A unicorn? A 22 year old who marries a man in his 50s? This is suicide fuel for women. Show me one ugly women in her 50s who works as a cook who can marry a hot 22 year old Chad.
The fact that poor 50+ year old women have a hard time securing emotional and financial commitment from hot men in the early twenties is suicide fuel for you?
Like, you don't want to live in a world where hot Chads aren't getting married to poor women in their fifties?
You always twist stuff the dumbest way possible. The fact that a hot 22-year-old ends up with a poor 50+ year old is suicide fuel for ugly women, yes. Same as the reverse would be for men.
Don't be so hypocritical. Image if there was a website where ugly women celebrated unabashedly marrying Chads. The users of this sub would be the first to be outraged.
Image if there was a website where ugly women celebrated unabashedly marrying Chads. The users of this sub would be the first to be outraged.
Certainly, because it would be another reminder to them that they're out of the dating market whereas women, no matter what flaws they possess, are immune from that. Which is what makes your reaction so unreasonable - you're not out of the dating market, and neither are any other women. So the suicide fuel is not in the inability to experience romance and sex - it's in the inability to experience it with hot men. Which is what prompted my question - why is that something to kill yourself over?
Why would you take something so positive and turn it into something so negative? Stop trying to put others down to make yourself feel better. And talk yourself and women up because of your feelings of shame.
Familiarity is the great equalizer. They worked together. Incels who tell you it's all about looks are clueless. They truly just are inexperienced and don't understand. The more women know you over time the less looks matter, and they can become genuinely attracted to you based on other things. Of course if you're a creepy angry weirdo and have nothing going for you, then that will never happen, which is why a lot of incels never figure this out.
Honestly I have no idea but I’ll probably end up telling her, I was going to tell her tonight but I chickened out. She’s not religious either but said she wanted to take things slow as a snail due to things in her life she was going through and we’d only been seeing each other six months when I asked her to marry me. However we have known each other three years this March.
Yeah I think that’s the main thing that kept her interested in me. I think she’s very smart and talented and I trust her more than I do my own family but to be fair that’s not saying much. We pretty much are around each other all the time at work and she’s a homebody type these days but admitted she never used to be growing up.
And why would previous sexual experience matter in an established relationship? I know this might be an abstract question for someone that sees women as another species, but try.
Because your experiences have an effect on who you are? It’s baffling to me that people like you think someone’s sexual history isn’t an indicator of the type of person someone is.
And "who you are" is clearly a person this guys wife wants to be with, so him having been a virgin before will have 0% negative consequences if he tells her. Probably more like the opposite. You should also read up on what a straw man is before you try using it in a discussion.
If she asks repeatedly point blank about sexual history, tell her as little as possible ("it's been a long time" or "there's been no one else"). There's no reason to bring it up though.
When she asked me before about other girlfriends or if I’d been married all I can do was tell her I have been alone so long that I couldn’t remember, and she’d laugh. She never pressed the issue or seemed to care very much. So unless she brings it up I’m not sure it’ll be that important, and it’s been years since it was mentioned - she often says “there’s no future in the past” so that makes me feel a lot mor comfortable.
It's never good advice to tell someone to lie. If she married him she deserves the truth about him. The entire truth. If he's unwilling to be vulnerable with her, then he doesn't deserve her. As she doesn't deserve to be with someone who is going to active withhold relevant personal information. It's a recipe for a shit sandwich of a relationship. Source: have had many relationships, deep as well as superficial, none as rewarding as the relationships in which I was my true honest self.
So what, in a relationship she needs to know about your every experience and you can't have any privacy? IF you could merge brains so she sees all your memories she'd be entitled to it?
Being able to be completely open about your past with your partner is so freeing, it provides thousands of hours of conversation. If two people really love each other, then even minuscule details about one's own life before getting together will often be fascinating. When I was still with my wife, it felt like all of those memories were just sitting there waiting to be unearthed, begging to be. Planning to spend the rest of one's lives together is one thing, but all of those wasted years unshared? They can't just be forgotten about.
Normies will never know that. Normies will never know what it's like to not have to step around a minefield of breaking that sanctity by avoiding talking about how you totally pumped and dumped Stacy in the girl's bathroom between classes or got drunk and got triple penetrated by a Chadtrio at Chang's house party.
No. In a relationship you're supposed to have trust. And if you're keeping something from her purposely, it's obvious you don't trust her with that information. Which means she absolutely should NOT trust you. That much is demonstrable. You're not deserving of trust when you purposely engage in subterfuge.
There are tons of things I would never want to share with a hypothetical girlfriend, but I don't see in what way would that mean that I would betray her trust..
Absolute bullshit. We all have secrets and even if I did get a girl I wouldn't love her any less if she didn't want to share a part of her past with me. As long as the love and trust is there it shouldn't even matter. I only care about the here and now and look forward to the future not the past. And I definitely wouldn't marry her if she didn't feel the same.
Source: you've had a lot of relationships end, thus you are the expert in whether honesty makes a marriage last?
Couples married many years disagree. They'll say you need honesty about important things (values, goals, health, finances) and activities affecting your current life together, but you don't need to share every little detail past and present. Some mystery is good. Most couples tell white lies to keep the peace.
If she asks repeatedly point blank about sexual history, tell her as little as possible ("it's been a long time" or "there's been no one else"). There's no reason to bring it up though.
Every sexual/romantic relationship that I've ever been in has ended, aside from my current one. That's how relationships go. I'm ok with that.
Of course you don't need to share every little detail. But if you've got a fucked up personality because you were chaste (not celibate) for 5 decades, yeah, your S/O should have access to that information.
My point is not that you're some failure. You do you. My point is you don't have experience in making marriages last and so your perspective on what would help OP is irrelevant.
These days many people who have dated a lot give unsolicited LTR advice, even though they have nothing to base it on because they lack LTR experience themselves. You have experience with dating and the early stages. You don't have experience in lasting relationships. Studies show that if you interview couples together 5-10 years (many of whom split later) vs couples together 30 years, you get very different answers about what is needed to make a relationship work. Unless you've been married at least 20 years, we're all rookies here. Let OP do what is right for him.
Why would that happen? This man is happy and sharing his happiness with Reddit, why would anyone try to bring him down?
You're all too focused on hate and negativity..
It makes me pretty upset and angry to see an older man dating a young woman; you've taken a woman who would've dated young Chad. Chad now needs to reach lower down the hierarchy and take a Becky, who would have dated a normie, who himself is now dating a 4/10. That 4/10 female would have dated an incel, you've plucked a relationship from his hands with your selfishness. Whatever, you were incel, I can't get too upset.
Her eyes are the purest blue I’ve ever seen, she’s gorgeous and kind, and cute. But she’s also got the kindest heart. Thank you! The garter pull made me so nervous I had practiced so many times in my head but in the end it went smoothly enough haha
ok seems real but the blackpilled truth is that she married you only because she knows you will die within 10-20 years and she will get all your stuff.
We just became friends through work and eventually she asked me to walk her home, from there we started hanging out after hours and eventually dating, which in itself was insane to me.
She had another man who was in his 30s who was interested in her, that she was sleeping with, as well as an ex in his mid twenties she’d just stopped seeing... now keep in mind she told me this when we were work buddies.
