It's great you made her happy! 😀

do you think she should return the favor

She clearly did make.him happy. Have you read what he wrote about feeling awesome? That is how it works.

she will probably forget this guys existence by next week and go back to bullying him

Please do not listen to them. Delete this post. The incels want you to fail because they cannot stand people being happy.

There isn't any sort of success related to inceldom here.

Speak for yourself. I've seen many incels post encouraging things to OP, including myself. I told the kid he has no business being here at his age.

True. He's too young to waste hia most precious years here. There's no hope for oldcels though.

Speak for yourself.

you proved your beta male status by giving her a candy (feminine gift), she has sensed your lack of alpha male traits and now the female human will bully you for being feminine, you are her new prey

He got a hug tho

The people in this sub wish they could get anywhere near a girl, let alone hug her.

No such thing as a beta anything. It's made up. And who cares if she does respect him less. He did a cool nice thing. Fuck her if she thinks badly of him for it.

You know what that shows, that it isn't because of you but because of the hivemind at school that you are being bullied. I dont know you, so sure, you may have done things to make people judge you and make an impression of you. Hence maybe why her group seems against you. But this shows that second chances are possible in new environments and most importantly that people DO like you.

When you go to college or start a new job, treating her and others the way you are doing and forgetting the shitbags and the negative affect they had on you. Could be the break you needed for a chill and happy life. :)

I will ISIS his ass b4 he turns into a bluepill cuck. a dead incel is better than a cuckcel

So a dead unhappy selfish person is better than an unhappy selfless person? At least trying to be nice to others and making the world better than how it treats you is more noble than whatever you are on about.

Be the change you wish to see in the world.

i'm forced 2 act ''nice'' 2 women in real life, but on the inside i'm thinking of sexually assaulting them. i have a twisted mind lol

If you don't mind me asking. Why? Are you only nice to men then? Why does the gender matter when it comes to being nice to someone. Is it only because of your sexual attraction getting in the way?

well I don't hate all women, only the sjws type of men. for example I don't hate nerdy females, in fact I have a nerdy female friend. but nerdy girls aren't my type do it doesn't matter

please be a troll please be a troll

Yo you little cunt what is the whole purpose of this incel community when there are always people like you putting your fellow comrades down?

Ohh look. A deleted account.

Why so bitter? Why don't you feel glad for your fellow comrad? I though this sub's supposed to be supportive towards incels.

BTW congrats OP

He hasn't really achieved anything other than get himself ridiculed by her social group.

Wow, you mean you got laid by giving it some candy? I'm so happy for you, congrats.

I was unsarcastic about the seat part.

Why bother? The only thing you got out of it was a girl reminding you what all girls think of you.

Yea, just look at how the other people reacted. The person he gave the candy to only reacted like that because it benefitted from something/someone.

Clearly she whipped up that much enthusisiasm because of the material worth of the candy.

Yep, now, it'll lead OP on because of all the excellent prizes that are in store, and then will go to a Chad once he is out of resources. I'm glad I never spent a dime on a woman or orbited one. I'm blessed in a way.

You are bitter because he is happy. How sad.

Show me where I said that.

I do not have to show it for it to be true. It is obvious for literally anyone reading your comments and knowing what you usually write on this sub. Such a pathetic jealous being you are.

You sound soooooooooooooooooo bitter.

Okay?

Weren’t you saying you weren’t? Or that you hadn’t made any comments like that? It’s really sad that you have to shit all over OPs happy moment and be so negative. It’s not always all bad. There is good in the world.

I sarcastically congratulated him about the candy, and I genuinely congratulated him about the chair thing. Doesn't sound bitter to me. I luckily wasn't like him when I was in high school.

Is he happy? He gave some candy to a girl and then her friends bullied him. What an achievement.

didnt happen

Were you there?

You got this my dude.

That’s great! She seemed happy about it too. And she didn’t care what her friends thought about you. That was nice of you and she liked it. 👍

I agree. Truly sweet of him to give her the candy. Plus, you know when you have a shit week and someone does something like this for you and it just makes everything so much better? That's what this guy did. He made it easier and better, and he made her feel worthwhile and I'm sure she really appreciates him.

