiting for her prince charming.. just sayin
0 WotEven11 2018-02-23
Just gunna say, nobody is beneath anybody.
6 daskettenkrad 2018-02-23
Well, that's not entirely true.
-2 WotEven11 2018-02-23
But not entirely false
-2 datguy729 2018-02-23
Why the fuck would any girl want you if you can't do anything, and have no skills? The good news is you can change that.
9 Short_Incel_Throw 2018-02-23
True, but why would a girl choose a talented ugly guy versus a talented attractive guy?
-1 SickMuseArrow 2018-02-23
Because looks are subjective. I really believe my friends' boyfriends are ugly as hell whereas they assure me they look fine. Love makes your eyes die.
-2 datguy729 2018-02-23
Because not every girl gets the talented attractive guy and will instead go for the talented unattractive guy. The unattractive unskilled guy will remain in his room and have no one. Compromise is a part of life.
2 DestroyingIdioticPpl 2018-02-23
How you can, with a straight face, type "skills" in the context of getting girls, is beyond me.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SSQcctPNndg
1 datguy729 2018-02-23
An ugly guy with skills with have a higher chance of getting laid than an ugly guy with no skills. That's common sense.
Also Napoleon ends up getting a hot babe, dafaq you trying to say?
1 DestroyingIdioticPpl 2018-02-23
No, he will have the same chance: 0.
0 datguy729 2018-02-23
No nothing can be 0, nothing is impossible brah. As long as you conceive and believe you can achieve. You're only saying that because you have low self confidence because you still haven't achieved anything meaningfull. Let's say your chances of getting layed is .01%. At your current state, You can increase your chances by 1percent maybe less since you're a negative person. You have to gain the courage to slay the dragon in your closet.
2 DestroyingIdioticPpl 2018-02-23
Build a time machine, then.
Getting laid is about looks. The end.
1 datguy729 2018-02-23
Lol then why do ugly famous people get laid? It's also about not being a useless loser.
1 patheticsubhuman 2018-02-23
Cope. Women would date a dumb ex con with no job prospects or skills simply because he's good looking.
1 datguy729 2018-02-23
I'm not arguing that, I'm saying an ugly dude with skills will have a higher chance of getting laid than an ugly dude with no skills That's common sense, I thought you people have high iq?
-6 lazyanhedoniac 2018-02-23
Same could be said about the Nazis
5 TheVertex_ 2018-02-23
You're being downvoted, but this is true. Loyalty and kindness towards those you happen to value (in this case Chad), but contempt for all others, is certainly not the hallmark of a good human being.
2 daskettenkrad 2018-02-23
What is "goodness" that you speak of?
1 PM_ME_UR_FAV_QUOTE_ 2018-02-23
you make a good point
-6 zielony4 2018-02-23
They aren't good people if they reject us for things we cannot change.
12 Short_Incel_Throw 2018-02-23
Not true. They are good people, they don't have to be sexually attracted to us. If anything we're at fault for not being sexually attractive. We're the ones that should be euthanized.
1 incel801 2018-02-23
Abortions are legal but euthanasia is not..makes no sense.
I want to be put down
-13 mens-libthrowaway 2018-02-23
yes they do
7 WotEven11 2018-02-23
Typical incel
2 gog32 2018-02-23
I mean, can you blame them? I don't think I could stand a women with my own personality or other things mine.
-9 Brazierlord 2018-02-23
I don't want a good girl. They are normies. I want a edgy punk rock virgin gf
14 Short_Incel_Throw 2018-02-23
>Punk rock girl
>Virgin
Choose one.
2 SickMuseArrow 2018-02-23
That's basically what I am, but I'm not interested for one reason : why the hell do you want a virgin girlfriend? We're boring and scared. Is it a weird fetish?
2 Short_Incel_Throw 2018-02-23
We are virgins ourselves so it would be like having something in common.
I'd preder a non virgin girl who loves me enough to slowly guide me out if my inexperience while not judging me for it. But that won't happen either.
1 Risikabel 2018-02-23
Why? That's exactly what happened with my boyfriend and I when he was 21. We may have gotten lucky in our situation but I refuse to believe we are the sole couple who have ever experienced this.
He technically fit the categorization of an incel before we got together, but he's been amazing to me and has never spewed any hateful shit towards me like I see here.
1 ceDrowRanger 2018-02-23
It's more about considering all women who aren't virgins to be sluts who just want sex, for me at least it isn't a sexual thing at all and I'd actually respect her virginity. It also means if one of us were to have sex she wouldn't be judging us as much for our inexperience.
1 SickMuseArrow 2018-02-23
After years of masturbation? Nah, we know how to be satisfied systematically. If anything, we will judge a lot more if we only know what's good.
1 ceDrowRanger 2018-02-23
And if masturbation is better than sex and of course much easier why do you even try for sex?
1 SickMuseArrow 2018-02-23
Because my hand doesn't look at the future with me and share sadness and joy, my hand isn't alive. But I agree that I'm looking for someone for everything except better sex, it won't be better.
1 ceDrowRanger 2018-02-23
Yet somehow it still seems like all most girls try dating for is for sex... I specifically asked why women bother having sex if masturbation is just so much better, don't get me wrong I completely understand where you're coming from with with wanting someone for companionship, that's kinda my mentality except I just want to have sex once so I can finally just get that disappointment over with and not have my loneliness constantly bothering me. Just wondering, how would you feel about a relationship with very little to no sex?