After we started “dating” (I thought we were friends because honestly the thought of dating anyone seemed off the table... but she saw us as dating) ...the 30something guy was a family friend of hers who tried to get very serious with her, and he ended up telling her I was a creep and ran me down and told her to stop hanging out with me, or seeing me, or he would stop speaking to her.
After that, she decided based on my handling of the situation and the fact I didn’t push her and was patient that she wanted to exclusively see me (as if I had anyone else interested... but the thought was flattering)
I felt like a failure and I hated myself, until eventually I just felt numb to it all... as a teenager I was really angry and I got into fights, I was hated by everyone in primary school and high school and I was bullied (beat, pissed on, had food thrown at me) the point where people learned really quick not to mess with me because I’d beat them. This earned me the nickname “creep” and I literally would have girls turn from me and RUN full speed if I tried to talk to them. I dropped out of school...
I tried to find happiness in other things but they always fell through and I contemplated suicide a lot as a twenty something, then as I got older I played games online and had a friend who told me not to bother killing myself because I’d die one day anyway so I started letting that be my motto, I didn’t care if I died or when, I’d just do what I could to pass my time. And gaming a lot was one of those things, working was one of those things.
It was an unbalanced loneliness for a long time, and I kind of fantasised about being with someone and what it would be like but that just made it worse, I got a dog and found that as lonely as I was I could make a little difference to my mother by pretending to be happy and I distracted myself with video games all of the time. eventually I kind of felt dead inside like a robot. 40s came and went, 50s came, and I realised shit; I’m gonna die alone. But at that point I wasn’t lonely anymore because I’d just given up entirely on anything but making people laugh. Strangers, people at work. And eventually I realised I liked cooking so I got a job doing that. And passing my time by wasting it on tv and games... I’d save and then blow my money on holiday alone. I now feel like I’ve stepped into someone else’s life.
Pretty much what the other guy said, I also didn’t shower very often and would wear the same clothing all the time and I’m very immature with my sense of humour, like laughing at my own jokes, and being very blunt to the point it shocked people or upset them. I had no need for tact because nobody extended me that so I didn’t extend it to them and it was a cycle of shit.........and I don’t think a lot of people liked me because of my looks most of all because I scare people, especially because of how I laugh and the faces that I make, and again the anger issues. I’ve worked on my hygiene at least but the poor humour is still there.
Just look at this man’s face. Its going to be entirely drained of colour when he hangs himself after that leech has drained his bank account and books it.
I've met a 50+ year old virgin in real life who actually asked ME for advice in getting girls (LMAO), had no clue what I was supposed to tell him but if you live long enough it looks like luck can strike
Haha well hey! Take it from me you never know. Lightning does strike! I’m an old man now, I certainly always envisioned myself keeling over from something and dying alone... and the only love I’d ever of gotten was out of a bioware game or something. Best of luck to you and thanks 🙏
Of course, if it doesn't work out with this girl, other women will see that you have been validated sexually by a presentable woman, and that will make it easier for you to find new girlfriends.
Because it's almost the next worst thing to being an incel, namely, having a fat and plain-looking woman go around and say that she's an ex-girlfriend of yours, if she's the only notch on your bedpost. It's much better to have reasonably attractive women who can say truthfully they are your ex-girlfriends. Other women will respect you more when they can see that you have had previous relationships with women who don't have the signs of male desperation written on their bodies.
Honestly I don’t have a right to judge anyone by their appearance because it’s not like they choose to be plain or ugly anymore than I choose to be a vile twisted beast of a man... but she’s very beautiful and I’m very lucky and either way I hope things continue to stay positive and I’m going to try my best to make it work. I just wanted an emotional connection more than a physical one as well. And it’s hard to find people who you can connect with, especially people who you can be yourself around.
Georgie, you sir have perhaps the best comment history I have ever come across while lurking. Hysterical, dark and drastically unappreciated as shown by your surprisingly low karma. Congrats on the wifey as well.
May I ask how? She's clearly pretty cute and looks to be twice as young as you. Do you now maybe feel that you clearly did have some appeal to women as a man and you've wasted many years not capitulizing on it?
Some girls have like a genetic preference that makes them appreciate the same type of man as their mum did. But this is kind of weird. I can't imagine her having a normal relation with both her parents. Still, when life offers you something good, you take it.
i looked through all the pics OP posted and now .. im kind of numb... but theres hope i guess.. ... because of the head proportions of OP compared to his wife... wife is a solid 6.5-7 and OP is a 2... and the comments make it seem like it could be genuine... could there be hope? is OP tall? cant tell by pic...
We both work at the same place and that is how we met. Otherwise we did see each other at the pub a few times, well i saw her there but never talked to her.
You are an average looking guy and you are not skinny. So remind us why you were an incel in the first place? I have seen tons of guys much uglier than you with better looking girlfriends. You are not skinny: being too skinny is the only cause of inceldom. I am MUCH better looking than you, but because I was skinny, a girl like the one you are posing with would NEVER give me a chance. As soon as I gained some weight I immediately got attention. But I am still an incel because I am having trouble meeting girls: I have tried for the past 6 months to meet girls but it just doesn't happen, met like 3/4 and none worked out, and online dating is 80/20 and I am not 8/10 so it doesn't work. How/where on earth did you meet this girl?
college students, 20 - 22. my only point is that girls are attracted to a range of body types, and being short or skinny in no way disqualifies you. obviously you still have to be attractive, but you don't have to be a Chad.
It is not because you were skinny, it must be your crap personality or some other character trait. Plenty of skinny guys manage to get chicks but whatever works for you buddy, if you want to comfort yourself with some bs lame excuse about women not liking skinny dudes them go for it.
Stop, you can get out of this before it is too late. A femoid of that age is obviously an inadequate partner. Why else would she be unmarried for so long? The only reason you have been is because females can marry whoever they like due to their attractive traits such as pheromones and their wide swaying hips. Id suggest you ditch her as soon as possible.
Trust me I wish it was bdd ... I’mnot that short but not that tall either and uglier than a half rotten corpse that’s been left to turn to jerky in the sun... it comes from within yourself though I think the way I carry myself changed when I stopped hating so much , good luck to you
Its either the money or something else. Never have I seen this combo without an ulterior motive involved. Id give it a year to three mac before she sucks him dry and is off to the next. Good luck, I hope im wrong :)
Well I don’t have money and really don’t have anything to offer, but I’m past the point of asking why because I’ve accepted I’ll never understand it either way.
I look like a homeless junkie who spent his youth doing meth and rolling around in the dirt wearing unwashed clothing... I was often told I looked like I had Down syndrome or was mildly brain damaged so honestly what you said sounds like a compliment at this point lol... I don’t know what she sees in me but I’ll never understand it
I was thinking this 50 year old fuck looks really young for his age. Then I realized it’s because he’s never had to deal with a woman
Now this moron gets some Welsh thug’s scraps and is gonna get brutally cheated on and cucked in the next year and he’s gonna age faster than Obama did after one term
I was thinking this 50 year old fuck looks really young for his age. Then I realized it’s because he’s never had to deal with a woman
Now this moron gets some Welsh thug’s scraps and is gonna get brutally cheated on and cucked in the next year and he’s gonna age faster than Obama did after one term
Whatever happens happens, but thank you for saying I loom young. I’ve had to deal with a lot of women in my life using me so at this point as an old man nothing can shock me anymore but I’m pretty confident now and I trust her with all that I am, even if it’s not a lot.
