Today was sad but good
30 2018-02-08 by antisocialclubbb
The girl (who I have been posting about) was crying because some of her Stacey friends accused her dad of being a drug dealer and called her a dirty nigger after she yelled at them for saying that. I found her outside crying ( I was about to ditch for the day) and I sat beside her. She just cried on my shoulder and told me everything. I felt so sad, she looked/sounded so heartbroken when she cried. After she collected herself, she got up and said " thanks for listening, I'll see you in History" then left.
So, history class started and instead of sitting with her regular douchebag friends she say with me, a friend who will call C, and this really cool Indian girl( I've talked to her once, turns out she's dating one of my friends sisters)She sat right beside me and all of us began to talk. Turns out the girl is super funny ( she seemed to have cheered up after crying) like she was so funny I couldn't breathe for a few seconds because I was laughing so hard. Then the teacher began to lecture the WHOLE class about how disrespectful our generation is. While the teacher was doing that, the girl began to doodle on my paper little flowers, stars, and HEARTs on my paper. She then started drawing crude little characters that were supposed to be her 'friends' and it was really funny.
I'm still a little shocked about when she drew all the hearts. Do you guys think that me and her I becoming closer? Do you think she likes me?
63 comments
1 Ares-islife 2018-02-08
You're a CUCK! She's using you, she probably sucks Tyrones and Chad dick after that class.
1 zielony4 2018-02-08
Probably true tbh. I hope OP gets out of the friend zone he put himself in. He would probably be a poster FAR above my level of blackpill if he fails.
1 daskettenkrad 2018-02-08
To be fair, we should encourage him to get the fuck out of this subreddit and come back only when he's like, 25 and with no luck still.
That's what I think, anyway.
1 zielony4 2018-02-08
That is true. For now, best case scenario is for him to leave and not come back until about 20, probably not 25.
1 zielony4 2018-02-08
Not sure, we all know how ALL women are. They are backstabbers and betray non Chad's.
I don't get any positive vibes from your posts, but I hope you are successful. My definition of successful, since it would be a good life fuel example for the rest of us, even though you are a high schooler and have more hope than all of us.
1 GoodbyeYall333 2018-02-08
LOL at this, bro you are her beta orbiter, she's using you. You really think the men she sleeps around with listen to her crybaby stories? No they don't, they bust a nut and bail, and she loves them for it.
1 zielony4 2018-02-08
He will end up like one of us incel.life posters, the most insane but rational incels of all communities, if he doesn't push through the friend zone he is trapped in.
1 Build_that_Bear 2018-02-08
Don't read too much in to it, but keep being friendly. Worst case, you made a friend. Best case, you awkwardly try to engage in a high school romance, probably fail, but hopefully learn a lot.
Also, don't listen to any of the retards here. They know literally nothing about women's behavior.
1 mens-libthrowaway 2018-02-08
We'll see what happens. Every second incel on this board has already been through this exact situation and knows what the outcome will be. OP has literally no chance whatsoever, this is clear to any being who has lived as a genetically inferior male.
1 masterd794 2018-02-08
You're probably that way simply because you think that. Girls also like confidence. But there's a fine line between being confident and being a know-it-all cocky jackass.
1 Nancy125 2018-02-08
Confidence isn't confidence when it's executed by an ugly male
1 masterd794 2018-02-08
Hey, confidence won my wife. She says I was a solid 5 when we met.
1 Nancy125 2018-02-08
You have a wife because it settled for you and/or it wants a steady income while lounging doing as it pleases while you wageslave
I’m guessing you know which one
1 masterd794 2018-02-08
Funny, she's an RN, makes just as much money as I do.
I keep her smiling and laughing, she seems to enjoy my company a lot for someone who just settled.
You sure you understand women at all?
1 Nancy125 2018-02-08
Good the former has been established.
1 masterd794 2018-02-08
I'm going to tag along with your post, hope you don't mind.
Op, Dear God, please don't listen to anybody else on this sub. I agree with this guy, don't think too much into what she's doing, and just be her friend. You may not land her as a girlfriend, but that's ok. You'll meet a lot more girls that you could date, with friends that are girls.