As for her friends, if she's anything like me or my friends she'll get very angry after hearing about that bitch mistreating him. If she's not aware, she'll probably see that behavior happen soon and hopefully shut it down asap.

She seems like a nice person.

Ignore her bitch friends. They don’t matter in the grand scheme of things.

She probably really appreciated you being so generous and kind when she’s having a bad week.

They don’t matter in the grand scheme of things.

LOL

Ignoring isn't the always the best option. When someone's insulting you like that (woman,man)you make it clear that no one talks to you like that. Dominate don't be submissive and cry in a fucking thread. That's your dignity you lose. Because you sitting in someone's fav place doesn't mean he has the right to insult you that's more than just bad behaviour

Ignoring isn't the always the best option. When someone's insulting you like that (woman,man)you make it clear that no one talks to you like that. Dominate don't be submissive and cry in a fucking thread. That's your dignity you lose. Because you sitting in someone's fav place doesn't mean he has the right to insult you that's more than just bad behaviour

But he did stand up to her friend by refusing to move and ignoring her.

I agree you shouldn’t just let people bully you, but ignore assholes isn’t a bad thing.

Ofc it's mostly better to ignore idiots. But when you have to deal with such assholes on a daily basis (school/work) you have to make a statement. Ignoring will not stop it

Moat girls decide who to date based on her friend's approval, especially in high school.

Key word is most.

Not all.

High school boys do it too.

Maybe he really meant moat girls. As in girls who live in moats. How presumptuous of you! Those slutty moat girls. Always treating all the non moat guys like freaks. :)

It's always the moat girls slutting around.

Moat girls = girls that are like moats to stop you from saving princesses in castles.

Friend zoned it's over. If chad gave her candy she would have sucked his HUGE Cock right there in front of everyone.

Why are you so obsessed with huge cocks wtf

How long is it going to take you to realize he's a caricature account? The way you genuinely ask him and other concern trolls questions makes you look like a gullible child.

I can do whatever I want and I could easily treat any of you guys as trolls anyway because incels are so stereotypically dense.

You're calling incels dense yet anyone with the reading comprehension of a prepubescent schoolgirl could tell you /u/Tallguy_87 is at the extreme end of incel satire yet you're here daily asking him to explain himself, the equivalent of trying to converse with the bots on /r/SubbredditSimulator.

He is saying the same shit other incels are. Others join the discussion and then whether it was a bait or not becomes irrelevant because the issue exists nonetheless.

You have the discernment skills and awareness of a plank of wood. If you can't tell the difference between the mild and extreme satire on this sub, you need to hop back on whatever short bus that brought you here.

It's ok I am convinced she wants my short girly penis all to herself.

I'm convinced this guy is a troll

Oh please. How often have you seen that happening? Can’t you just be happy for someone without commenting stuff like this?

Congrats you have made it to orbiter status

Not too bad tbh. Too bad her Stacy friends are cunts because you're sub8 but at least she doesn't seem to be a bitch from the looks of it

So happy for you! Do not listen to what bitter incels will say. You are happy and that is what counts.

I literally also made a post asking for your update.

if she hugged you then you were never really an incel, youre an attention seeking insecure fakecel like most people here, I am neutral about your experience but it would be better if you posted it in some feelgood subreddit because you are anything but incel. Truecels have it so bad that even their mothers wont hug them, if you feel offended im sorry

Your mom doesn't hug you?

Mine doesn't.

You have someone else maybe?

No...

If you want something you have to stand up and get it. You're important and you have to feel like that. Do something

Definitely. I'm going to grab a woman from the street and force it to hug me. Dire consequences will be enforced if they refuse. If anyone asks, I will take a picture of your comment and say that you told me to do this.

What are the consequences? When you don't touch her unapropriate they only thing that can happen is rejection. And if you don't know her why give a fuck?

Like????

When you see a girl you think is attractive(and you don't know personally) and she isn't sourrounded by a lot of her friends just approach her smile and say you've had a bad day or something like that. Just ask. Can i get a hug. Sounds stupid but it works if you want and have the balls to get over a rejection

No. That'll make them less likely to hug me.

It worked for me. It's just an example the biggest problem is overthinking and anxiety

this is horrible advice, don't ever fucking do this

So incelvester do you have a better advice or still virgin?

