You missed your chance with a black goddess the fuck wrong with u nigga?

bro she obviously likes you but you fucked it up by being too shy. you need to go after her, text her tell her you had fun and that you really like her and want her to be your girlfriend bro

nigga trust me at ur age dont be a pussy, dont fuck up, if theres a 5% chance a girl is down to fuck, TAKE it or u will regret it.

the longer u go without sex, the more u will doubt urself

doesnt matter dude just go out with her, she sounds nice and maybe ur soulmate

Just be respectful and try to hold her hand at some point. See how she reacts. That’s how you’ll know if you’re “friend zoned” or not.

You haven't missed your chance. You aren't being too shy. You're doing fine so far

Sounds super positive.

Damn, nice. I'm glad you had fun.

Now, you gotta make an actual romantic move, and take what you are being flaunted. Do it before it's too late. Good luck.

What kind of autist question is that? If it doesn't like it, then it isn't attracted to you. This is why i'm telling you to do something in the first place. You have to physically touch it to see if it likes you. I agree with u/destiny-draw and the hand holding comment for example. If it doesn't resist, then you are getting somewhere. Touch it on the lower back, wrist, and all that.

From your comments to me on the first post you made here, it sounds like you are asking to be friendzoned.

Why would normies want him to get friend zoned? If he actually gets her as a gf, that would help disprove the “only looks matter” notion that’s being promoted here on this sub. Also don’t refer to her as “it”

Have you looked through OP's post history and looked at the normies comments? Obviously not.

It helps disprove the "only looks matter" notion if your IQ is below 70.

This kid has never posted a picture of himself and is likely lying, so what exactly does anyone gain from his success?

Assuming this is real and assuming he seems himself as ugly, it does disprove the only looks matter notion.

No, no it fucking doesn't! Lots of attractive teenage girls see themselves as ugly.

Ok.... how is that relevant?

"It"?

Yes, knvw whvt fvck thvs, "it."

I'm not the best person to ask since I don't have any experience in this matter, but hearing I always hear the advice of make your intentions known. So if you like her then tell her. If she likes you too she'll be thrilled. If she doesn't well you know and can either continue doing what you're doing or give yourself some distance. I think something simple like trying to hold her hand is a good step since it's not sexual but it is a step above platonic friends.

Stop posting this fake little fantasy you made up. You're going to end it with Chad stealing her from you or some garbage to try to get some reaction from the incels here. Protip: No one is going to care enough about your writings to be in uproar because there is no connection with you or the female. If anything you sound too beta for us to be emotionally affected when she inevitably leaves you.

I should add, no highschool kid with a crush is going to be posting walls of text about his experiences with that lovely girl from school on a forum made for depressed incels.

Yeah, this whole story is nonsense made by an IT poster.

You did great!! It sounds like you both really enjoyed yourselves!

I honestly don't know why you're asking if you're friendzoned either. That is what you wanted, isn't it? If not, see my comment and take action on that.

The normies are all cheering because they assume this will just be a friendship. If that's not what you want, then again, do something before it's too late.

Sounds like it went super well. Maybe next time push it to more of a couple thing like trying to hold her hand or something. Im not sure if this is good advice or not haha. Either way im glad it seems to be going well. Pulling for you man.

I agree with the hand holding thing. If not, he'll just end up as another beta orbiter, which is exactly the type of pain the normies here want him to go through.

I don’t think any normies want him to fail. I’m rooting for him and I think the girl likes him. It sounds like he really likes her so I hope it goes well. Why do you think normies would want him to be friend zoned? Do you believe we want people here to fail? The normie comments I read were positive.

She dragged me into Forever 21 and I LOATHE that store but I still went with her.

Why do something you don't like?

To be honest, from your description that does sound like you're being just a friend to her but it all depends on what you want from this.

Do you like being her friend or do you like her romantically?

Bad thinking. Speaking from personal experience, you need to establish boundaries. Upsetting people is an inevitable part of life because they will upset you too.

If you're not comfortable with doing something and it brings you no benefit - consider not doing it and telling it outright.

So you don’t do stuff other people want to do? What? How odd. That’s part of any friendship or relationship. “Boundaries”. Lol. What he did was normal. Not like she asked him to rob a bank or something. I can’t imagine if everyone’s friends and partners just said “no I don’t do anything I don’t like, only my interests matter!” What an odd take on this.

I used to do that but my interests were usually ignored. If people ignore my interests then I guess I have to ignore theirs as well. Not a "victim", just tired of being seen as a pushover.

That’s totally fair. It should go both ways. But in this case we don’t know that it won’t. And I don’t want him to look like a selfish jerk.

To be honest, he shouldn't be in this sub in the first place.

Touché. He seems like a good kid though.

That’s what people do when they like each other. And she should do stuff you like also. That’s normal. You don’t have to do everything she likes but it’s good to do some. Especially at first. Next time suggest something you like too. It will make you appear confident.

Dawg, she bought you popcorn. She paid for her own food so she wasn't using you for money. She touched your hand, so she isn't creeped out by you, and looking for physical contact. She giggled a lot from your story. You ain't in the friendzone yet. Next time, go in for a kiss, and you'll know for sure. If not, just say sorry and that you misread the situation.

Sometimes things work out, sometimes they don't, life is fucking random. Be brave and go for it (but not too hard, light and casual always at the start). Keep it fun. You can do it motherfucker.