1 MrVigor 2018-02-08
Yes. If you get infatuated and view her only as a conquest, you're going to probably be let down. Not because it's impossible but because you have to stop viewing every single female as a potential mate. Just relax and play it cool.
1 sheepshoops 2018-02-08
^
1 Board_Gaming 2018-02-08
Good luck, OP.
1 GoldFuzzy 2018-02-08
I've been following your posts all week nigga. The girl you've been posting about doesn't sound all that bad- I recommend proceeding but with extreme caution and low expectations.
1 mens-libthrowaway 2018-02-08
This is a beta orbiter/friendzone situation. I've been in this position many times myself, the false hope included, and it doesn't end well for anyone but Stacey.
1 _Peanut_Buddha_ 2018-02-08
What’s so bad about being a girls friend? He clearly enjoys her company and whether it ends in a relationship or friendship he has a knew cool and fun person in his life to be around.
1 DoubleSlamJam 2018-02-08
why the fuck would we know
1 sharkb8master 2018-02-08
You should probably take this to r/relationship_advice now.
1 WaylanderTS 2018-02-08
Seconded. A community specifically for people who have problems dating probably aren't the best qualified to give relationship advice.
1 I_is_Reach 2018-02-08
As someone who's been in functional relationships don't go there. They're almost as useless as the guys here
1 TreesnCats 2018-02-08
But they're not male virgins, and thus don't deserve the disrespect we're stuck with.
1 I_is_Reach 2018-02-08
Not being a virgin doesn't make you any more respectable, I know plenty of non-virgins not worthy of the air they breathe. You guys are alright, well, some of you, a lot of you are cancer. Also I'm not convinced half of them over there aren't virgins. In any case if you're looking for relationship advice you should aim higher than 'not virgin'.
1 jaincel 2018-02-08
i wish you the worst in life you piece of shit, I would have appreciated if your post was original but you are clearly a troll who is here just to make us feel jealous
1 antisocialclubbb 2018-02-08
I'm sorry you feel this way, but alas this is real.
1 RstyKnfe 2018-02-08
Good example of why this place can be toxic. You come back to your friends with a happy story and some people want to shit on you just because something good happened to you and not them. As if nothing good could ever happen, and for someone to say otherwise is a lie...
Stories like yours are the essence of life. Making little connections here and there, being able to look back on the day and feel good about it.
1 Farthrownawayyy 2018-02-08
Just do nothing about it and don't pursue this girl who you obviously like. Just don't pursue anything you want ever and then on your deathbed you can pride yourself about how you never got your hopes up and got let down. Sounds totally worth it, never take any shots so you can't ever maybe possibly miss one. /s
1 Incelvester 2018-02-08
this is excellent! Don't come on too strong, keep going straight this pace and remember, friends first! If you get comfortable, get her number or add her on facebook just to chat with her, try hanging out outside of school, don't day date, just hangout, maybe as a group, get to really know her more, you might find love dude! It sounds like she already likes you! Im definitely cheering you on dude!
1 iQ9k 2018-02-08
dis b soundin like some kinda anime. GOOD LUCK AND KEEP US UPDATED
1 samosacel 2018-02-08
Holy shit does every incel lose fifty iq points after sitting next to a roastie?
Here's how it'll go: Incel will get used as an emotional tampon and betabux, racist chad will come over and magically make her forget about him saying racist shit, incel will be alone and roastie will ignore you and everything will be back to the way it was.
Jesus incels are stupid as fuck, I hate this cucked subreddit.
1 sleepingforever1 2018-02-08
You're asking the wrong group of people, go away normie
1 DeadEcosystem 2018-02-08
I'm glad you're taking the first step out of inceldom. This sub will end up hurting you in the future.
You may not have sex with this woman, but she will teach you how to talk with other women naturally, and how to be there when they're feeling down.
Keep up the good work young man!