Yeah, don't go up to a woman you don't know and ask for a hug. Thats literally being a creep

He said no one hugs him sad enough. It was just an example. When you can't even talk to girls like most incels and build a relationship in any way where hugging or more is natural than you have to resort to other tactics or did you create this subreddit only to whine that no one likes you?

im sad

Here's a picture/gif of a cat, hopefully it'll cheer you up :).

I am a bot. use !unsubscribetosadcat for me to ignore you.

going up to women you don't know and asking them to hug you is creepy. Plain and simple dude. And yeah, this subs entire purpose is to vent about being lonely...

It has something to do with self esteem dude. Doesn't matter if anyone think it's creepy . When you have the balls to do shit like this and you will mostly get rejected by doing such things you'll not have a problem to talk to a girl in a bar or ask her out etc. I mean are you teens or why is even a hug something you care that much about. And yes i know but you just complain , be negative and put other people down. Atleast most of you

I'm 26, strangers don't want anything to do with other strangers, especially not giving them a hug. Dont be ridiculous

Most of you say that you're to ugly to girls notice you. I can't believe that so i think it's maybe your behaviour.

"Ugly people don't exist"

Yeah okay dude

There are more things in heaven and earth, Horatio, Than are dreamt of in your philosophy. - Hamlet (1.5.167-8), Hamlet to Horatio

This Stacey friend who disrespected you what was your response? Did you made it clear that no one has the right to talk to you like that especially someone like this ?

Shame on the females here egging you on.

This is absolute cuck/beta mentality that is going to put you into friendzone or niceguy territory. Her friends will poke fun of this and shell be like her "o he just a friend".

Make her happy makes you happy? What? She is a Stacy. She lives life on Halo Effect. Why do you need to maker her happy for shes fine.

Thats fine then. Though her friends are major dicks from the sound of it.

Would you do this for a male? Of course you wouldn't. You should already know this is not how you fuck a girl, they don't give a shit about gifts from ugly betas.

I'm not sure about what kinds of friends you have, but if my friends got a birthday, I'll buy him or her something sweet like candy, a drink, a cookie ect. and they sometimes do the same.

They were "somewhat friends" aka talked a couple times in class. Would you buy candy for every classmate you talked to? No, it was a courting maneuver of an ugly incel.

I mean, I kinda did once on the last day of school. Our class was split in two for a quiz-competition on the last day of school, and with our team loosing, I 'went to the bathroom' and bought some cheap red licoeice that were on sale for everyone in my team for 10ish bucks. Most of the people I'd spoken to once or twice the whole year, but there's no reason to be nice to people even if you dont know them. You may make someone's day, or even week, with small acts of kindness.

Much different context here as you're buying stuff for your team rather than for a specific person you're desperately trying to court.

On another note OP is not actually an incel and too young to be one and be on here anyway. I feel sad when people that young get blackpilled.

That I can kinda agree with, though my question is why would you come to an Incel subreddit to discuss dating? I dont want to come off as insulting, but I though incels hate women?

Some incels hate women, some don't. I'm in the latter part. It's very easy to slip into hate when all you received from women all your life is disgust and contempt, though.

I can understand that. If the only women you meet are manipulative, stuck up, selfish and use others, I'd hate them too. Tbh, I know a few like that, and I consider myself lucky I managed to get them out of my life, but I also know guys who are just as manipulative, stuck up and selfish. I feel like many incels could feel better both about being with girls and themselves if they found girls interested in similar things. For example, find girls who wholeheartedly love videogames, or tabletop games, or miniature painting, and just talk to them.

The world of full of shitty assholes, but there's always a few genuinely nice people in the crowd.

You misunderstand. It's not about women being manipulative, stuck up and selfish. Nice girls you'd see everyday will treat someone like me with contempt just because of my appearance. They might do charity of volunteer or be good people all around, but if you're ugly you don't deserve basic human dignity in a woman's eyes. That doesn't make them bad people, they evolved to be disgusted by genetically inferior males like me.

Also, incel=/= nerd. You assume that incel must mean some WoW playing introvert but that's not the case. It's not about interests and personality for people on here or on incels.me, it's all face.