There’s a whole album I posted of us together, but yeah she’s beautiful enough to make it look like a picture of a cheaply made ogre pasted in with an unsuspecting girl ... I don’t blame you lol
Dude, I honestly want to be happy for you (despite the fact you're a part of the incel community), I really do. Everyone deserves happiness, and maybe you're one funny sonuvabitch in such a way that legit makes you appear more physically attractive. You seem to be a good tempered and good humored guy, from what I can see of your posts. However look at the harshness of the outline of your shoulder, and the blur where your face meets hers. Also, there is not a shadow on your face where there should be, if she was truly in front of you and the light was coming from where it appears to be in the picture. Can I at least ask to see the other album? Cuz honestly I'd be pumped to be proved wrong, haha.
Congratulations, this stranger wishes you all the best, and many years of happiness with your wife <3 Please cherish her and i hope she does the same :-)
Thank you so much. I honestly feel very fortunate to have met someone who was nice enough to treat me as an equal. All I want to do from here on out his work on being a better person, not just for her but for myself. I feel everyone is worthy of a baseline respect and I met someone who has the same view, and that could look past my ugly face and see the pain behind it, and she helped me to realise maybe I was more than just my pain. I’ve not met many people who I can say are kinder, and beautiful inside and out. But I know now they’re out there if we give people a chance.
Well for me at least as I can only talk from personal experience.. it took me years because I feel like I was conditioned both by myself and environmental factors to expect things if I saw other people getting them. I expected respect at work or school, and a common decency because that’s what movies make you think. But Reality is not so kind. That’s what normies don’t get.
I hated the world because the world hated me. Not subtly either, it was abuse. From my family, women. I didn’t understand why women “got away with so much” and I honestly felt a lot of my issues toward women due to my own mother and her views on men. I have a couple of sisters and being the only male I was always expected to clean up and do everything for the females in my life just because I was “stronger”. Even though I had horrible pain and medical issues I never got taken to a doctor or attention from anyone, especially women, but all my female family did...my own pain or medical conditions always got pushed aside for “women” who took advantage of me. and I grew up in an environment which made me feel like my anger was unacceptable yet it was OK when my female relatives did it.
I had a lot of females who friend zoned me ONLINE, but mostly women just wouldn’t talk to me, even in college I got accused of being creepy just when I would look at someone or smile. Women hated me, so Chads hated me more, to impress them. It was a lack of socialising in my youth that made it nearly impossible for me to even begin to understand how to work on the problem. Online friends / girls hated me without seeing my looks because I was a dick but didn’t want to change my behaviour. I wanted the world to just treat me like a normal person. But it never happened.
Even my friends made fun of me behind my back (friends I use loosely as people who talked to me without ignoring me completely) caught attacking me and accusing me of giving off a “homosexual vibe” just because of my humour or sense of dressing. This lead me to been reading lots of things that were pretty much from a one sided perspective that fueled the anger I felt. My male friends (online) were all in the same boat... people at work offered to buy me hookers, and when I said I wanted a connection I got made fun of more. I never would have met anyone if she hadn’t walked into my workplace because I never left the house other than to work because I was so scared. I got catfished online a few times ... and distant online people fed me things like “you have a great personality!” And that someone was gonna be very lucky one day and that type of comment made me angrier and angrier to the point where I ended up shutting myself off from every person that I knew until I was basically a shut in, even antisocial on games.
Because women treated me like a monster i started to feel like I shouldn’t bother being anything other than what they thought me to be because there’s no point trying to be nice only to be used or ghosted... after decades I spent getting me nothing and nowhere. So I just isolated myself and dissociated until finally I reached a point at nearly fifty that I needed to let go of my anger and stop blaming women and realise it’s less to do with gender as it is to do with shitty people. Most people are shitty. Everyone has their own ideology that supports a reason for them to continue to be shitty, but in the end it made me just as shitty as the shitty women and men who I hated...
So I tried to find joy. This was after a suicide attempt, I got a dog and my dog made me realize I did deserve love because the dog didn’t care how creepy or weird I was or how ugly I am, the dog liked my company. I think that helped me a lot. From there it was easy to find a little bit of peace, enough to motivate me to work on my own happiness as a forever alone single guy... because life has a lot to offer, even without love. And finally when I reached that point, my outlook slowly changed, and it took ONE person, my amazing wife (pinch me) to show me that not everyone is bad. And not everyone judges people by their outer skin. Just most people do. I happened to meet an exception. If I never met her, I think I’d still be OK. Because I found my own happiness inside.
I hope this helps someone else. Sorry this is long!!!
Oh and lovely kind eyes. A happy face is more attractive than a good looking one. I get him. And I get why she gets him. I bet the only reason georgie was ever incel was because he was low, depressed, childish about women and a loner. As soon as he grew up and found something he loved, cooking, and was happier in himself, along came the right gal.
Yeah very true, I was not a very pleasant person to be around because I was so angry at everything else, even when I should have been focusing on how I could improve myself. I hate my face and I can’t change it. I have horrible teeth and I’m balding, but I can’t do anything about it, but I could change certain habits... I went from being severely underweight as a teenager to overweight in my 30s. I then was diagnosed with IED... and it took me a long time to get help. Whenever I tried dating or talking to anyone I’d be laughed at and called ogre a lot. I finally lost the excess weight about 7 years ago. I think that helped me not to hate myself as much. I was an unpleasant dick. I’m still immature but I’m trying to change my outlook and be less of a selfish person.
Not gonna lie man, your face is actually really cool. There's a ruggedness to it with the balding and the smile/teeth that makes you look rough but in an attractive way. If I looked like you I'd be happy about it.
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1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
No longer an INCEL and now I am married but my wife doesnt know how I was a virgin until this year (Age 56)
1 pjguy2000 2018-02-14
Really happy for you :) You look really young for your age too.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
thanks brother!
1 Alia_Harkonnen 2018-02-14
How old is she?
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
22
1 Alia_Harkonnen 2018-02-14
Why is she with you?
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
I wish I knew
1 Alia_Harkonnen 2018-02-14
How did you meet her?
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Workbat the same shit place, I cook she serves
1 KhalilYousuf3 2018-02-14
do you guys live in russia?
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
No, Wales
1 IsThisRealReddit 2018-02-14
How tall are you?
1 xxthrowaway1991xx 2018-02-14
he posted an imgur album, they both look kinda short ... but i cant tell ... i cant wrap my head round this ...
1 SadIncel84 2018-02-14
He found a unicorn. We know they exist. Life fuel. Man congrats to you! Happy you escaped this hell.
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-02-14
A unicorn? A 22 year old who marries a man in his 50s? This is suicide fuel for women. Show me one ugly women in her 50s who works as a cook who can marry a hot 22 year old Chad.
1 Carkudo 2018-02-14
The fact that poor 50+ year old women have a hard time securing emotional and financial commitment from hot men in the early twenties is suicide fuel for you?
Like, you don't want to live in a world where hot Chads aren't getting married to poor women in their fifties?
Why?
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-02-14
You always twist stuff the dumbest way possible. The fact that a hot 22-year-old ends up with a poor 50+ year old is suicide fuel for ugly women, yes. Same as the reverse would be for men.
Don't be so hypocritical. Image if there was a website where ugly women celebrated unabashedly marrying Chads. The users of this sub would be the first to be outraged.