1 WaylanderTS 2018-02-08
I think its possible, or at least she's considering the idea. Just don't jump the gun, infatuation is a powerful drug. Hits harder than smack/skag/your-slang-for-heroin-here. You're going to want to say some stupid shit. Try to not do that.
1 antisocialclubbb 2018-02-08
Okay! I will watch myself
1 88shawking 2018-02-08
How are you incel if ur still in highschool. The status doesn't start until post college so 23+
1 Purge_Normies 2018-02-08
I hope you make it out of this hell mate. I want to see my fellow incels escape this misery and suffering.
1 GenuinelyMadBro 2018-02-08
You need to keep us updated now! Very happy for you man!
1 antisocialclubbb 2018-02-08
Okay thanks! I will definitely update when we go to the mall and maybe tomorrow if something happens.
1 Burkart92 2018-02-08
MAKE A MOVE! TOMORROW IS FRIDAY!!! ASK HER OUT TO A MOVIE OR MINIGOLF (best first date in my opinion)! If this story is true, then now is the best time in the world to ask her out. If she says no, okay you have your answer and it's time to hurt and move on with life. If you don't pull the trigger your going to be kicking yourself in the ass wondering what could have been. 10 seconds of bravery can lead to countless moments of happiness.
1 antisocialclubbb 2018-02-08
She invited me to go to the mall on Saturday. Just me and her. I just posted about this
1 Burkart92 2018-02-08
Dude fuck yeah, good for you man. I wouldn't buy her anything like extravagant, but offer to take her to the food court. Maybe coffee, or something from the candy store. Shave, dress nice, girls notice those kinds of things. If your nervous cause it's your first date, well guess what? So is she, be nervous, be yourself, and have fun my dude.
1 antisocialclubbb 2018-02-08
I'm not even sure if it's a date though, but I do plan on doing all the stuff you said
1 justforlulzandkeks 2018-02-08
Don't treat it as a date
1 Burkart92 2018-02-08
She said just you and her right?
1 antisocialclubbb 2018-02-08
Yeah
1 Burkart92 2018-02-08
Yeah man it's a date. Unless she brings a friend, she wanted to spend a day just you and her. You got this man!
1 Burkart92 2018-02-08
How'd it go man?
1 Hopecel 2018-02-08
All you dumbcels and low IQ normies falling for the most obvious LARP. Do humanity a favor and off yourselves.
1 KawaiiStarFairy 2018-02-08
Just don't be pushy, or manipulative and it could become something. I'd say wait about 3 weeks before trying to ask her out. That way you can know her better and she can hopefully be in a place where she'd be cool with you asking. It is great to see a post in here where some jack ass isn't wanting to genocide women though. Just say genuinely kind to her and you may get a relationship.
1 antisocialclubbb 2018-02-08
Thank you!!! Hopefully I'll talk to her tomorrow.
1 jotaro_kuj0 2018-02-08
I'm happy for you. May you escape inceldom and live a happy life.
1 antisocialclubbb 2018-02-08
Thank youuu!
1 warmestblack 2018-02-08
Mods, this kids trolling.
1 MetricPaper1 2018-02-08
Hey bro, reading your posts man I'm glad for you but just remember to be cool. Build a friendship with her and in time if something is there between you guys It'll happen naturally and if not you made a new friend.
1 ummyourdaddy 2018-02-08
"Houston, OP's approaching the orbit"
"Roger that. Preparing the crash site. Braincels on standby. Godspeed, OP"
1 pocketfoxpocket 2018-02-08
Sometimes we just doodle hearts because we are happy. It sounds like you cheered her up though and the rest of the story indicates that she wouldn't be closed off to more interaction. You are doing an awesome job of just taking it slow, keep building on that and who knows, maybe it will move in a really positive direction. Worst case scenario you did something kind and kindness is never wasted.
1 fuckitidunno 2018-02-08
Ah young love, I miss feeling like that over a girl. I hope she does like you OP, this was very sweet.
1 reallyuglyasianguy 2018-02-08
shes just using you as beta bux bro
1 antisocialclubbb 2018-02-08
Thank youuu!