I'll have to admit that what I know about incels is from people who aren't incels, so I may have some generalizations or misconseptions.

Is it possible that some incels, not all, misinterpret what people are thinking, and have self-confidence problems or have personal issues with their appearance? Maybe women aren't being hateful and disgusted to them, but instead are acting indifferent due to being a stranger.

You're describing a mentalcel.

So there are different kinds of incels based on why they hate women?

hate women

Sorry, I shouldn't be generalizing. Are there different types of incels based on the reasons they or others would call them incels?

Yes there are different types of incels based on their reasons for incelness.

Volcels, currycels, wristcels (lol), mentalcels, trucels etc

Is there a place I could get a list of some sort? I'd be interested in learning about incels from incels to avoid an echo chamber.

google it

Alright, I'll see if i can find some Incel sites.

Thanks for taking the time to have a discussion.

Taking advice on how to get women to sleep with them from people like you is like going to culinary school to become a pilot. Please, do not listen to these imbecilic basement dwellers.

What makes you think i'm a basement dweller?

It's a generalization type of phrase. I do not know if you actually live in a basement because I thankfully do not know you. I'm simply commenting on your abhorrent personality and clear lack of anything resembling social skills. I was inferring, from these character traits you've displayed, that you do not interact with people in real life, at least in anything close to a positive way. Therefore, I used the phrase "basement dweller" to insinuate that you likely do not get much social interaction, in a similar fashion to someone who primarily resides (dwells/dwelling, if you will) in a basement.

Do you understand now?

I went out with some friends yesterday, though. Seems like you're full of shit.

Do you spew this hateful rhetoric to them too? Do they share your views?

Hateful? In what way?

To be fair, I don't specifically mean you. I mean your community of incels, and the general belief system 99% of you have. You hate men and women who you wrongly perceive to be "better" than you because of purely physical characteristics.

So you're assuming I'm hateful because of your own preconceptions of what incels are? Yeah you're full of shit.

They're not preconceptions about incels when there is an abundance of evidence on this sub that they are indeed like that. I also provided you with your own quote, showing a hateful comment you made extremely recently. You guys just like to argue, right? Since it is everybody and everything else's fault that you are the way you are. /s

Nobody chooses to be born ugly.

Your physical appearance is just part of the equation. I know a number of genuinely ugly men who are absolutely great people, and they're all either married or in great relationships.

Any pics of them?

You're seriously asking me to share pictures of friends of mine online, with a total stranger, to prove that they are ugly? What is wrong with you? Seriously, please answer my question. Do you share your incel opinions with your friends in real life. You continue to evade this point.

No proof? What a coincidence.

I function very well as a normal person. Due to my appearance most people likely assume I'm a virgin, but I never touch the topic. If dating comes up in conversations with my friends I contribute with worthless platitudes that are spewed on here like personality.

No, I will not send you pictures of friends of mine as examples of "ugliness". I'm sorry. How ugly can you actually be?

Okay, so you're dishonest with your friends, and say things just to avoid sharing your true opinion? You don't believe those "worthless platitudes", but you still contribute them, as if you believed them? Why wouldn't you be honest with friends, and share how you actually feel?

How do you think I actually feel?

Self-pity, self-loathing, self-absorption, complete and total misanthropy, and possibly a desire to see others fail too, just because you seemingly don't think you could ever find something resembling a romantic relationship with a woman. I don't know if you hate women specifically like a lot of others on here seem to, so I won't assume that about you.

I'm only the first two, though. Why would you share that with others? Nobody wants to socialize with a melancholic person.

If you’re just melancholic, aren’t you just an individual suffering from depression? What differentiates an incel from someone who is depressed then? And what makes you an incel? Serious question, honestly.

Let's break this down.

You're an incel if you're over 20 and have never kissed/had sex with a girl or been shown interest by a girl. If a girl ever showed interest with you and you autismed out then you're not a incel, you're a mentalcel aka a volcel. If you fucked a prostitute you're still an incel.

Feeling melancholic/sad is not depression. Do some research into depression to understand what it is.

Do you really believe that women “generally have very easy lives” and “an endless supply of mates”? So... women can’t be incels then you mean?

Yes? Rare exceptions might apply to the very badly deformed, though.