1 Carkudo 2018-02-14
Why would the reverse be true for men?
Certainly, because it would be another reminder to them that they're out of the dating market whereas women, no matter what flaws they possess, are immune from that. Which is what makes your reaction so unreasonable - you're not out of the dating market, and neither are any other women. So the suicide fuel is not in the inability to experience romance and sex - it's in the inability to experience it with hot men. Which is what prompted my question - why is that something to kill yourself over?
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-02-14
It's the same way the incels talk and you know it.
1 Carkudo 2018-02-14
I just described to you the difference, so no, it's not the same way.
1 SadIncel84 2018-02-14
Why would you take something so positive and turn it into something so negative? Stop trying to put others down to make yourself feel better. And talk yourself and women up because of your feelings of shame.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Good point sir and good day to you
1 fryxtz 2018-02-14
Familiarity is the great equalizer. They worked together. Incels who tell you it's all about looks are clueless. They truly just are inexperienced and don't understand. The more women know you over time the less looks matter, and they can become genuinely attracted to you based on other things. Of course if you're a creepy angry weirdo and have nothing going for you, then that will never happen, which is why a lot of incels never figure this out.
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-02-14
Just be white.
1 Alia_Harkonnen 2018-02-14
I'm white
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-02-14
All I'm seeing is that when I see an unattractive man with an attractive woman that it's almost always a white couple.
1 Kukjanne 2018-02-14
I think that says more about white women than white men
1 Alia_Harkonnen 2018-02-14
You only had sex with her after you married her? What would she think if she found out you were a virgin?
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Honestly I have no idea but I’ll probably end up telling her, I was going to tell her tonight but I chickened out. She’s not religious either but said she wanted to take things slow as a snail due to things in her life she was going through and we’d only been seeing each other six months when I asked her to marry me. However we have known each other three years this March.
1 Alia_Harkonnen 2018-02-14
Like what?
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Loss of a family member
1 Alia_Harkonnen 2018-02-14
Do you trust her?
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Yeah I think that’s the main thing that kept her interested in me. I think she’s very smart and talented and I trust her more than I do my own family but to be fair that’s not saying much. We pretty much are around each other all the time at work and she’s a homebody type these days but admitted she never used to be growing up.
1 mens-libthrowaway 2018-02-14
What do you do for work?
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
I’m a badly paid cook
1 WhiteBlackPurple 2018-02-14
No point in being low machiavellism, never tell something if there is no benefit in doing so.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Good point!
1 Hal_Inceldenza 2018-02-14
You wouldn't be lying. If it comes up you can be honest and tell her but you're not obligated to do it now.
1 trevmon 2018-02-14
never tell her she might leave you if you do
1 turtleflirtle 2018-02-14
All the more reason to tell her
1 UnbornParadox 2018-02-14
Definitely tell her, please don't listen to the people in this sub in relationship advice. Congratulations on your marriage, get out of here
1 comeondantheman 2018-02-14
Why would he if it never came up? There's no benefit.
1 Kukjanne 2018-02-14
Opening up to another person and telling them your secrets and embarrassments is what creates a bond of trust.
1 comeondantheman 2018-02-14
Hahaha that depends if the person listening to you isn’t negatively affected by you sharing the worst aspects of your life
1 Kukjanne 2018-02-14
And why would previous sexual experience matter in an established relationship? I know this might be an abstract question for someone that sees women as another species, but try.
1 comeondantheman 2018-02-14
Because your experiences have an effect on who you are? It’s baffling to me that people like you think someone’s sexual history isn’t an indicator of the type of person someone is.
1 Kukjanne 2018-02-14
And "who you are" is clearly a person this guys wife wants to be with, so him having been a virgin before will have 0% negative consequences if he tells her. Probably more like the opposite. You should also read up on what a straw man is before you try using it in a discussion.
1 SolluxCaptor2 2018-02-14
Spoken like someone who's never been in a relationship.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Cheers
1 PhucCheet 2018-02-14
If she asks repeatedly point blank about sexual history, tell her as little as possible ("it's been a long time" or "there's been no one else"). There's no reason to bring it up though.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
When she asked me before about other girlfriends or if I’d been married all I can do was tell her I have been alone so long that I couldn’t remember, and she’d laugh. She never pressed the issue or seemed to care very much. So unless she brings it up I’m not sure it’ll be that important, and it’s been years since it was mentioned - she often says “there’s no future in the past” so that makes me feel a lot mor comfortable.
1 PhucCheet 2018-02-14
Yeah if she doesn't care, why dig that hole yourself? Let sleeping dogs lie.
1 jcad1947 2018-02-14
my advice is never to tell her and lie about having prior girlfriends
1 PROLAPSED_SUBWOOFER 2018-02-14
Good advice tbh.
1 throwawaydrunkmonkey 2018-02-14
It's never good advice to tell someone to lie. If she married him she deserves the truth about him. The entire truth. If he's unwilling to be vulnerable with her, then he doesn't deserve her. As she doesn't deserve to be with someone who is going to active withhold relevant personal information. It's a recipe for a shit sandwich of a relationship. Source: have had many relationships, deep as well as superficial, none as rewarding as the relationships in which I was my true honest self.
1 Alia_Harkonnen 2018-02-14
So what, in a relationship she needs to know about your every experience and you can't have any privacy? IF you could merge brains so she sees all your memories she'd be entitled to it?
1 mens-libthrowaway 2018-02-14
This is the only type of relationship I would ever want. "The past is the past" is for filthy normies.
1 Magehunter_Skassi 2018-02-14
Being able to be completely open about your past with your partner is so freeing, it provides thousands of hours of conversation. If two people really love each other, then even minuscule details about one's own life before getting together will often be fascinating. When I was still with my wife, it felt like all of those memories were just sitting there waiting to be unearthed, begging to be. Planning to spend the rest of one's lives together is one thing, but all of those wasted years unshared? They can't just be forgotten about.
Normies will never know that. Normies will never know what it's like to not have to step around a minefield of breaking that sanctity by avoiding talking about how you totally pumped and dumped Stacy in the girl's bathroom between classes or got drunk and got triple penetrated by a Chadtrio at Chang's house party.
1 throwawaydrunkmonkey 2018-02-14
No. In a relationship you're supposed to have trust. And if you're keeping something from her purposely, it's obvious you don't trust her with that information. Which means she absolutely should NOT trust you. That much is demonstrable. You're not deserving of trust when you purposely engage in subterfuge.
1 Alia_Harkonnen 2018-02-14
There are tons of things I would never want to share with a hypothetical girlfriend, but I don't see in what way would that mean that I would betray her trust..
1 throwawaydrunkmonkey 2018-02-14
We're talking about a married couple.
1 AmIwrong92 2018-02-14
Absolute bullshit. We all have secrets and even if I did get a girl I wouldn't love her any less if she didn't want to share a part of her past with me. As long as the love and trust is there it shouldn't even matter. I only care about the here and now and look forward to the future not the past. And I definitely wouldn't marry her if she didn't feel the same.
1 PhucCheet 2018-02-14
Source: you've had a lot of relationships end, thus you are the expert in whether honesty makes a marriage last?
Couples married many years disagree. They'll say you need honesty about important things (values, goals, health, finances) and activities affecting your current life together, but you don't need to share every little detail past and present. Some mystery is good. Most couples tell white lies to keep the peace.