1 SickMuseArrow 2018-02-23
I would be extremely happy, since no one has ever loved me back. It would be way better than being single and getting rejected, obviously.
1 ceDrowRanger 2018-02-23
So have you been in a relationship or not? you speak like you've had sex plenty of times but never actually had anyone who loves you? Have you ever considered maybe you've been going after the wrong guys(or girls in which case... understandable)? The way you say "It would be way better than being single and getting rejected, obviously" makes it sound like it's something you'd just be settling for despite you saying that masturbation is just hands down better, but the way you say you'd be extremely happy about it makes it seem like you'd prefer it to be in a sexless relationship or one with little sex.
I don't mean to offend if you aren't but you're coming off as too relatable, likable, and ideal for you to not be trying to doxx us... If you aren't feel free to take that as a complement
1 SickMuseArrow 2018-02-23
"you speak like you've had sex plenty of times" oh no, the knowledge about how bad sex can be with a man comes from my friends, I'm a virgin. I think I seem honest enough that people start telling me about their weird personal secrets, TMI about porn preferences and boyfriends. It's funny but sad at the same time, they should tell their boyfriends that it could be better...
1 ceDrowRanger 2018-02-23
Sorry if most of our posts seem overly bitter, understand that most of us aren't referring to women like you claim to be
Ahh, in that case my sympathy goes to you, don't get scared off just because a guy is a virgin and will be terrible to have sex with, go for someone who would love you even if the sex will be terrible, save yourself for one who actually cares about you and even then don't be too eager, if you're telling the truth girls like you are hard to find.
(don't other bother reading and don't want an incel's relationship and sex advice) If you get into a relationship and you are worried the sex would be terrible maybe just offer to masturbate together, you would still have an intimate experience where the two of you are attracted by each other, share intimacy, and be more pleasured rather than having awkward sex, and wouldn't lose your virginity which is something valued in women by many men. Eventually once you were more keen on the idea of having sex with him the two of you could sit down and explain what they think makes masturbation pleasurable so the other one could try to emulate it during sex and it would be a good time to discuss foreplay.
Kinda sorry to hear about people being overly open with you about that, it can be awkward in a lot of cases especially when you have no experience in the area.
So just wondering, are you looking for a relationship? You seem pretty sweet and honest, so I'm wondering, why do you think you've been single? I'd honestly be happy to give you some tips for what to do if you're actually being genuine.
1 SickMuseArrow 2018-02-23
I'm single because I'm disfigured by an illness and autistic, it's not the greatest combo, but at least I'm having an interesting life with science, music and writing. I'm not bitter about it, just sad that I had to look ugly instead of having emotional fun. Too bad
1 ceDrowRanger 2018-02-23
I'm not saying it isn't bad, but at least your autism isn't so crippling to the point where don't have friends who are willing to open up to you or have conversations with people you've never met so you have a chance there. Even if you're disfigured you could just do what I've done and try to have online "relatioships", and never open up to the other person enough to let them see you, or you could even let them see you if it isn't a facial disfigurement. The first girl who showed interest in me was a really weird girl who was overly tall, as thin as a twig and her chest was slightly deformed but I didn't care because I couldn't even see it when she was chatting to me and using a camera. I also didn't have to care about what other people thought of her appearance as much.
1 SickMuseArrow 2018-02-23
Lol yeah, I could catfish some dude and pretend I look good online, but it's bad in my opinion. I want things to be true or not be at all.
1 ceDrowRanger 2018-02-23
You don't have to pretend to look good, you could just not mention your looks and act shy about it when asked.
1 SickMuseArrow 2018-02-23
For 60 years? Ahah nah, that's not in my plans. I'll manage.
1 ceDrowRanger 2018-02-23
Nah, most online relationships will die out quickly so it's pretty easy to manage it. It could take your mind off how lonely you are in real life.
1 SickMuseArrow 2018-02-23
I think I would feel even more depressed about it, I'd rather have more friends IRL!
1 ceDrowRanger 2018-02-23
Ehh, it's a decent option if you aren't able to get real life friends, just wondering and I don't mean to offend, but in what way are you deformed? Depending on what it is it could be possible for you to find someone desperate enough.
1 SickMuseArrow 2018-02-23
Lmao I don't want to marry someone out of pity, I wouldn't do that myself. My whole face skin is constantly red and falling like it's burned all the time, I look dirty but no shower can save my skin obviously. Same for my hair and the rest of my body, it itches and falls everywhere. Not very nice, the only category of people I could date are blind people but I save yet to meet any. That's still my hope though
-2 Brazierlord 2018-02-23
This is why I'm incel
7 69SRDP69 2018-02-23
Because you're a shallow dummy?
5 Brazierlord 2018-02-23
I'm a deep genius.
2 69SRDP69 2018-02-23
Doesn't seem like it
2 Brazierlord 2018-02-23
I'm misunderstood
2 69SRDP69 2018-02-23
I understand you
3 Brazierlord 2018-02-23
no
5 TheVertex_ 2018-02-23
You're being downvoted, but this is true. Loyalty and kindness towards those you happen to value (in this case Chad), but contempt for all others, is certainly not the hallmark of a good human being.
2 Brazierlord 2018-02-23
I'm misunderstood
3 Brazierlord 2018-02-23
no
-2 WotEven11 2018-02-23
But not entirely false
0 PM_ME_UR_FIRST_NUDE 2018-02-23
Respect?! Hahahahahahha
1 SickMuseArrow 2018-02-23
I think I would feel even more depressed about it, I'd rather have more friends IRL!