There we go. We took the long route, but I figured we’d get there sooner or later. Thanks for the insight.

It's a pretty obvious statement.

It is. It paints a perfectly clear picture for me of why you are the way you are.

What does women being able to find partners easily have to do with ugliness?

Your idiotic claim that women have a very easy life. You generalized an entire gender, just because you've never had sex and you assume its because of some belief that you're hideous. Well.. let me see what you're talking about then. Let me see a picture of you. I genuinely believe it is most likely because of your personality and resulting awkwardness around women that you haven't had a romantic or physical relationship, rather than your looks. I'm inviting you to prove me wrong.

Post your ugly chad slayers friends first.

You're not understanding the fundamental issue here. I'm not posting pictures of friends of mine without their consent, and I'm not going to insult them by asking if I can post their pictures as proof of "ugly" friends. You, on the other hand, are fully capable of sending or posting a picture of yourself, especially because you've already accepted your own truth of your supposed shortcomings physically. I'm handing you a perfect opportunity here, to prove you're right and show me that you're so hideous that it cannot possibly be your personality that is hindering your ability to be with women.

That's too bad.

Thank you, sincerely, for proving my point. Have as good one.

top kek

I also just noticed, you never answered my question. Do you spew this same stuff to your friends in real life, the ones you claim to have gone out with yesterday? Do they share your views as well?

What stuff is that?

This incel shit. Its a really easy question. I'm asking you if you talk to your real life friends about this stuff.

What the fuck is "this incel shit".

Are you serious? Its like talking to a wall with you people. You know exactly what I'm talking about. This self-pity, defeated, dejected shit. The misogynistic tendencies. Everything. You know exactly what I am talking about.

You're a retard.

You're a retard.

Oh congrats man! I hope you two end up together and you can forget about being an incel.

I’m so sorry the other girl was so awful to you. Really proud of you for going for it though! I think it went well! And even if she isn’t the one the point is you are putting yourself out there and getting more confident about approaching women. Sounds like you will do just fine.

That amusing that at the second you are nice, people automatically became terrible to you. Wait a minute, I mean depressing. You better not become a doormat because someone made you a compliment once.

You did good man, don't sorry about her friends, bitches will always be bitches, but your friend seems cool, even if you don't end up dating her, friendship is a treasure

As a bonus you are cultivating experience with women. Even if this doesn't work out you have made huge steps forward!

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I knew that you had it in you , OP

Its really cool that you overcame your anxiety and it all turned out well for you! Kudos dude!

You're already reaping the positive reward, I hope it continues for you

Good job! Ignore the other girl. Some people are just rude for no reason

Congratulations bro! You seem like a very sweet guy; you value the friendship and don’t expect sex in return. This kind of thing will shape you into a socially competent human being and that definitely helps after high school.

Her bitch friends won’t affect how she treats you. Don’t let them get to you. Enjoy the many little things you can get, such as the hug and the joy of making a friend happy.

Most importantly, don’t let the toxic hateful members of this group get to you. Best of luck

This was by far the sweetest post I’ve seen recently. Put a smile on my face. I bet that girl was unbelievably grateful. Good on you, OP!

Great move, well done. It's actually really thoughtful of you!

Good job. That’s the way to do it. You wanted to do something nice and you did it. She appreciated it and showed gratitude. You’re doing it, and you’re doing it well. People around here will call you a chad or a Normie before long.

Well this made me smile. I'm proud of you. You did what a man does and did something nice and caring for someone special to you. Superb job, man. Try not to internalize this black pill stuff at your age. It will affect how you view situations and thats no bueno.

Bro, good on you. Read about the initial post, and just gonna say that if 1% of the people who frequent this sub had your human decency, the world would be a much better plave

You did good bro!

I told you. You're not a beta if you gave the candy and if anything, you are acting with a lot of courage doing what you did. Jerks are always going to be jerks so don't worry about that friend. However, don't go trying to make enemies! Friends can make or break you in some cases but this girl seems to be pretty racist and just a downright bad person whereas she appears to much nicer. Don't expect anything in return, keep talking to her, and if you can find a way to talk to her regularly outside of school. Psychologically, attraction is strengthened with proximity meaning that the more you are in contact with her the more attracted you will be to each other. Continue to be your self and have courage. I have confidence that in time you will find a happy ending. It I also important to remember if your feelings are rejected by this girl you don't take it very hard. Half of this entire world's population is women so there will always be someone new to meet. Good luck!

one of her Stacey friends came up to me and said " your such a fucking chink! You're a major freak".

defend this, women

women are racists

well i'm not asking men am i

No defense for it, she sounds like complete trashpile of a person.