If she asks repeatedly point blank about sexual history, tell her as little as possible ("it's been a long time" or "there's been no one else"). There's no reason to bring it up though.
1 throwawaydrunkmonkey 2018-02-14
Every sexual/romantic relationship that I've ever been in has ended, aside from my current one. That's how relationships go. I'm ok with that.
Of course you don't need to share every little detail. But if you've got a fucked up personality because you were chaste (not celibate) for 5 decades, yeah, your S/O should have access to that information.
1 PhucCheet 2018-02-14
My point is not that you're some failure. You do you. My point is you don't have experience in making marriages last and so your perspective on what would help OP is irrelevant.
These days many people who have dated a lot give unsolicited LTR advice, even though they have nothing to base it on because they lack LTR experience themselves. You have experience with dating and the early stages. You don't have experience in lasting relationships. Studies show that if you interview couples together 5-10 years (many of whom split later) vs couples together 30 years, you get very different answers about what is needed to make a relationship work. Unless you've been married at least 20 years, we're all rookies here. Let OP do what is right for him.
1 onionmanchild 2018-02-14
dont tell her, maybe it all ends
1 Tallguy_87 2018-02-14
It's over
1 PM_ME_DEATH_THREATS2 2018-02-14
Good job friend, beware of the IncelTears cucks who'll come saying you're a creep and you're too old for her. You're a beatiful couple.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Thank you. I mean, I am an old creep but I’m a lucky old creep.
1 PROLAPSED_SUBWOOFER 2018-02-14
Gotta be honest with yourself, lmao.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Yes! And love the username lol
1 Chef_Lamar 2018-02-14
He does have a good name
1 PM_ME_DEATH_THREATS2 2018-02-14
Yeah, guess I just have to wait until I'm 50 too.
1 twinklenuts 2018-02-14
No one was going to say anything until you did. Way to assume, you dumb fuck.
1 Ic3Hot 2018-02-14
Why would that happen? This man is happy and sharing his happiness with Reddit, why would anyone try to bring him down? You're all too focused on hate and negativity..
1 Face-Hit-By-A-Lorry 2018-02-14
Congratulations buddy, you made it. I'm happy for you!
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Thanks! I never thought it would happen honestly.
1 mens-libthrowaway 2018-02-14
It makes me pretty upset and angry to see an older man dating a young woman; you've taken a woman who would've dated young Chad. Chad now needs to reach lower down the hierarchy and take a Becky, who would have dated a normie, who himself is now dating a 4/10. That 4/10 female would have dated an incel, you've plucked a relationship from his hands with your selfishness. Whatever, you were incel, I can't get too upset.
1 UnbornParadox 2018-02-14
You're delusional
1 mens-libthrowaway 2018-02-14
Explain, you fucking idiot. You brainwashed cretin. Explain exactly what is delusional in that post.
1 lilbloaty 2018-02-14
Weird cunt
1 FreddyMercurysGhost 2018-02-14
but he's the incel at the bottom, so really it so works out.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Well.
1 sailorgangordie 2018-02-14
"just be white" theory confirmed
1 Cristalline144hz 2018-02-14
Yep. Could never happen to a currycel/maghrebicel
1 Currycell92 2018-02-14
Quit bitching and be happy for a comrade who made it out.
1 genetic_scrap 2018-02-14
You're not wrong. There's something to be said about being white.
1 EddieBarclay 2018-02-14
She looks ugly like a down syndrome cunt.
1 Lovemesometoasts 2018-02-14
she's gorgeous but you keep telling yourself that
1 xenodit 2018-02-14
that photo is obviously photoshoped. Only a low IQ normie would fall for it
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Want more pics of us ? Hah
1 Lovemesometoasts 2018-02-14
yeah that would be cool, I'm glad you guys found each other
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
https://imgur.com/a/iHLUP No idea if this album works or not
1 Lovemesometoasts 2018-02-14
you guys are really sweet together <3
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
:) thank you
1 trevmon 2018-02-14
what in the actual fuck . . . this is some god damned PROOF. you're a magician to me.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
You made my day
1 lilactaffy 2018-02-14
OMG her eyes are so gorgeous! And the pic with the garter pulling is so cute. <3
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Her eyes are the purest blue I’ve ever seen, she’s gorgeous and kind, and cute. But she’s also got the kindest heart. Thank you! The garter pull made me so nervous I had practiced so many times in my head but in the end it went smoothly enough haha
1 PROLAPSED_SUBWOOFER 2018-02-14
[LIFE FUEL]
1 xenodit 2018-02-14
ok seems real but the blackpilled truth is that she married you only because she knows you will die within 10-20 years and she will get all your stuff.
1 bs310 2018-02-14
Way to support him.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Well then she can have a nice garage sale and make £300 off my junk, it’ll be worth it
1 Live-Hedgehog 2018-02-14
Happy Valentine's day.
1 KarlEss 2018-02-14
How did you get her?
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
We just became friends through work and eventually she asked me to walk her home, from there we started hanging out after hours and eventually dating, which in itself was insane to me.
She had another man who was in his 30s who was interested in her, that she was sleeping with, as well as an ex in his mid twenties she’d just stopped seeing... now keep in mind she told me this when we were work buddies.
After we started “dating” (I thought we were friends because honestly the thought of dating anyone seemed off the table... but she saw us as dating) ...the 30something guy was a family friend of hers who tried to get very serious with her, and he ended up telling her I was a creep and ran me down and told her to stop hanging out with me, or seeing me, or he would stop speaking to her.
After that, she decided based on my handling of the situation and the fact I didn’t push her and was patient that she wanted to exclusively see me (as if I had anyone else interested... but the thought was flattering)
1 LiquidDreamtime 2018-02-14
Take note dudes.
I’m happy for you man.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Thanks bud
1 gstvtrp 2018-02-14
Okay, I'll just wait for a girl to ask me to walk her home.
1 genetic_scrap 2018-02-14
Life fuel.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Thanks mate
1 daskettenkrad 2018-02-14
Congratulations, if true, dude. As we used to say in OG /r/incels, get out and never return. Hope we never see you again.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Thanks man
1 Alia_Harkonnen 2018-02-14
We used to say that?
1 AmIwrong92 2018-02-14
Nope.
1 daskettenkrad 2018-02-14
I remember we did.
1 r4risbullshit 2018-02-14
About maybe 1/3 of us did. Good for this guy though.
1 daskettenkrad 2018-02-14
I hope a lot more of us will be saying it now.
1 frankwashere44 2018-02-14
I think that was specific to you.
1 PM_ME_UR_FAV_QUOTE_ 2018-02-14
There is something so oddly heartwarming when I read
So often it's used negatively but here it's more of a "bro" thing.
1 rank1loser 2018-02-14
How did you feel as the years went by and you remained a virgin?
How did you not give up hope of ever finding someone?
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
I felt like a failure and I hated myself, until eventually I just felt numb to it all... as a teenager I was really angry and I got into fights, I was hated by everyone in primary school and high school and I was bullied (beat, pissed on, had food thrown at me) the point where people learned really quick not to mess with me because I’d beat them. This earned me the nickname “creep” and I literally would have girls turn from me and RUN full speed if I tried to talk to them. I dropped out of school...
I tried to find happiness in other things but they always fell through and I contemplated suicide a lot as a twenty something, then as I got older I played games online and had a friend who told me not to bother killing myself because I’d die one day anyway so I started letting that be my motto, I didn’t care if I died or when, I’d just do what I could to pass my time. And gaming a lot was one of those things, working was one of those things.