And don't listen to these bitter fucking incels. This is clearly not the place for relationship advice.

I can't believe I'm so fucking happy browsing r/Braincels. Reading this kid's posts makes my day.

Lol so you agree this is the wrong subreddit? Faggot needs to quit it with these experiences, he's a normal highschooler.

And don't listen to these bitter fucking people. This is clearly not the place for relationship advice.

this post is extremely positive

Happy to hear how great it went. It does sound like she likes you. You treated her right and she was nice to you as well. This is great! Good for you. Don’t stress about making a move. I think you can wait a bit if you need to get more comfortable. You could also say she looks pretty or something similar that shows interest and see how she responds. You’re doing great!

oh god, yep she belongs to Chad like all of them

Lol. An account made a week ago telling fake stories. IT posters have gone to new lows

No you aren't. You're some weirdo who's pretending to be a teenager on an obscure board for virgins. Just fuck off.

You're doing really good for an incel. Keep being yourself, I can honestly say for once.

What's this? There are still emotions in my black soul? My charred heart still beats? No!!

Really though, this was very sweet OP, reminds me of high school, except you sound more charming than I was.

Hey, I never had half as much fun on dates as you had today. For me it's usually just awkward conversation and peacing out. It was never anywhere near as heartwarming and sappy as what you wrote. Haha, I did genuinely feel good reading it too, it's nice to see someone just being genuinely positive here. I do hope she likes you kid, you're worth it, IMO.

You should, trust me, this is the best time to ask since she seems to appreciate you. And, if she turns you down, you can at least move on knowing you tried your best. Also, kid, I don't think you're actually an incel. You're only 16, like I said, you're better off in a different sub. The dating advice sub would be way more useful for advice than /r/Braincels.

It's on. ESCALATE NOW. You are going to remember this date for a long time, and you will compare every other female interaction to this.

She's liable to ghost you at any minute.

Red pill nonsense will ruin this potential relationship. Don't bring that toxicity to him

lol try

Good work son

Is she black?

What's the other half?

Curiosity.

Not really

How do you guys think this went? Am I friendzoned?

You can't be sure until you put it in her ass.

FAKECEL

Good work son keep the updates coming

Hey man you're doing great. See how jealous and hateful people are getting? Ignore that. She sounds very interested in you and you just need to keep being yourself. But please, words like "friendzone" are kind of terrible. Do you like her for her personality or do you just want to have sex? Bc a relationship is so much more than sex, and in a good relationship people become friends first before moving to the next step. I wish you luck.

Sounds like it went really well, (well done) when I saw your first post I thought you were worrying too much. She's definitely being flirty with you.

And I recommend not making a romantic move yet, you should do this a few more times first before you make a move. Because I know guys catch feelings a lot quicker than girls, and there was a guy that asked me out after the first time we hung out together and I still wasn't sure because it was too soon.

But again well done this made me really happy for you qnd its nice to see a really positive post

Dude, this went really well for you.

Key points: - remain confident, even if you're faking it This doesn't mean acting like the Fonz, it means trying to look comfortable in your own skin. Even an unattractive or overweight person looks much better in well-fitting clothes that they haven't been fidgeting with all day.

• don't dump your insecurities on her Girls like when you open up to them, but you don't need to tell her "I'm new to this" just yet. There will be a time and it'll feel right. From the vibe of this story, she sounds like a really genuine girl.

• don't over think it She touched your shoulder and played with your hair, paid you a nice compliment and went out on what sounds like a date! She's either into you, or pretty oblivious. Best approach is to take her out again- somewhere you will feel confident and she will feel comfortable. Enjoy yourself again.

And near the end of the date, take her gently by the hand to somewhere mildly secluded (not a closed room, just a lower traffic area, preferably pretty) say something along the lines of "hey so I have a crush on you and think you're really beautiful and sweet. Can I kiss you?"

She either nods and you go for it, or she says omg I'm so sorry I'm not interested! Which will 100% sting but it's not the end of the world and you just have to play it cool and say "oh I'm sorry! That's totally cool if you just want to be friends"

That's how the game is played. You got this.

I can't stress this enough, don't rush things. Relationships come naturally from friendships if they aren't forced and between the right people, and grow naturally. When you feel like the time is right, do what seems like the best thing to you. I know you can do it

How do you guys think this went? Am I friendzoned? So you think she's just playing with my heart?

Post your maxilla and I will tell you.

He is clueless...how cute

These are turning into suicide fuel

Another fakecel.

( she has a Jamaican accent) That explains a lot actually

Jamaican females are grown differently.So they're not as shallow as females from the States.

You are friendzoned bruh.

At least your better off than anyone here, being a beta orbitor to an attractive female isn't the worst thing in life, better than being a lonely incel with no friends.

Bro, you’ve got this. Up until now, I think it was a good idea not to expect anything more than a close friendship. But this definitely sounds like a light high school date. The touching in particular is a good sign. Keep up the good work and take it slow. She obviously finds you at least cute, which is something many women like. I think asking her out to a retro arcade is a great idea. You’ll have fun.

Well you didn't get ghosted so that's a start

reading this to me is like tear jerking unreal fiction. This is the every day reality for many normal people and I cant even imagine being in a sutiation like this.