This is the wholesome joy reddit needs and deserves. Happy for you that she reacted as you thought she would :)

You're the man. You did the right thing. Keep it up, keep being awesome. Remember that one day you will leave school and none of them will matter, except the one you made happy.

what joy do you get out of making shit up?

This is very nice of you, man, congratulations.

You're awesome buddy. Don't let those girls ever make you think otherwise

r/cuckcels

I was right about teasing but glad that you did it and relatively well as well.

Good for you bro.

I'm so proud of you!

Excellent, way to go, dude. You did a really nice thing. The same could not be said for her trash friends.

Though are they her friends, or are they just people you've seen her talking to? People can get jealous when they see other people getting something they, themselves aren't (case in point, some of the bitter posts even on this board.) So maybe they were just sour grapes that she seems to have more thoughtful people in her life than they do.

Great job man! Just ignore all the hate. You nailed this encounter especially with her bitch ass friends and all. Just keep being nice to this girl and see where it goes from here.

Alright, Noncel here with some advice. Now that you have established a positive relationship with a women you need to extend it and strategic friendzone yourself with her. Maintain the positive relationship and kill her other friends with kindness no matter how bitchy they are. Once they finally capitulate to your kindness and stop regarding you as subhuman scum the it is time to PIVOT. This is where you tell the girl you need to find a girl that will date you but you don't know what level of an ugly loser you are so she should try to play matchmaker by recommending what girls would be viable within your status level. I mean literally tell her "I don't know what level of an ugly loser I am so maybe you could play matchmaker by recommending what girls would be viable at my level of loser status" . Girls generally love playing matchmaker and if you have established a long pattern of not being a totally defective creep you can get girls to vouch for you to other lower status girls. Getting vouched for by a higher status female instantaneously removes a HUUUGE amount of social stigma from dating you. Sometimes there are no viable candidates but just hold out and maintain position until the opportunity comes along. This is a great tactic to get your first involvement with a lady. When you date the girl they suggest, be kind and respectful, make sure she doesn't have a miserable experience because if you creep out on her the other girls will not vouch for you anymore and the first one may not work out at all but you have to regroup and learn lessons from each one which ups your game.

Play the long game.

thank me later.

Pretty much every guy starts out involuntarily celibate

This is awful advice. Never disparage yourself, at all. Be confident, don't call yourself ugly... this absolutely is garbage advice, please do not listen to this person. Do not friendzone yourself, ever. If she decides on her own she just wants to be friends, respect her wishes and be a great friend. But don't intentionally manipulate the situation into being just friends, and don't call yourself ugly. Wow, you'd think this would be common sense...

I meant try first and then go with that as plan B. These posts are fake anyways

Go get em tiger

They probably hate you because you did something nice for her and they didnt

Thats fine then. Though her friends are major dicks from the sound of it.

You have the discernment skills and awareness of a plank of wood. If you can't tell the difference between the mild and extreme satire on this sub, you need to hop back on whatever short bus that brought you here.

Would you do this for a male? Of course you wouldn't. You should already know this is not how you fuck a girl, they don't give a shit about gifts from ugly betas.

This is awful advice. Never disparage yourself, at all. Be confident, don't call yourself ugly... this absolutely is garbage advice, please do not listen to this person. Do not friendzone yourself, ever. If she decides on her own she just wants to be friends, respect her wishes and be a great friend. But don't intentionally manipulate the situation into being just friends, and don't call yourself ugly. Wow, you'd think this would be common sense...

No, I will not send you pictures of friends of mine as examples of "ugliness". I'm sorry. How ugly can you actually be?

Okay, so you're dishonest with your friends, and say things just to avoid sharing your true opinion? You don't believe those "worthless platitudes", but you still contribute them, as if you believed them? Why wouldn't you be honest with friends, and share how you actually feel?