It was an unbalanced loneliness for a long time, and I kind of fantasised about being with someone and what it would be like but that just made it worse, I got a dog and found that as lonely as I was I could make a little difference to my mother by pretending to be happy and I distracted myself with video games all of the time. eventually I kind of felt dead inside like a robot. 40s came and went, 50s came, and I realised shit; I’m gonna die alone. But at that point I wasn’t lonely anymore because I’d just given up entirely on anything but making people laugh. Strangers, people at work. And eventually I realised I liked cooking so I got a job doing that. And passing my time by wasting it on tv and games... I’d save and then blow my money on holiday alone. I now feel like I’ve stepped into someone else’s life.
1 lieutenantseaanemone 2018-02-14
why did everyone hate you?
1 WhereisAlexGulikers 2018-02-14
As he said above he was a bit of an angry prick. No one wants to be around that kind of person.
1 TheMidnight_Rider 2018-02-14
Holy shit are you a missing the point fucking dope.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Pretty much what the other guy said, I also didn’t shower very often and would wear the same clothing all the time and I’m very immature with my sense of humour, like laughing at my own jokes, and being very blunt to the point it shocked people or upset them. I had no need for tact because nobody extended me that so I didn’t extend it to them and it was a cycle of shit.........and I don’t think a lot of people liked me because of my looks most of all because I scare people, especially because of how I laugh and the faces that I make, and again the anger issues. I’ve worked on my hygiene at least but the poor humour is still there.
1 lazyanhedoniac 2018-02-14
its a prostitute guys
1 jaghatarhonor 2018-02-14
Lucky bastard.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
I am :)
1 Nancy125 2018-02-14
Just look at this man’s face. Its going to be entirely drained of colour when he hangs himself after that leech has drained his bank account and books it.
1 trevmon 2018-02-14
let her have the money fuck it who cares at his point he's 50 something and getting laid on the reg
1 Nancy125 2018-02-14
at that point you might as well frequent a better looking prostitute
1 trevmon 2018-02-14
in my experience prostitutes are ugly af
maybe in vegas it's a goldmine, haven't been
1 chadeet 2018-02-14
If this is real congrats for making it out man.
I've met a 50+ year old virgin in real life who actually asked ME for advice in getting girls (LMAO), had no clue what I was supposed to tell him but if you live long enough it looks like luck can strike
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Haha well hey! Take it from me you never know. Lightning does strike! I’m an old man now, I certainly always envisioned myself keeling over from something and dying alone... and the only love I’d ever of gotten was out of a bioware game or something. Best of luck to you and thanks 🙏
1 warmestblack 2018-02-14
Congrats on the wedding and finding someone.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Thanks buddy
1 mronion82 2018-02-14
Good luck to you both, many happy years to you.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Thank you!
1 BF8211 2018-02-14
Good shit fam
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
:)
1 monathemantis 2018-02-14
You guys are the sweetest!! Congratulations, and I'm so glad you found one another. I wish you all best!
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Thank you
1 Kennnny27 2018-02-14
dad and daughter?
1 advancedatheist 2018-02-14
Of course, if it doesn't work out with this girl, other women will see that you have been validated sexually by a presentable woman, and that will make it easier for you to find new girlfriends.
Because it's almost the next worst thing to being an incel, namely, having a fat and plain-looking woman go around and say that she's an ex-girlfriend of yours, if she's the only notch on your bedpost. It's much better to have reasonably attractive women who can say truthfully they are your ex-girlfriends. Other women will respect you more when they can see that you have had previous relationships with women who don't have the signs of male desperation written on their bodies.
1 warmestblack 2018-02-14
Yep. Branch swinging status hoes.
http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/women-men-relationships-more-attractive-dating-romance-university-study-a8185026.html
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Honestly I don’t have a right to judge anyone by their appearance because it’s not like they choose to be plain or ugly anymore than I choose to be a vile twisted beast of a man... but she’s very beautiful and I’m very lucky and either way I hope things continue to stay positive and I’m going to try my best to make it work. I just wanted an emotional connection more than a physical one as well. And it’s hard to find people who you can connect with, especially people who you can be yourself around.
1 SuperSpy63 2018-02-14
Georgie, you sir have perhaps the best comment history I have ever come across while lurking. Hysterical, dark and drastically unappreciated as shown by your surprisingly low karma. Congrats on the wifey as well.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Thanks very much! Most people don’t get my type of humour and think I’m a total freak but I’m glad you can appreciate it! Cheers
1 Not_unique_enuf 2018-02-14
She is a beauty! I am happy for You, little bit jealous but mostly happy ;)
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Thank you, I hope you find happiness too and hang in there
1 Not_unique_enuf 2018-02-14
I will hang in. Seeing you guys gave me hope.
1 shadowcat211 2018-02-14
Good for you.
1 SoonelyDoodely 2018-02-14
May I ask how? She's clearly pretty cute and looks to be twice as young as you. Do you now maybe feel that you clearly did have some appeal to women as a man and you've wasted many years not capitulizing on it?
1 stonesthrowaway88 2018-02-14
He said it in the comments.
1 xxthrowaway1991xx 2018-02-14
idk from the story he left in the comments it sounds like other women literally ran screaming from the dude.. how does this happen?
1 SoonelyDoodely 2018-02-14
the girl probably happens to have a thing for older people. For the sake of OP she doesn't have alterior motives.
1 TordYvel 2018-02-14
Some girls have like a genetic preference that makes them appreciate the same type of man as their mum did. But this is kind of weird. I can't imagine her having a normal relation with both her parents. Still, when life offers you something good, you take it.
1 SoonelyDoodely 2018-02-14
Damn dude, miracles do happen it seems.
1 LiquidDreamtime 2018-02-14
He’s a kind man who made a friend that developed into more. It’s not a miracle, it’s extremely commonplace and a possibility for all of you.
1 taftbrodda 2018-02-14
Mail order brides don't count. She'll leave once she's taken all your money and obtained citizenship wherever you live
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
She’s a British citizen as well so that won’t be an issue and I live paycheck to paycheck
1 birtopia 2018-02-14
A cheer to a brother who has ascended from this shithole! Now go, and don’t look back!
1 ivana_g 2018-02-14
You are my hero!
1 just_let_me_sign_up 2018-02-14
good job cuck, you got chad's sloppy seconds.
1 xxthrowaway1991xx 2018-02-14
i looked through all the pics OP posted and now .. im kind of numb... but theres hope i guess.. ... because of the head proportions of OP compared to his wife... wife is a solid 6.5-7 and OP is a 2... and the comments make it seem like it could be genuine... could there be hope? is OP tall? cant tell by pic...
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
I’m shorter than average and it’s been a problem my whole life
1 just_let_me_sign_up 2018-02-14
I'm on of the beta normie cucks and I don't think you're a creep. as long as you're both happy, who cares what someone else thinks.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Thanks
1 ResentfulSoul 2018-02-14
I doubt you were ever an incel to begin with. Noone loses his virginity after 21 unles she hires a hooker of course
1 xxthrowaway1991xx 2018-02-14
tell that to this picture lol... hes wors ...he must be loaded................
1 SadIncel84 2018-02-14
Hmm, he has better head shape and jaw than a lot of incels here though.
1 SadIncel84 2018-02-14
Hmm, he has better head shape and jaw than a lot of incels here though. He's also has hair and is not bald.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
You’re funny, but yes she does love Disney. And she’s the belle to my beast.
1 AmIwrong92 2018-02-14
Congratulations, I hope one day I can experience love like that. Really happy for you!
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
I hope you can too brother, and you’ve gotta believe you will, Cheers!
1 Teal_Kitten 2018-02-14
How did you meet?
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
We both work at the same place and that is how we met. Otherwise we did see each other at the pub a few times, well i saw her there but never talked to her.
1 whatwasthatcat 2018-02-14
You are an average looking guy and you are not skinny. So remind us why you were an incel in the first place? I have seen tons of guys much uglier than you with better looking girlfriends. You are not skinny: being too skinny is the only cause of inceldom. I am MUCH better looking than you, but because I was skinny, a girl like the one you are posing with would NEVER give me a chance. As soon as I gained some weight I immediately got attention. But I am still an incel because I am having trouble meeting girls: I have tried for the past 6 months to meet girls but it just doesn't happen, met like 3/4 and none worked out, and online dating is 80/20 and I am not 8/10 so it doesn't work. How/where on earth did you meet this girl?
1 BloodyEjaculate 2018-02-14
I'm 5'6" and 110 lbs and I've had sex with 3 separate girls in the past month. not everything exists as a binary. skinny people can be attractive
1 whatwasthatcat 2018-02-14
How old were the girls?
1 BloodyEjaculate 2018-02-14
college students, 20 - 22. my only point is that girls are attracted to a range of body types, and being short or skinny in no way disqualifies you. obviously you still have to be attractive, but you don't have to be a Chad.
1 whatwasthatcat 2018-02-14
Bullshilt. 20 is way too old. You are fucking landwhales or fugly bitches.
1 BloodyEjaculate 2018-02-14
proof
this girl is 18
I look like this for reference
1 rodders0223 2018-02-14
It is not because you were skinny, it must be your crap personality or some other character trait. Plenty of skinny guys manage to get chicks but whatever works for you buddy, if you want to comfort yourself with some bs lame excuse about women not liking skinny dudes them go for it.
1 EggianoScumaldo 2018-02-14
sounds like you're kind of a cunt.
1 linksteady 2018-02-14
A couple gets married and this is your reaction. Ick. Cease your jealousy.
1 apx24 2018-02-14
Congratulations man! Hope you enjoy your new found happiness! :)
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
She’s beautiful in ways I never thought possible, and ways that are plain to see. Thank you. I’m a happy chap!
1 apx24 2018-02-14
Enjoy your happiness man. This made me smile :)
1 ForMyself678 2018-02-14
Stop, you can get out of this before it is too late. A femoid of that age is obviously an inadequate partner. Why else would she be unmarried for so long? The only reason you have been is because females can marry whoever they like due to their attractive traits such as pheromones and their wide swaying hips. Id suggest you ditch her as soon as possible.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
🤢
1 groundbeefasylum 2018-02-14
Wot,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
1 maybethrowed 2018-02-14
volcel, your staff is broken
1 AndyTownsend 2018-02-14
Excellent job looking at the camera.
1 CD-RR 2018-02-14
Probably his daughter or niece.
1 sentient_loaf 2018-02-14
What sort daughter/niece dresses in a wedding gown and poses affectionately for their dad/uncle?
1 Cock_Demon 2018-02-14
Good man! Godspeed brother.
1 foreignincel3 2018-02-14
what a lovely couple , you guys are very cute toghether i wish you the best , now never return
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
:)
1 bloatmaxx 2018-02-14
you're pretty much a male model next to me, you were never a truecel
1 Leon_Q83 2018-02-14
The only thing worse than being a virgin is having only 1 notch on your bedpost.
1 MakeTotalDestr0i 2018-02-14
LOLz the ultimate pessimist
1 xyzzy8 2018-02-14
That’s just awesome. I’m really happy for you both! And congratulations.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Thank you
1 patheticsubhuman 2018-02-14
you mog me tbh
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Moogle.
1 AbyssWolf 2018-02-14
You were not an incel, you had bdd. That's something I wish I had. Tall and not ugly.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Trust me I wish it was bdd ... I’mnot that short but not that tall either and uglier than a half rotten corpse that’s been left to turn to jerky in the sun... it comes from within yourself though I think the way I carry myself changed when I stopped hating so much , good luck to you
1 genetic_scrap 2018-02-14
Damn dude, awesome. Congrats.
Ngl, thought this was a meme or something before I opened this thread. Good to see it's serious.
Life fuel.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
:)
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1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Nice one
1 Prince-Of-Dankness 2018-02-14
Old ugly dusty ass 56 year old man gets a young, blonde haired blue eyed girl?
Just be white theory confirmed.
1 General_Duggah 2018-02-14
Its either the money or something else. Never have I seen this combo without an ulterior motive involved. Id give it a year to three mac before she sucks him dry and is off to the next. Good luck, I hope im wrong :)
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Well I don’t have money and really don’t have anything to offer, but I’m past the point of asking why because I’ve accepted I’ll never understand it either way.
1 glassjawgronk 2018-02-14
Haha dude you look like a demon from hell. Mazel Tov!
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
I always picture demons to look badass, but danke!!!
1 ihatemylifelololol 2018-02-14
You look like her homeless dad who developed a crack addiction
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
I look like a homeless junkie who spent his youth doing meth and rolling around in the dirt wearing unwashed clothing... I was often told I looked like I had Down syndrome or was mildly brain damaged so honestly what you said sounds like a compliment at this point lol... I don’t know what she sees in me but I’ll never understand it
1 ihatemylifelololol 2018-02-14
She probably is in that “older guys are so hot” (but taken to an extreme) phase
1 Yeahso_no 2018-02-14
Yay!!!! This makes me happy, and your bonus album is adorable!
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Thanks man
1 Mr-5-5 2018-02-14
Did you pray to St BlackOps2cell ?
How come her face is bright and yours is dark?
Who took the photo?
Is this a photochop? (just joking)
Well done !
1 MandingoForWhites 2018-02-14
I was thinking this 50 year old fuck looks really young for his age. Then I realized it’s because he’s never had to deal with a woman
Now this moron gets some Welsh thug’s scraps and is gonna get brutally cheated on and cucked in the next year and he’s gonna age faster than Obama did after one term
1 MandingoForWhites 2018-02-14
I was thinking this 50 year old fuck looks really young for his age. Then I realized it’s because he’s never had to deal with a woman
Now this moron gets some Welsh thug’s scraps and is gonna get brutally cheated on and cucked in the next year and he’s gonna age faster than Obama did after one term
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Whatever happens happens, but thank you for saying I loom young. I’ve had to deal with a lot of women in my life using me so at this point as an old man nothing can shock me anymore but I’m pretty confident now and I trust her with all that I am, even if it’s not a lot.
1 MandingoForWhites 2018-02-14
Just be careful dude
1 SolluxCaptor2 2018-02-14
MandingoForWhites, you're an asshole.
1 kollaps3 2018-02-14
Can no one here tell this is clearly photoshopped?
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
There’s a whole album I posted of us together, but yeah she’s beautiful enough to make it look like a picture of a cheaply made ogre pasted in with an unsuspecting girl ... I don’t blame you lol
1 kollaps3 2018-02-14
Dude, I honestly want to be happy for you (despite the fact you're a part of the incel community), I really do. Everyone deserves happiness, and maybe you're one funny sonuvabitch in such a way that legit makes you appear more physically attractive. You seem to be a good tempered and good humored guy, from what I can see of your posts. However look at the harshness of the outline of your shoulder, and the blur where your face meets hers. Also, there is not a shadow on your face where there should be, if she was truly in front of you and the light was coming from where it appears to be in the picture. Can I at least ask to see the other album? Cuz honestly I'd be pumped to be proved wrong, haha.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
hey here you go
1 retiredho 2018-02-14
Congratulations, this stranger wishes you all the best, and many years of happiness with your wife <3 Please cherish her and i hope she does the same :-)
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Thank you so much. I honestly feel very fortunate to have met someone who was nice enough to treat me as an equal. All I want to do from here on out his work on being a better person, not just for her but for myself. I feel everyone is worthy of a baseline respect and I met someone who has the same view, and that could look past my ugly face and see the pain behind it, and she helped me to realise maybe I was more than just my pain. I’ve not met many people who I can say are kinder, and beautiful inside and out. But I know now they’re out there if we give people a chance.
1 rifain 2018-02-14
Congratulations Georgie.
I have a question for you and please be straightforward. What do you think an incel changes in his mentality to succeed ?
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Well for me at least as I can only talk from personal experience.. it took me years because I feel like I was conditioned both by myself and environmental factors to expect things if I saw other people getting them. I expected respect at work or school, and a common decency because that’s what movies make you think. But Reality is not so kind. That’s what normies don’t get.
I hated the world because the world hated me. Not subtly either, it was abuse. From my family, women. I didn’t understand why women “got away with so much” and I honestly felt a lot of my issues toward women due to my own mother and her views on men. I have a couple of sisters and being the only male I was always expected to clean up and do everything for the females in my life just because I was “stronger”. Even though I had horrible pain and medical issues I never got taken to a doctor or attention from anyone, especially women, but all my female family did...my own pain or medical conditions always got pushed aside for “women” who took advantage of me. and I grew up in an environment which made me feel like my anger was unacceptable yet it was OK when my female relatives did it.
I had a lot of females who friend zoned me ONLINE, but mostly women just wouldn’t talk to me, even in college I got accused of being creepy just when I would look at someone or smile. Women hated me, so Chads hated me more, to impress them. It was a lack of socialising in my youth that made it nearly impossible for me to even begin to understand how to work on the problem. Online friends / girls hated me without seeing my looks because I was a dick but didn’t want to change my behaviour. I wanted the world to just treat me like a normal person. But it never happened.
Even my friends made fun of me behind my back (friends I use loosely as people who talked to me without ignoring me completely) caught attacking me and accusing me of giving off a “homosexual vibe” just because of my humour or sense of dressing. This lead me to been reading lots of things that were pretty much from a one sided perspective that fueled the anger I felt. My male friends (online) were all in the same boat... people at work offered to buy me hookers, and when I said I wanted a connection I got made fun of more. I never would have met anyone if she hadn’t walked into my workplace because I never left the house other than to work because I was so scared. I got catfished online a few times ... and distant online people fed me things like “you have a great personality!” And that someone was gonna be very lucky one day and that type of comment made me angrier and angrier to the point where I ended up shutting myself off from every person that I knew until I was basically a shut in, even antisocial on games.
Because women treated me like a monster i started to feel like I shouldn’t bother being anything other than what they thought me to be because there’s no point trying to be nice only to be used or ghosted... after decades I spent getting me nothing and nowhere. So I just isolated myself and dissociated until finally I reached a point at nearly fifty that I needed to let go of my anger and stop blaming women and realise it’s less to do with gender as it is to do with shitty people. Most people are shitty. Everyone has their own ideology that supports a reason for them to continue to be shitty, but in the end it made me just as shitty as the shitty women and men who I hated...
So I tried to find joy. This was after a suicide attempt, I got a dog and my dog made me realize I did deserve love because the dog didn’t care how creepy or weird I was or how ugly I am, the dog liked my company. I think that helped me a lot. From there it was easy to find a little bit of peace, enough to motivate me to work on my own happiness as a forever alone single guy... because life has a lot to offer, even without love. And finally when I reached that point, my outlook slowly changed, and it took ONE person, my amazing wife (pinch me) to show me that not everyone is bad. And not everyone judges people by their outer skin. Just most people do. I happened to meet an exception. If I never met her, I think I’d still be OK. Because I found my own happiness inside.
I hope this helps someone else. Sorry this is long!!!
1 rifain 2018-02-14
Thank you, that was an interesting read.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
No problem thanks! Just trying to answer everyone’s questions
1 scarlettbirdy 2018-02-14
Georgie is a very attractive man. Those laughing eye creases, and the lovely hair. Not handsome at all but most attractive.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
That’s very kind of you to say,
1 scarlettbirdy 2018-02-14
Oh and lovely kind eyes. A happy face is more attractive than a good looking one. I get him. And I get why she gets him. I bet the only reason georgie was ever incel was because he was low, depressed, childish about women and a loner. As soon as he grew up and found something he loved, cooking, and was happier in himself, along came the right gal.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Yeah very true, I was not a very pleasant person to be around because I was so angry at everything else, even when I should have been focusing on how I could improve myself. I hate my face and I can’t change it. I have horrible teeth and I’m balding, but I can’t do anything about it, but I could change certain habits... I went from being severely underweight as a teenager to overweight in my 30s. I then was diagnosed with IED... and it took me a long time to get help. Whenever I tried dating or talking to anyone I’d be laughed at and called ogre a lot. I finally lost the excess weight about 7 years ago. I think that helped me not to hate myself as much. I was an unpleasant dick. I’m still immature but I’m trying to change my outlook and be less of a selfish person.
1 AFistedGazelle 2018-02-14
Not gonna lie man, your face is actually really cool. There's a ruggedness to it with the balding and the smile/teeth that makes you look rough but in an attractive way. If I looked like you I'd be happy about it.
1 MD_Teach 2018-02-14
Good job man. Happy for you.
Also...
Normie OUT REEEEEEEEE
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-02-14
Cute chick. Just be white theory confirmed.
1 gotye87 2018-02-14
This honestly looks like a pedo/rape scene from a movie. Nasty.
1 Not_A_Chef 2018-02-14
aye boi this girl hot af if this is true good for you bud ❤️
1 badromance99 2018-02-14
WOW MAN JUST WOW
1 PROLAPSED_SUBWOOFER 2018-02-14
Gotta be honest with yourself, lmao.
1 PM_ME_DEATH_THREATS2 2018-02-14
Yeah, guess I just have to wait until I'm 50 too.
1 Lovemesometoasts 2018-02-14
yeah that would be cool, I'm glad you guys found each other
1 IsThisRealReddit 2018-02-14
How tall are you?
1 Nancy125 2018-02-14
at that point you might as well frequent a better looking prostitute
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1 comeondantheman 2018-02-14
Why would he if it never came up? There's no benefit.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Cheers
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Nice one
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
Moogle.
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
I hope you can too brother, and you’ve gotta believe you will, Cheers!
1 DontDownvoteGEORGIE 2018-02-14
I’m shorter than average and it’s been a problem my whole life